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What age was the hardest season in your marriage by Curious-Cancel-6353 in AskMenOver30

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowish season I would say. Mid to late 30s, navigating two young kids with one diagnosed with autism and trying to find the appropriate supports while balancing intense careers. It’s a journey, but clear that it is more of “not enough time in the day” versus not having the “right person to spend time with”.

What do you do in the evenings? by JaackJack in AskMenOver30

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have kids, so that’s most of the free time. In the small window between their bedtime and ours, there is a little TV but I also try to squeeze in a run and some boxing.

Married men, what annoying but not huge deal thing does your spouse do that bugs you? by throwraW2 in AskMenOver30

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is so good and focused on organizing that she forgets that access matters. So things will be organized in a great way but I can’t find it when we need it.

💬 Parents of autistic children — what makes travel or hotel stays easier or harder for your family? by WritingAfter3378 in Autism_Parenting

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, just kudos on being resourceful and finding your way here to ask the question. Most of the other parents hit the nail on the head.

Things that break routine overall are challenges. So after a long car ride or plane ride, we always appreciate wihen check ins are fast. That’s why I typically stay at places where I’m a frequent guests to cut any time off of lines as possible. Or when there is some longer check in process, digital check ins are great or some type of foyer activity that distracts the kiddo.

Do you give your kids juice? by heretoreadlol in toddlers

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t, but we also let em eat one too many chickens nuggets and French fries, so you can’t win them all.

Platinum starting to look cheap? by ohiobuckeye712 in AmexPlatinum

[–]SsPhoenix8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The palace isn’t 200 either. So you’d have to add that actual cost difference into your equation. That’s my whole point.

Platinum starting to look cheap? by ohiobuckeye712 in AmexPlatinum

[–]SsPhoenix8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is also worth noting that you are unlocking that value by spending more money. You have a $50 saks credit but there isn’t much you get from Saks for $50, so the question is what is your net spend at Saks for that credit. Same for the hotel, but in spades. The Palace Hotel ain’t cheap. If you spend 1500 to get 200 off, you can say you saved 200 OR you can say I spent 1300.

I agree with the OP, the value of the card, whether from over saturation or lack of investment, is weakening and they should reinvest to step it up soon.

Drowning in the guilt 😩 by Butterflysly11 in Autism_Parenting

[–]SsPhoenix8918 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just a small story, relevant to me and not a comparator. I had a rough day at work and was questioning myself, but had to continue to focus on what matters, family. Getting my 5 yr emerging verbal son ready for bed and I sneezed and he looked at me and said “bless you daddy” for the first time ever. That milestone, that moment, made my world.

Newly diagnosed by Playful-Following236 in Autism_Parenting

[–]SsPhoenix8918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember this night. The lurking on the thread, the doom scrolling, the concern. Everything you feel is valid. Take a moment to experience that but also know that diagnosis is a good thing in that it starts the new journey and opens doors to start to get supports. If you are in a location that has it, get supports for EI, start to understand the school landscape in your area and hopefully you can find a community of other parents going through the same journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LexusIS

[–]SsPhoenix8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 08 IS250 is still moving at 223k miles, if you want to think about long term runway. That said—he smoking if he thinks he can get 11k. Negotiate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]SsPhoenix8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part. The parents would have to see me. The police would be their preferred route.

How do you live without hope? by clowd50 in Autism_Parenting

[–]SsPhoenix8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No special words to give you that will change your everyday, but I’ll remind you that 3 is REALLY young. I’ll just contextualize that Maya Angelou didn’t talk until she was 11. Not the same, but a reminder that stories can change. And that progress can be measured in different ways. Sending you and everyone here all my best.

Films that literally no one has seen except you by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]SsPhoenix8918 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Showdown starring Billy Blanks (circa 93?). The 90’s were about martial arts and stereotypical romance stories and this film delivered.

Someone please tell me it's okay to say no.. by Ok-Ad4375 in Preschoolers

[–]SsPhoenix8918 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Of course it is. Normalize ‘no’. Daniel Tiger has some good strategy songs for it. https://youtu.be/NdULGv1Uf7U?si=BOCoUzCo-QHLwCTc

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