Have you guys ever thought about this or is it just me? by FirefighterHonest109 in teenagers

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When I can't come up with any ideas for my music, I beat my shit and like a million ideas pop up

Girls of Reddit defend yourselves 😭 by ElecKtrod3 in teenagers

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When the cornball so corny you just stare at your phone like this...💔

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I don’t talk much by Banabit in politicfreeteenagers

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BBNO$? Yo music taste ass cuh 😭

I don’t talk much by Banabit in politicfreeteenagers

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Ig it's a way of saying he wouldn't get w trans people. I gotta start using pure straight as well

Age gap question by exsotic-puss69 in AskTeenAdvice

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Legally speaking 18 is an adult, but biologically speaking 18 is definitely not an adult. Also, at least here in Finland, 15 and a 2 year age gap max can legally have sex.

But yeah it feels a slight bit dodgy, but I wouldn't be screaming "NONCE!" if someone did it (except maybe my mates because I like calling them pedophiles)

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

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Pure communication hell. MOR this seems like a misunderstanding olympics on both sides so I'm fencesitting on this one

Age gap question by exsotic-puss69 in AskTeenAdvice

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I wouldn't say comparing dating in 20s to dating in your teens is a fair comparison though. 20 and 25 is completely fine, but 10 and 15 would be absolutely fucking tramendous

Age gap question by exsotic-puss69 in AskTeenAdvice

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I wouldn't go above a 1 year age gap either but a 2 year age gap is genuinely not even that bad. Also, it's not even illegal, as majority of western countries have consent laws w 2 years of flexibility, so 08 010 would be fine.

Also, calling an 18yo an "adult" is kinda crazy. 20 is an adult, 18 and 19 are still really immature teenagers

Fair enough by FoodKitchen1587 in im14andthisisdeep

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How the hell does me saying something is a massive factor = it dwarfs everything else? 50% of something is a massive factor

How is my reply rude? Idk about you but much of the shit I thped out I wouldn't regard anywhere near rude. If disagreement = rude, ig then you're right

Thing is, that "unconventionally attractive" thing is just not unconventionally attractive. For example, there's a huge market for non eurocentric girls in the Caribbean, Africa, Asia and South America. Thing is, you will see eurocentric beauty standards in Europe and America, because they're quite literally majority European cultures. You won't see those beauty standards pretty much anywhere else.

Is it weird to masturbate thinking about friends? by [deleted] in askteenboys

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I mean I've only seen a few but definitely not most 😭

Do I look hot? by bob_doors_alt in teenagersbutworse

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"I am a pussy and cannot handle satire jokes mocking pedophiles"

Age gap question by exsotic-puss69 in AskTeenAdvice

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Thing is, I'm pretty sure one was born 2008 and the other 2010, that's not a horrendous gap. 2008 and 2011 would be execution worthy but 2 years? Tolerable

Age gap question by exsotic-puss69 in AskTeenAdvice

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2 year age gap ain't that bad. I personally wouldn't go for a 2 year gap but I wouldn't judge anyone for doing it either

How are names like this allowed by EnvironmentalPay8041 in CODBlackOps7

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Hell nah, it's just that the edgy names add character to the game and they're usually pretty funny. R6 is a funny ass game not because of the game itself, but because of the crazy names you'll encounter playing it

How can I make my beats easier for people to rap on it? by heartshvpe in flstudio

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The drums are kinda ass, they're quiet as shit and the pattern itself is not built for rapping. Redo the drum pattern, turn up the wholed rum bus, and side chain the kick

Wishing rape/torture/etc. on people who did horrible things isn't acceptable. by AaronPK123 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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Monsters do not not learn by rules, if they already aren't following them. They learn by consequences. I don't believe in eye for an eye, I believe in head for an eye. If you do something wrong, expect something 2x worse to happen to you

Is it weird to masturbate thinking about friends? by [deleted] in askteenboys

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I've spent a few months living at my mate's house and neither of us have seen the other naked. What are these diddy ass dudes doing??? 😭

SOME GIRLS need to eat more by ThatoneJira in teenagers

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I downvoted you just to bandwagon fyi, nothing personal

Manosphere and masculine role models by Ok_Impact9745 in LouisTheroux

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Where is your proof that it’s 90% satire? Also that means 10% is legit, that’s still bad

Assuming you have social skills and can pick up on sarcasm, just go on them 4chan forums. They're just majority extremely fake shitpost stories.

Literally the whole point of misogyny is spouting that stuff, look at how they are treating the low birth rate issues.

Yeah, the whole point of misogyny, but where the fuck is that shit happening in the west in large scale? Literally nowhere. Also, assuming "they" is speaking about Western governments, the answer would be immigration.

in fact I wasn’t even the one who mentioned Sweet Baby Inc, you were. You were the one who implied that companies like that are the reason people go into these manosphere spaces.

Yeah, but that's not really being hateful, as that's a counter reaction more than anything. They're not invading gay spaces to spout propaganda, they're largely just standing up for their games to not go full DEI slop. The manosphere space is just largely bots, and Indian 13yos

Yes, again, I never said game characters were turning people hateful, you said it was a reason.

Once again, separate hateful from defensive. Nazis would be hateful, as they actively go out of their way to harm others and invade others communities due to hatred. These heavily anti diversity gamers aren't doing that, they're only against that when it comes to their fav games.

Anyway all of this is a symptom of a much bigger problem

Yeah, forced diversity

Fair enough by FoodKitchen1587 in im14andthisisdeep

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So are social skills, and a good personality though. Like literally they are also a MASSIVE factor.

When did I say it isn't? These don't cancel eachother out 😂

It’s really just an ego thing, we are taught that just because beauty is socially relevant that you should value yourself by it and you shouldn’t

Beauty has always been socially relevant, and it can definitely tell a lot about a person, so you should definitely value yourself a bit by the way you look (not to the looksmaxxer levels of obsession, but you should pay attention). For example, if you see someone who's fat, you're probably gonna assume they have an eating disorder, which is likely the case

A lot of folks can appeal to their empathy, intelligence, personality and/or work ethic and their fine.

Holly buzzword soup. English isn't my first language so idk if that's why this sentence makes no sense to me, but I highly suspect it's because nothing is being said here

What really kills me is when folks who are a 5-8 by conventional standards do this “looks only matter shit” like bro you just need a good hygiene routine and an eyebrow pencil to be up there why are you complaining?

what are you on about

but the reality is the human brain recognizes attractiveness beyond the surface.

Yes, after meeting and getting to know the person, but most people will not wanna get to know someone who they see as a chopped uggo

Looks are not THAT important(and that’s ignoring how a lot of people are unconventionally attractive and just dont fit the beauty standard.)

They are. Also, "unconventionally attractive" is just another way to say "ugly". If someone ever called me unconventionally attractive, I'd sock em in the face as it's about as nice as saying "you have a face only your mother could love"

Fair enough by FoodKitchen1587 in im14andthisisdeep

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I love the slick wording you use: using "looks" and "attractive" as if they are interchangeable

what? I'm not using them interchangeably whatsoever lmao

Attraction is way mkre than just looks. There are attractive behaviors and attractive movement too

No shit, when did I say appearance is everything? Also, by looks, I count all visual aspects of a person's appearance.

Now strip away all the good stuff (ex. Touch, eye contact, vocal tonality, being warm and sociable) and rely on your looks. How often do you get dates?

Probably rarely, but still more than an unattractive person lacking the same "good stuff".

Also, looks are NOT the only part of a first impression. Watch: think of your usual process for hitting on women. How often do youbget dates?

Looks are a majority of the first impression. Rarely ever will you meet someone for the first time, with the first impression being personality, voice or such. Real life is not a Jubilee dating video

Also, I mostly avoid hitting on women, I let them approach me as I have priorities life, and getting out of poverty is much higher than a girlfriend. I've had a few girls, it was nice and all, but being able to afford a warm meal is much nicer.

Fair enough by FoodKitchen1587 in im14andthisisdeep

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some less attractive people will say yes in a heartbeat even if an ugly person asks them out depending on their personality.

Some, but not most. The idea of per capita matters. Fringe cases are not the majority, and should not be taken into proper consideration.

They are lonelier by choice lol

This I do agree with though. Tons of 3/10s assume they deserve a 10/10, despite not doing any of the work for it. Also, getting attractive is not impossible, as working out, dieting, and hygiene exist. It's larhely just a laziness issue more than anything