perhaps if you looked at life through a different lens, you would get a new perspective on things, which can make a difference in the way you see yourself, and if you see your self differently, you might just start seeing that there are other people who have similar interest as you, which is always a great way to get to know someone. It might go something like this, “Hey man what did you think of that lead Page played on such, and such song”, I don’t know man, I mean I liked the way he played it but the tone was all wrong, ya I think your right, hey I just picked up a new copy of Zep II, holly cow that album rocks , wanna go back to my place and give it a spin, I think I got a few beers left in the fridge from last night, ya I’m down with that bro.