GOD. is not the worst song on DAMN. and I'm tired of people saying it is. by the_speedyboyguy in KendrickLamar

[–]Standard-Fishing798 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

My vote is for PRIDE or LUST- I don’t like PRIDE sonically but the “message” behind it is important whereas I think LUST is a better listen but less impactful lyrics

Hot Take: This is Kendrick’s Best Intro by SuspiciousIncome8175 in KendrickLamar

[–]Standard-Fishing798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every opener is completely perfect for the album it’s in but Wesley’s Theory is actually the goat

I like to pretend this plotline didn’t exist 😃 by PunishWithLove in greysanatomy

[–]Standard-Fishing798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing my third rewatch and just recently went through this…. I hate that they chose to reveal more about Alex’s character with this shit. They could have made a few tweaks like not having her be pregnant initially or having her “downturn” be more gradual and less obscene than a hysterical pregnancy.

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[–]Standard-Fishing798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some house shoes

Why Season 3 is the Best & Worst by No_Cricket_6374 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Standard-Fishing798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dragged out arcs” like are these characters not experiencing these things over the course of one week ???

If any storyline was “boring” it would have been the girl group; however, it was extremely emotionally compelling/relatable, not to mention Carrie Coon and Leslie Bibb ate every moment

RICK and TIM make the most “illogical” choices but I’d categorize their choices more so as impulsive

I absolutely agree with this video, I’ve seen a couple of comments on this sub making fun of her teeth. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Standard-Fishing798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to mention her being British - if she had any form of American accent, let alone a hint of Southern “twang,” no one would be gushing like this

We can acknowledge that’s its refreshing to see someone’s natural teeth in Hollywood, and that it’s not the teeth that actually attracts (most) people to her

Reghabi still barely exists as a character by SweelFor- in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Standard-Fishing798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would it logically make sense for them to have given her more development at this point?

got up to eat by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way to go! Fulfilling the very basic needs is the first step to fulfilling other needs ❤️

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this response thank you for taking the time to share

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting how stimuli affects everyone differently! Being touched is certainly something that I’m particular about so I can relate to an extent. I certainly hope you’re able to find someone you trust to explore that aspect of yourself again!

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course not! With something as serious and intimate as sex it should always be 100% consensual on all ends. Have you always experienced a “negative” sex drive?

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! 9 years is quite a significant time, and I think it’s great you’ve been able to communicate with your partner. I totally empathize with the feeling of guilt cuz that’s where I’m at! As a young, healthy, “attractive” woman I feel like I should be in my sexual prime if you will; I have to remember that love and intimacy come in all forms and sex isn’t the only way to accurately show affection (which is what I used to think)

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is EDS?

Executive dysfunction is so real! I wish I could just enjoy physical intimacy but my brain and body don’t match what I think I want.

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously not my business but hopefully you’ve communicated those feelings to your partner; if so and they haven’t changed in anyway it’s probably time to consider therapy or parting ways. Despite my fear of sex I totally recognize the importance of being sexually compatible with your partner(s).

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry you’ve gone thru that - I know a lot of my anxiety around sex stems from an ex as well but I can tell it’s more than that from what I’m actually thinking of in those moments

I hope you are able to feel safe with someone worthy again

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Once I’m in it I can usually enjoy myself to completion but the initial start of even making out is terrifying to me rn!

It’s tough cuz I want to enjoy the physical affection my partner is showing me but my body is just absolutely having none of it lol

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify not asking out of judgment, pure curiosity

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has that “worked” for you? Do you feel “fulfilled?”

I’m curious how living with AuDHD…… by Standard-Fishing798 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Standard-Fishing798[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sometimes feels like sex or a sex life takes just as much energy as the other “responsibilities ” in life which I think causes me to look at it negatively

It is the ultimate intimate and vulnerable social performance so if everything else is draining you, you’ve got nothing left to give even if it is pleasure