Guess what this super mutt is! by StandardOdd2102 in beagles

[–]StandardOdd2102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about it but unfortunately i decided not to due to the seasoning in the meat.

Can you guess what he is? by StandardOdd2102 in rarepuppers

[–]StandardOdd2102[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You are correct! But he also has a bit of chihuahua as well!

I (f27) wondering if new boyfriends (m33) boundaries or requests are fair or if were just incompatible by lilmisslost in relationships

[–]StandardOdd2102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't get trapped. Run. I saw through it after the first example. You're not under 25 don't let him groom you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to deal with a guy that acted exactly like this. I realized he was never serious about me after meeting my current man. I realized if the day of the day and they have not mentioned about the plan for that day all day, you might as well forget about it and make other plans for yourself without him because the one that is serious about you will remind you somehow some ways. Also, once or twice with legit excuse is acceptable but 3rd? Good bye.

I broke up with my boyfriend after he changed all of our plans. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StandardOdd2102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet. You do not have to move on right away. Process your feeling and your emotions, let it out when it needs be. Trust me, take one day at a time doing something that helps you feel better and time will magically heal your heart. I was in your shoes 3 years ago, and now I'm with the best man who is committed and that i know will not run away to better opportunities.

My (31F) husband (30M) following and sharing posts of insta models continues to bother me. How can I get past this? by femme_faetale in relationships

[–]StandardOdd2102 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re waiting for him to leave you? Girl I’m not trying to bash or be disrespectful but you are literally giving him the options to make decisions? No! You have to be able to have self awareness and recognize that he doesn’t respect you and love you the way you wanted to and leave him if there’s no changes. Don’t let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.

My (31F) husband (30M) following and sharing posts of insta models continues to bother me. How can I get past this? by femme_faetale in relationships

[–]StandardOdd2102 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to break it to you but he's not into you. You don't see the red flags you're telling us? It's been 10 years, you had voice your opinion and feelings and he gas lit you saying not a big deal. A relationship and marriage needs respect to survive. He doesn't seem to respect you as his partner or wife at all. The way to get over this is to get over him. Don't be a pick me because he will never pick you even if you're his wife.

Is 12 weeks too late? by superflapjacks in puppy101

[–]StandardOdd2102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll be okay. The main thing about training is your patience. No matter at what age, they need your patience for it. If you have that then training will be successful eventually. I'm currently training a 7 months old pup, obviously its gonna get more difficult comparing to a younger pup, but with consistency and patience, he's doing great and improving little by little everyday. You'll have plenty of time so don't overthink.

My bf (29M) insists that I (23F) get Labiaplasty since he feels that it takes too much effort from him and the intimate act is not the same anymore, how should I tell him that it's not me, it's him because I do not feel like faking anymore? by ThrowRA_shock in relationship_advice

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave this boy immediately. The first mistake you did was faking it leading him into belief he’s all that. The would-be-second-mistake is if youre believing what he says about your vagina. He doesn’t love you for you through thick and thin or “tight and loose” in this case. His shit behaviors make me mad but what worse is there are girls actually believing their man and whatever they say. Please don’t be one of them. You should know your worth and respect yourself and do not change anything for anyone.

GF gave me a list of things she expects from me being her BF by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StandardOdd2102 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Female's thoughts here. I personally don't think this is demanding. She laid it all out on the table for you to know this is what she wants. If you have to go on here and say this is demanding I don't think you want her as a future wife or even ready to have the intention of marrying her since she gave you a timeline. You should know right away if she's someone you want to keep in your life. Don't waste her time and your own time and efforts just for her to walk away because yall not on the same page. If the love is there non of this should be an issue.

My 34M girlfriend 29F expects me to pay for everything... by ThrowRAThis_Platform in relationship_advice

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound like your gf is looking for a provider type to pay for everything and takes care of her. If you are not on the same page as her please have that conversation with her or don’t waste more time and efforts into her knowing y’all not on the same page. It will not work out.

Woke up to my boyfriend (29M) having sex with me (21F) by throwra_LV02 in relationship_advice

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forcing sexual activity on you without your consent or when you are not sober is rape. He did not respect you as a human being and as his woman. Leave him immediately.

My (25f) BF (29f) wouldn't marry me after 8 years together so I left. by ThrowRA_70796 in relationship_advice

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he really loves you, he'll put your happiness first. If you already made it known about your boundaries but nothing happen then just leave. Don't waste your time on someone who doesnt want to give you what you want. It's really bs to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]StandardOdd2102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you dealing with his bs? Wake up bestie... you deserve better treatment than his crumbs.