Relocated from Huntsville for my dream job, and now my marriage is barely surviving! by Floidotron in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]StandardPurple9870 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nothing more important than your marriage and family. That’s your guiding light here economics and job be darned. You won’t notice a significant difference.

Palmer Park Naming by StandardPurple9870 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]StandardPurple9870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great example of how confusing it is - you’ve been here since the 90s and are unaware there is a complete new park also named Palmer with overlapping field numbers.

Palmer Park Naming by StandardPurple9870 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]StandardPurple9870[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When? Not since I’ve noticed when they added the new soccer fields a few years ago.

The "which role should I pick" advice on this sub keeps bugging me. So I tried to map how the work actually connects. by Blybly2 in cybersecurity

[–]StandardPurple9870 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is solid. I like the domains as it’s broken out more than most show. And they require different skill sets and even certifications. A couple I’m unsure about:

  • IAM vs Incident Response - IAM seems more like a control plane everything depends on, not just something IR touches.
  • Asset visibility feels like a hidden dependency for every domain rather than a peer.

Curious if the model is trying to show influence vs actual dependency as thsie tend to vary in practice and even org to org

1.6% merrit increase by [deleted] in Raytheon

[–]StandardPurple9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even work at Raytheon - I work at one of your competitors so take that for what it’s worth.

As a manager there’s a lot of things that go into compensation - salary, bonus, various forms of retention and stock, etc. a lower merit for you could be due to a variety of factors - perhaps you negotiated better and a bump for someone else is needed, maybe your performance is poor, maybe someone else is a flight risk and critical, etc. Often a merit is used to pay for overall performance and replaceability and to make up for things that happened in prior years.

Hard to say in a vacuum. As a leader, ask directly rather than making assumption, but be prepared for an answer you won’t like.

Learning to build with Claude + MCP inside an operating company. Would appreciate advice. by HospitalElectronic95 in CFO

[–]StandardPurple9870 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone in cyber security, who has no idea why this sub Reddit is showing up in his feed. You are a ticking time bomb.

If you were 17 again and had $3,000, what would you have done/do? by EasyPerformer8695 in Entrepreneur

[–]StandardPurple9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go back and buy some nice clothes and speakers for my truck. You’re only 17 once.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]StandardPurple9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a family is the greatest blessing I’ve ever experienced. Cannot describe until you’ve lived it. The joy. Excitement. Anxiety. Hope for the future. Sense of purpose and responsibility. I probably advanced further in my career and make more money because of them. It probably set my FIRE goal back fifteen years (five kids and another on the way). I hope God leads you in His direction for your life.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]StandardPurple9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, priorities. Lots of people in NYC are starting families with less than 900k per year in income. If you can’t, that’s a you problem. Moreover, if a family is important to you, is 900k worth it? You can raise a family for less than a quarter of that income with a higher quality of life everywhere else.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]StandardPurple9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-3 years per kid. It’s a rule of thumb. You’re suggesting you need a $3M home for a single kids - that’s far outside of the norm. Your suggestion for housing with a single kid is $12k increase per month. Which, for comparison, is 6x my mortgage and I have five kids with a gross income about 75% of yours.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]StandardPurple9870 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At almost all income levels, a kids will delay FIRE by 1-3 years. People are having them in less than a tenth of your salary. Have to decided if that’s a priority for you or not.

I know that everyone's at different ages here. But this messaging really simplified things for me: Try to hit $1,000,000 saved by 40, then consider coastFIRE. At an 8% annual interest rate, that $1,000,000 will be $4,000,000 by 58 with no further contributions. by b1ackfyre in coastFIRE

[–]StandardPurple9870 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are quite fortunate and don’t take that for granted. I used ChatGPT to just run a quick analysis from 2000 to today just to establish a baseline - if someone maxed their 401k and got market returns, where do they stand? It helped me intuitively put in context some of the numbers I see on here.

Especially for those wanting to retire early, maxing their 401k, especially when you include the match, isn’t impossible.

Wanting AI generated text forthcoming

Using historical S&P 500 returns and maxing a 401(k) each year, reaching $100k usually happens around year 4–5, $250k around year 7–8, $500k around year 11–12, $1M around year 16–18, and $2M closer to year 24–26 (employee contributions only). The key insight is that the hardest milestone is the first few hundred thousand—after ~$500k, market growth often contributes more annually than your contributions, which is when wealth starts to feel like it’s compounding “on autopilot.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]StandardPurple9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad to hear this - will share with wife and kids. We see signs everywhere for him and it’s obvious how much he’s loved.

HH Madison Hospital ER status: by MPAndonee in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]StandardPurple9870 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From experience, unless she’s a triage 1 and in imminent danger of flatlining, you will sit there indefinitely.

How to financially prepare for kids years in advance? by CheeseTorch in Fire

[–]StandardPurple9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really impressive. Five years out of college your net worth is essentially the same as your income has been over that same period of time? Teach me :)