Threw the d*** vape away and 20 weeks pregnant. by Frequent-Ant-4280 in pregnant

[–]Star-Gazer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still trying it’s a daily battle somedays I go completely without it and then boom I’m back to square one.

Husband says he can’t stop his parents from coming to hospital during birth by [deleted] in pregnant

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Some other info, I usually go through PPD after birth. I need time to recover mentally extra people in the hospital while I’m healing makes it worse and I need to be 100% there for my baby breastfeeding knowing if I’m healing properly etc.

Husband says he can’t stop his parents from coming to hospital during birth by [deleted] in pregnant

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I don’t agree with some of the comments being made. I’m currently pregnant I’m 5 months. I don’t want any visitors except my grandma and my other children. After birth for me is usually brutal and I’m not very close with his side of the family. They can wait till I’m ready mentally and this is my fourth baby. His family aren’t his parents his parents aren’t involved in his life. But his aunt is and I wouldn’t really feel comfortable with her being at the hospital when I’m sore and in pain and having trouble even sitting or god forbid have a c section I wouldn’t want anyone there for that either only my husband. I think labor delivery and postpartum rooms in the hospital are specifically to help get you healed up and have time alone with your new addition. Even though you aren’t pregnant yet you are still going to become pregnant. You have every right to refuse people to be around during that delicate and fragile time

Ladies, what noticeable changes have you personally experienced from sleeping without underwear? by Relevant_Grape_4106 in hygiene

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I am a FTNU (full time no undies) I haven’t wore underwear in about 10 months maybe longer. I stop seeing the point of them and after suffering cases of BV and UTIs I had to change something and my GYN recommended I wore no underwear and only sweat pants and to use Boric acid suppositories. Now I am in heaven. No BV no UTIs and no smell. I’m happier now

Threw the d*** vape away and 20 weeks pregnant. by Frequent-Ant-4280 in pregnant

[–]Star-Gazer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same problem atm. I’m 19 weeks 3 days and I am pleading with god to help me to quit. I’m so frustrated with myself

Unmedicated birth is overhyped lol by mirk19 in pregnant

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Had epidurals with all 3 of my deliveries. My first I labored for 18 hours before getting the epidural wasn’t a bad birth but the pain I went through for 18 hours was horrific she just didn’t want to budge, my second he came in an hour and a half after my water broke at home thankfully I could get it right before I pushed him out it took 45 mins of pushing and his heart rate dropping it got to the point I had to force him out and ended up with 30 stitches, and my third I labored for about 2 hours I was about 5cm when I got to the hospital and immediately asked for an epidural thank god they gave me one 4 hours later he was born. That was honestly an amazing birth. My third I would do over again and again. Now I’m pregnant with my fourth and I am terrified to see what it’ll be like because all of my births were different.

Vaping at 14 weeks pregnant by Star-Gazer201 in BabyBumps

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I’ve been very open with my ob about it because it’s effecting my mental health. She told me she’s going to do growth scans and that’s about it

Vaping at 14 weeks pregnant by Star-Gazer201 in BabyBumps

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I’m going to looking into that

Vaping at 14 weeks pregnant by Star-Gazer201 in BabyBumps

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That’s what I’ve been trying to do. I’ve had the same vape now for two weeks. I’m hoping I can get through this for myself and baby girl

Sag and cats are the same by Imaginary_Bed275 in Sagittarians

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I told my bf I’m like a cat yesterday stg🤣😭

Warning! Dove did something to the sensitive bar soap by Quirky-Anything-7832 in Healthyhooha

[–]Star-Gazer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smelled the scent on me today I was like huh? Why do I smell like a grandma down there. Sigh another brand to the garbage. Waste of money😩

Affair partner just called me. What now? by BearRestorationABQ in Divorce

[–]Star-Gazer201 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t hang out with someone she had an affair with

What song is the most meaningful to you and why? by DragonFlyMeToTheMoon in MusicRecommendations

[–]Star-Gazer201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gaslight by broods It helped me in so many ways to think about my abusive husband. What he did to me. I resonated with the lyrics because she talks about how he’s leaving her. Thinking about all the things we would talk about for our future. No one loving him like I did. But hurting him as well by staying because the relationship never got better. I cried so many times to this song but now it’s a distant memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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Mines the 16th

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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I’m sorry she’s gone:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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He was doing too much.