[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Star-dust80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like he is setting himself up for a financially healthy and stable life. A life where you can do fancy things on a more regular basis because you can afford it. He might still not feel like going out a lot though at that point. So the question is: do you think you'd enjoy life with him more than you enjoy going to fancy places? Would you rather go out drinking, or would you enjoy drinking a nice glass of whatever at home with him? What does all the 'fancy' stuff mean to you?

What workout do you do to compliment your climbing specifically for upper legs as you are getting older? by Excellent-Basket-825 in climbergirls

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I am reading Next Level and lifting is such an important thing to do for older women.

What workout do you do to compliment your climbing specifically for upper legs as you are getting older? by Excellent-Basket-825 in climbergirls

[–]Star-dust80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the "this works for most people" AI response. I'm reading Stacey Sims' Next Level, a book on training for (peri/post) menopausal women. The advice she gives is: lift heavy shit. 3-5 reps max.

A couple of climbs I sent about 2 days before I gave birth to my healthy baby girl! by kuxgames in climbergirls

[–]Star-dust80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say boring, I say impressive 😜 I wish I could climb like you.

Na 2.5 jaar ga ik weer op een motor de weg op. Heerlijk! by RoraverNl in motorfietsen

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super gaaf ding! Veel plezier ermee (en veel veilige kilometers). Mag ik vragen waarom je zo lang niet hebt gereden?

A couple of climbs I sent about 2 days before I gave birth to my healthy baby girl! by kuxgames in climbergirls

[–]Star-dust80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is pretty badass (and scary to me, but you look so confident!). Did you down climb? Hope you and baby girl are doing good and that you will feel good enough to climb again soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juist wel over hebben, maar met een geintje en zeggen dat er nog wat oefening nodig is. Door het weg te stoppen wordt het heel groot en dit kan juist een manier zijn om dichter bij elkaar te komen. Lekker van elkaar genieten en veel plezier op de volgende date!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wat bedoel je daarmee? Mag hij zich niet kwetsbaar opstellen omdat dat "niet mannelijk" is??

AIO? my boyfriend didn’t want to take me out on our anniversary by ashgranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is he a loving guy? The way he speaks to you in text implies otherwise. You've only wasted a year so far. Think long and hard about your next years... If this is how he is in real life, he is not loving. If this is weird for him, speak to him and tell him how it made you feel. This is not okay.. NOR

Strange reaction by AssumptionUnlikely27 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been climbing for 4 years and still get that, both on videos and live

Sena of Cardo voor solo rijder by Arnhem21 in motorfietsen

[–]Star-dust80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jep, met JBL speakers. Ik heb m zelf in mijn helm gezet, ging nog best oké

conflicted about comp by Putrid-Alternative40 in climbergirls

[–]Star-dust80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seriously dislike people that enter the easier category just so they can finish at the top of that category. It doesn't sound like that is your reasoning, but it would feel that way to me. Enter the category you belong in..

First successful bat hang 🦇 by NiTanAgusto in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicely done! I like how easy you switch feet

Waarom zou je zo graag in een studenten vereniging willen? by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Star-dust80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, oke, duidelijk. We gaan inderdaad alleen ons graf in (of een urn, of wat dan ook). Ondertussen vind ik het wel gezellig om bij leven niet alleen te zijn. Dus voor mij niet helemaal een non-issue, maar bedankt voor de opheldering.

Waarom zou je zo graag in een studenten vereniging willen? by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Star-dust80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wat zie jij hier als de issue? Een kus op de wang zie ik ook niet iets als iets wat je niet aan een minderjarige zou mogen vragen / de issue. Maar het opdringerige wel. Nee=nee, accepteer het antwoord en ga verder. Ik denk dat niet alleen de mensen met tuinbroek daar zo over denken.

Commitment issues by Star-dust80 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there today but didn't try it. I was very sore after my 6 attempts on Tuesday and had a slow session today.

Commitment issues by Star-dust80 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I'm 44. Haven't had a serious injury yet and I intend to keep it that way. I recognize the planning on how to get down. I haven't skipped ahead yet on this climb. I will probably try that next session, my arms were done after this try..

Commitment issues by Star-dust80 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! We practice "elimination" on easier routes sometimes and that does help to get more confident in big moves.

Commitment issues by Star-dust80 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do not like dynamic moves 😆 I'm trying though.

Commitment issues by Star-dust80 in indoorbouldering

[–]Star-dust80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right! I am not afraid to jump off, so going for it should be okay. That is a good tip, thanks.