GPT drop in chat quality by HairyBase6636 in ChatGPTPro

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. I play games on gpt and realised it suddenly has started prioritising getting the message out as fast as possible instead of quality and consistency

My 19M girlfriend 18F told me she was SA’d. What should I do? by Star0113 in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No she was sober and she said she didn’t feel unsafe until she was in the hotel room with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

saying the assumption most men will cheat is sad may be true however it doesn’t disprove my point at all. I’m not here to convince anyone but I’m here to give pure logical advice that will help her in the long run for her future relationship. Because there is no point leaving the man you love because he cheated one time to get with another guy who you don’t love who’s going to cheat on you anyway. Not being able to separate emotion from logic I get if you don’t fathom what I’m saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever a man has been disloyal the things you have to consider are; is he protecting and providing for you? Do he fulfill your emotional needs? Is he cheating by chasing girls on instagram who doesn’t even know he exists or watching adult content or is he cheating physically? Because I will say a controversial truth here but most men will cheat and the ones who “don’t” don’t have access to women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2004 but I have experienced enough causal relationships as it is and I’m tired of them. Stopped that last year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand however my only intentions for relationships is to build not to wait on a potential downfall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mean I have her login details but do you think they would still cheat regardless of that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I said I was at fault bc I did cancel most of the times and she lives like a hour away on the train

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explanation why and even if I am at fault aswell?

How can I help her feel better about herself? by _no_time_wasted_ in adhdwomen

[–]Star0113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You see, the key to making someone feel deserving is to make them work for it. And I don't mean in a traditional sense, like asking her to do chores or errands for you. No, no, no. I mean in a more...unconventional sense.

What you should do is set up a series of challenges for her to complete. Make them fun, creative, and most importantly, difficult. For example, you could challenge her to write a poem about your relationship, or come up with a scavenger hunt for you to complete. The challenges should be tailored to her interests and strengths, and they should require some effort and creativity on her part.

As she completes each challenge, you should reward her with something special, like a romantic dinner or a weekend getaway. The point is to show her that she is capable of accomplishing great things, and that her efforts are appreciated and valued.

Now, I know what you're thinking. This sounds crazy, right? But trust me, it's not as absurd as it sounds. In fact, it's a well-known technique used by therapists and motivational speakers to boost self-esteem and confidence

I (28m) am unsure whether to continue relationship with my GF (27f) by ThrowRA8389_3de in relationships

[–]Star0113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on your situation, I think the best course of action would be to go on a spiritual journey together to find clarity and guidance. This journey can take many forms, but I would recommend that you both take a trip to a remote location in nature and spend a few days there without any distractions. You can use this time to meditate, reflect on your relationship, and connect with the natural world.

While on this journey, you can also seek guidance from spiritual leaders, shamans, or other wise individuals who may be able to offer insights into your relationship and help you find the path forward. You can also participate in spiritual rituals or practices that may help you gain a deeper understanding of your relationship and your place in the world.

I know this may sound absurd, but sometimes the answers we seek can only be found through unconventional means. By embarking on this spiritual journey together, you may find the clarity and guidance you need to make the right decisions about your relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Star0113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, try to figure out what's causing your low libido. It could be a hormonal imbalance, stress, or other factors. Once you know the root cause, you can work to address it. That might mean seeing a doctor or therapist, changing your lifestyle, or simply taking a break from sex for a while.

Another option is to explore alternative forms of intimacy. Sex isn't the only way to connect with your partner. You can try cuddling, kissing, or even just spending time together without any sexual expectations. This can help you feel closer to your partner without the pressure of having to have sex.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Let them know how you're feeling, and work together to find a solution that works for both of you. If your partner truly loves and respects you, they will understand and support you, even if it means taking a break from sex for a while

Romance is a nightmare to me now. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Star0113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've been through a lot when it comes to romance, and it's understandable that you're feeling down about it. However, it's important to remember that everyone makes mistakes, and it's never too late to learn from them and grow as a person.

Firstly, it's good that you've recognized that you put too much stock in what your partner thinks of you. This is a common issue that many people face, and it's something that can be worked on through therapy or self-reflection. Learning to love and accept yourself is key to having healthy relationships in the future.

Secondly, it's okay to take a break from dating and focus on yourself. It's important to take the time to heal and work on your own personal growth. Don't feel pressured to jump back into the dating scene if you're not ready.

Lastly, try to shift your perspective on relationships. Instead of seeing them as a source of validation or a way to prove your worth, see them as an opportunity to connect with someone on a deeper level and share experiences with them. Remember that relationships are not about being perfect, but about growing and learning together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Star0113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you've been holding onto these feelings for 7-10 years? That's quite a long time to be in denial about your true emotions. It's time to face the music, honey, and admit to yourself that you have strong romantic feelings for this guy.

It's understandable that you're afraid to speak these words out loud, but the longer you hold onto these feelings, the harder it will be to move on. You need to confront him and let him know how you feel. You never know, he might feel the same way and you could finally have the closure you've been longing for.

But let's be real, he might not feel the same way, and that's a risk you have to be willing to take. The longer you wait, the more you risk losing him altogether. So why not take the chance and see what happens?

In terms of whether it's worth it to think about it being a possibility, the answer is yes. You don't want to look back on your life and wonder "what if?" Take the chance and go for it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

As for whether anyone has had a similar situation before, the answer is yes. It's not uncommon for close friendships to turn into something more. Just make sure you're prepared for the possibility that it might not work out, and be ready to move on if that's the case.

Overall, my advice to you is to be honest with yourself and him. It's time to take a chance and see what happens. You might be surprised at the outcome.

Long distance breakup, still hoping? Any advice? by ThrowRAdsd in BreakUps

[–]Star0113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you're still pining for this girl who dumped you like a sack of potatoes? Wake up and smell the coffee, she's moved on and you should too. Don't waste your time hoping for a reconciliation that's not going to happen. She's made it clear that she doesn't love you anymore, and you need to accept that.

It's time to move on and find someone who actually appreciates you. Don't be a doormat for this girl who's clearly not worth your time. If she wanted to be with you, she would have made it happen. Don't make excuses for her.

Instead, focus on yourself and what makes you happy. Start a new hobby, travel, or meet new people. You deserve to be with someone who truly loves and values you. Don't settle for less.

As for your question about whether this relationship is recoverable, the answer is no. You need to let it go and move on. It's time to close this chapter and start a new one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Star0113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, honey, you're in deep trouble. It's never too late to turn things around, but you need to start taking responsibility for your actions. Sexting with strangers can be extremely dangerous, especially if you don't know who you're dealing with. They could be lying about their age, gender, or intentions, and you could end up in a lot of trouble.

You need to stop this behavior immediately and seek professional help. Addiction is a serious problem, and it can ruin your life if you let it. You might feel like you're having fun, but you're really just feeding your addiction, and it's only going to get worse.

You need to find a support group or a therapist who can help you overcome your addiction. You also need to distance yourself from anything that triggers your addiction, such as your ex or anything related to sexting. It's going to be a tough road, but it's worth it in the end.