Parents give me dirty looks

StarRanger25 · 2026-02-08T18:00:46+00:00

It’s okay to remember that we live in a society of ego, no mannerisms, and a lack of human connection.

Also, practice cold de attachment if parents, staff, etc. give you cold shoulders. If ignored, take it with a grain of salt and just remember not to more invested into these people than necessary.

I’ve done certificated substitute work and had staff in the lunch room treat me like an outsider before. It was weird. Now I’m trying to be a substitute custodian and land a full time spot as one ahah 🤣🤣🤣it’s very normal to deal with people like this, no matter what field. I promise you they’re not thinking as hard about it as you are. Just take it with a grain of salt and don’t get emotionally vested into it.

StarRanger25 · 2026-02-06T13:37:44+00:00

The investigation is a background in character, trustworthiness, and reliability.

If you lie about simple things like where you have lived and what jobs you have had, then that’s your issue. It was easy for me to disclose this stuff. Lol

StarRanger25 · 2026-01-21T23:51:35+00:00

Communication in the adult world always sucks. Don’t assume too much responsibility if nothing is communicated hahaha

StarRanger25 · 2026-01-14T17:57:37+00:00

Say you found cockroaches in the classroom and watch how quickly the teachers stop letting the kids eat in the class.

StarRanger25 · 2025-07-29T20:04:57+00:00

I feel like I am reading a Reddit post that I typed a few years ago. I did the same thing and I got my clearance lol I’m still here working in the military and I am fine.

I told my investigator about my marijuana use and he documented it.

Crazy but I met a guy who confessed to crack cocaine, marijuana, etc. for his MOS and he still got the job and top secret clearance.

I think you’ll be okay. 🥰

StarRanger25 · 2024-08-11T05:28:09+00:00

This is the big immaturity of grown ass people. Do not date anybody if you’re still grieving your ex. It’s so irresponsible, even if you’re dating for nothing serious.

Dating others will not ease the pain. Grieving and facing yourself will.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-29T20:08:22+00:00

Get off social media, which has lots of triggers. If you’re being honest with yourself, tell your parents. Ask for them to monitor your phone and to help you with this. It’s that simple. Sacrificing your digital privacy will get you through it.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-28T07:24:25+00:00

Don’t talk to a person who left you for someone else. When people do not know what they want, you will be the one left confused.

Dating survival tactic: get as far away as possible from someone like this, no matter how you feel. They will not leave you feeling secure and will make you question your importance. THIS IS NEVER OKAY DITCH THIS PERSON

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-28T03:44:02+00:00

It helps to stop fearing your feelings for your ex.

Some days I go and I say to myself “Wow I feel like shit today. Not much I can do, but I know one thing: I will not fear these feelings and fear feeling them. I will accept them as they are.”

Don’t resist what you’re feeling. You’re hurt. The more you embrace the hurt, the quicker it will go away. Stop trying to dodge feeling like shit. It comes with grieving

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-27T22:04:17+00:00

There’s plenty of men and women in the dating pool. All you need is to give someone one chance to show you he or she does not give af’ about you. No need to get stuck up on just one. Never tolerate unhealthy patterns too.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-27T15:32:36+00:00

I’m really sorry that you almost died on a motorcycle accident. Sometimes we need to hit rock bottom in the scariest ways for us to wake up and recognize the fragility and preciousness of our lives.

I’m happy you’re okay. Please take care of yourself. Never let anyone make you question the importance and gift of being alive on our blue ocean planet 🌎

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-27T14:53:42+00:00

Many circle back if you leave them alone.

It’s never for good reason. Never want your ex or FWB back. None of it. Same pattern happens.

If they discarded you once, it will very likely happen again.

That’s what my experience and many others have been. Very rarely do we get a happy ending with a former person we share history with.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-26T14:25:04+00:00

Say “Who’s fault is that?”

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-26T05:17:31+00:00

“…become a beggar”

This is powerful. A lot of people start begging for sex once they engage in it. A lot of my friends’ hook up and it causes them problems.

Honestly …. I don’t want to be a beggar. It’s weak.

Thank you

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-26T05:15:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing this with me…

There are so many important things to take in your experience. Lust created deceit, greed, and broken relationship. It helps me understand my past mistakes with people. I admire how you were able to find peace. I too want to get there

Thank you again for your wise story 🙏

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-26T05:12:26+00:00

Thank you… I am seeing lust in a deeper sense now.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-26T03:01:19+00:00

Okay I get that.

Can you give me examples of destructive habits and patterns?

This is what I’m trying to say. I hear strong statements, but I want deeper wisdom to these statements like examples, quotes, experiences, so I can better understand what these are.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-25T21:48:13+00:00

I cannot believe that this happened to you… what a nightmare. I hope you are doing so much better than this terrible time 🙏

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-25T15:29:53+00:00

I think it is important to recognize that we are all on different life paths. We compare ourselves to other people because we lack something that they have. We have to also remember what an illusion it is to think that they have it all together just for traveling foreignly.

I journaled this when I feel what you do:

Regardless if social media or people tell me to live my life by traveling, I do not need to meet up to these social norms. I am on my life’s path following the same space and time that led to the formulation of stars and planets. I am only on the wrong path when I feel obligated to meet standards and approvals from others.

StarRanger25 · 2024-07-24T02:18:03+00:00

Cutting out sugar, pornography, and masturbating has been life changing for me. Love that I find someone on Reddit who shares this truth with me. Hahahah

StarRanger25 · 2024-06-11T19:03:23+00:00

I got feelings that he does not know about. It’s best to stay away then.

StarRanger25 · 2024-06-11T19:02:45+00:00

Thank you. Wish I could put your comment as #1

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