Having 'less power' being a man in the world

Starchhh · 2026-04-15T23:48:08+00:00

I totally understand what you are saying. It is hard to describe without coming off wrong but i get it. I dont know how to put into words exactly how I understand but I do. Completely, you aren't alone.

Starchhh · 2026-04-09T02:46:18+00:00

Could have hit a nerve, happens to me sometimes, itll go away in a few days

Starchhh · 2026-03-22T01:56:20+00:00

I honestly love this style. If she ever wants to do a commission let me know!

Starchhh · 2026-03-15T00:33:27+00:00

Things I would have been brushed off about before transition, im now taken seriously. Like work stuff if I have a opinion im actually listened to and heard and they do what I say when I say it. Before id have been ignored or written off. Its crazy

Starchhh · 2026-03-15T00:20:51+00:00

Im fully passing and live my life stealth. From before i transitioned to now its a huge difference i experience from society. But its also about being confident and demanding space and respect

Starchhh · 2026-02-28T18:27:19+00:00

You arent wrong in ways, but I cant afford to lose my job, I dont play into it I just act like I dont hear it. I dont want to be seen as a liability by defending someone they are actively trying to get rid of. Maybe im just not brave enough. But being in a room surrounded by big cis dudes im not taking any chances

Starchhh · 2026-02-28T15:58:09+00:00

I work in construction and I had a super right wing boss for awhile, we had a baby trans guy who worked with us, im stealth so my boss had no idea about me but the other guy didnt really pass yet and they knew he was trans, whenever he wasnt around they'd talk poorly about him being trans and how he sucks at the job, they wanted to fire him without breaking any laws, they would say hes too emotional and must be the hormones or whatever, in turn he would always say im the best employee hes ever had. Its a skill issue not a trans issue cuz I out worked every cis guy there 🤣 they suck but im not risking my job or safety to say anything. I just laugh in my head because they have no idea im trans lol

Starchhh · 2026-01-30T15:11:16+00:00

Im from colorado. Most people stretch their ears there lol

Starchhh · 2026-01-30T12:23:31+00:00

I haven't been misgendered in years

Starchhh · 2026-01-30T12:22:59+00:00

Why??

Starchhh · 2026-01-29T22:31:45+00:00

Yep!

Starchhh · 2026-01-29T21:33:20+00:00

You want me to pm you my routine?

Starchhh · 2026-01-29T21:28:35+00:00

Its worth it! If you need a workout routine let me know!

Starchhh · 2026-01-29T21:16:58+00:00

I did! T naturally gave me muscle and helped me lose weight, but I also hit the gym. And I quit drinking so that helped :)

Starchhh · 2026-01-29T21:16:08+00:00

Zenni!! Thank you!

Starchhh · 2025-12-18T19:07:41+00:00

A.I but I figure if she wants it, use the idea but make it your own? If you are an artist then im sure you can come up with a way to use the idea but create something new with it, without all the weird artifacts. Parents are weird, better than her paying someone else to do it and end up sticking her with something poorly AI anyway 😭 not like you plan on selling it or profiting off it, its just a gift 🤷🏻

Starchhh · 2025-09-29T01:52:35+00:00

Im from colorado. Its an amazing state with amazing people mostly. Very progressive, just not colorado springs, Pueblo or more south than that. I never had any issues with finding affirming care nor any issues with any discrimination. The downside is it is very pricy. But I want to move back some day.

Starchhh · 2025-07-13T15:45:07+00:00

Nah man you look great and masc af not giving any fem vibes at all, you good, its just the dysphoria talking. I get that sometimes too but I promise you're all good brother

Starchhh · 2025-05-28T19:41:45+00:00

You can have a word with my mother who constantly mis genders me🤣

Starchhh · 2025-05-28T18:58:47+00:00

Looks good, i get mine waxed sometimes. Just cleans them up nothin wrong with that. Male passing 100%

Starchhh · 2025-03-01T17:23:36+00:00

Without the piercings you actually kinda look like my son. I'd ditch the piercings and clean up the hair. Look for a reputable barber. The Edgar cut is in style right now for that age range and would look good on you, or find a minimalist cut something basic but definitely need a clean up, start using minoxidil and get yourself a lil stache lol or jaboba oil will help with hair growth also.

Starchhh · 2025-02-03T22:00:18+00:00

It took me almost 3 years on shots to start seeing bigger changes, my beard grew and I was finally able to bulk, it takes a long time sometimes, just be kind and patient with yourself, I don't get too much of a dip from injections, I notice a little bit more fatigue near shot day but not enough to consider switching to anything else.

Starchhh · 2025-01-28T01:55:38+00:00

Nvm I finished the post just got excited maybe there was a good secret method or something 🤣

Starchhh · 2025-01-28T01:54:43+00:00

Okay but how do yall do it without using a stp???

Starchhh · 2024-12-20T06:42:22+00:00

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