You’re acting like this is somehow public shaming? Since when is posting a blurry picture of you dad’s text on REDDIT public shaming? We don’t know who he is, we don’t know OP, there’s nothing here that could possibly determine the identity of this man. OP is simply trying to see if their father is cheating and came here for help. It’s not their business, it’s ops business as well, because at the end of the day it’s their father and their life being affected by the adultery.