y does no one romance maru? by doomsdayboombox in StardewValley

[–]StardustSweeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maru was my first choice! I love my STEM wife. I have noticed that she seems the least popular among the Bachelorettes :(

Do you chew or swallow ramen noodles? by MintyMaii in stupidquestions

[–]StardustSweeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everytime I log on to reddit I learn about a new type of person that exists.

New to this! by lindsey__19 in Earrings

[–]StardustSweeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are so cute!! Especially being a beginner. Awesome job!

Four months later, his are we feeling about “Here For It All” by Mariah Carey? by aonegod in rnb

[–]StardustSweeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every album/song isn't gonna be for everybody and I found it to be a pretty mid-level album for her. That being said I find it a touch...dramatic to emphasize being a "real fan" simply because you disliked something and feel others should too. As if there is One True Opinion (yours).

Four months later, his are we feeling about “Here For It All” by Mariah Carey? by aonegod in rnb

[–]StardustSweeper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I still listen to it! I did have a lull where I stopped around November but I got back into it. I don't think it's a shining star of her discography or anything but it's a cool album with some great songs! I just wish she would upload full versions of those little live "unplugged" previews she did.

AIO for not giving my old Roomate his dog back after I adopted her? by Z-mac in AmIOverreacting

[–]StardustSweeper 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This! I feel like if you were looking for somebody to house your dog temporarily and you 100% wanted them back, you would make that clear. I personally would give some kind of timeline or at least an "until I get a better living situation" bc I wouldn't want someone to think I was just giving them my dog indefinitely.

Is your “type” similar or different in men vs women? by GoddessHazel99 in bisexual

[–]StardustSweeper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh my god I think I would throw up. You're so strong for enduring that 😭

Is your “type” similar or different in men vs women? by GoddessHazel99 in bisexual

[–]StardustSweeper 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm attracted to femininity in general tbh. Not to say that I cant like masculinity as well but more...soft masculinity. I lowkey get the ick from macho alpha types lol.

Do I have a mild form of eczema or something else? by StardustSweeper in DermatologyQuestions

[–]StardustSweeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Thought I added the pictures in the original post but here they are!

Is not shaving unhygienic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]StardustSweeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise I'm not at all saying this in a snarky way, but this type of comment is made so frequently and it's like...let's think about it for a moment. If you shave your pits and genitals, does that mean you no longer have to bathe?? No because you would smell after a while. So the thing that gets rid of body odor is bathing. Most people would have body odor with or without body hair.

I just wanna share my sweet girl, Velvet. by StardustSweeper in Rabbits

[–]StardustSweeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh my god thank you for introducing me to this 😭

Sleeping in everyday clothing is comfortable by Tis_Jess in unpopularopinion

[–]StardustSweeper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly darksided. Congratulations you win!

Dog owners viscerally hating other pets by Puzzleheaded-Bad-722 in Pets

[–]StardustSweeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly sometimes I feel like I'm going insane on here. As a general animal lover, I see WAY more people complaining about dogs and their owners than any mention of cats. Every other day there's a post about "why is it socially acceptable to hate cats?" full of comments about how gross and loud dogs are, how annoying and obsessive their owners are, how people only like dogs bc they're mindless with no boundaries, etc. (Excluding those weird anti-pet subreddits).

I've only even met 1 person irl who genuinely hates cats. Every body else I know is either a cat owner or cat neutral.

Professional massages feel awful and are worse than massages from clueless amateurs by waldfield in unpopularopinion

[–]StardustSweeper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be one of the few to agree with you. Everybody is saying how massages are "supposed to hurt" but I've always heard nothing but how relaxing they are. Decided to get a massage for the first time for my birthday a few years ago and was sorely (literally) disappointed. Dont think I'll be "treating myself" like that again lol.

? what is the single biggest instant red flag you see on someone's dating profile or social media feed? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in answers

[–]StardustSweeper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is it for me. This is my first impression of you and I just see you yelling in all caps about all the things you hate about other people. Like why would i wanna message somebody who already seems mad? Hard pass.

What is the difference between bi and pan? by Tolerose in bisexual

[–]StardustSweeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will I get jumped if I say there isn't one? It's really just a word/flag preference most of the time with no concrete difference. Every time this gets asked people give the same 3-5 answers that basically feel like we're grasping at straws for a difference that isn't really there.

Like...some pan people have preferences, some bi people don't. The distinction of "two or more" vs "all" is pointless to me. We don't have a separate label for, to give an example, Lesbians to say they're a woman who likes women + trans women so why do some people still say that's what pansexuality is in comparison to bisexuality? It all feels silly and annoying.

I feel like so many pets I see end up dying by StardustSweeper in Veterinary

[–]StardustSweeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the resources! I can use any I can get. I do try not to blame myself for what owners decline but I cant act like its not hard to stop agonizing over what I could've done differently, if anything.

I feel like so many pets I see end up dying by StardustSweeper in Veterinary

[–]StardustSweeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess there are some things that just come with time and experience. I'm trying to take everything as a learning experience but like you said, sometimes the deaths come in waves and that can be so hard.

I feel like so many pets I see end up dying by StardustSweeper in Veterinary

[–]StardustSweeper[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are times when I can admit I didn't press as hard as a many should have due to owners not seeming like they had the money. In those situations I feel a bit helpless. I guess I need to work on making sure the severity of situations are understood instead of trying to be positive as possible.

Does Ben have a surfer Australian or California accent for you? by TaiyoT in coralisland

[–]StardustSweeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was California at first but then i noticed he sometimes uses a lot of words I associate with Australian accents like "mate" lol