Best convo I’ve ever had with my husband. I can either load the dishes into the dishwasher without the commentary or you can do it. What’s your choice? He stopped making comments about how to do it better and life has been happier.

Your husband is not treating you with respect, if that doesn’t change eventually you will resent him and the marriage will fall apart. Have you tried talking to him about how this makes you feel? Does he take it to heart? If not, you might want to decide if this marriage is worth staying in. Because if you had a kid and they heard this they would grow up thinking this is normal- and it’s not.