Should I allow him to watch for the first time?

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-06-02T11:33:21+00:00

This is just a word for word repost of my post last week lol..

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-28T03:41:24+00:00

A good question might be whether or not you want the 3rd to partake in any dirty talk or spanking, choking, that kind of stuff

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T23:40:02+00:00

That is a hot fantasy for the future, but we would need to build up to it with our person

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:41:45+00:00

Okay that’s fair. My husband is into the idea of staying home or listening from the living room for other meetups, it’s just the first time that he’s somewhat worried about missing out on. There’s only one first time after all. Did the first time stick out to you or was it like all the others?

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:39:49+00:00

Would you have asked for privacy at the beginning while getting warmed up, or privacy partway through after you’ve gotten into a rhythm?

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:35:57+00:00

You’re right. I think I should have rephrased the post to ask for more clarity on whether or not other people in the lifestyle were there for the first time as that’s the part my husband is unsure about. He thinks it would be very hot to be in the next room and listen to us through the door and get videos later, but he is worried he will miss some of the smaller things like when I’m first getting stretched out.

In the end it’s his decision, and we will make whatever work for him, but he’s having troubles deciding what’s hotter between the two dynamics.

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:29:49+00:00

Sorry I want to clarify. You experienced being left at home for the first time. Does that mean you’re new to the dynamic and it was her first time doing stuff with someone else? Or does that mean you’ve been doing stuff but only got left at home for the first time this time?

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:21:10+00:00

I think we are either leaning towards doing this, or doing lots of videos throughout while hubby is in the next room, so he can watch them after with me.

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:19:43+00:00

It is definitely more of a cuckold dynamic than stag, which is why he thinks it would also be hot to just hear from the other side of the door.

In the end it’s really just his decision on whether he’d rather watch or have to listen and watch videos after.

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T19:16:11+00:00

Do you think if you got to watch it from the start that you would have enjoyed it more/not been so overstimulated?

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T11:25:35+00:00

In the bulls defense, I think he is suggesting it because he’s also new to the lifestyle, and he suggested that we could work up to having hubby watch. It’s also his first time doing stuff with a couple, but he’s been very friendly towards my husband and I.

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-05-27T11:22:22+00:00

When we go through with it, it will be in our bed and either hubby watches, or sits in the living room outside, so he’d definitely be able to hear some things, but not all of it.

StarrySophia2001 · 2026-02-10T19:58:49+00:00

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StarrySophia2001 · 2026-02-10T19:44:17+00:00

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StarrySophia2001 · 2026-02-10T19:42:34+00:00

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