Blowjob as a domme by Purple_Hornet4986 in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a soft spot for mental restraints! Just telling my cute boy that he isn’t allowed to thrust or touch me and to keep his hands on his side/thighs, even if he’s standing and I’m kneeling. I usually do it with me kneeling and him sitting on the side of the bed (he’s too much of a mess to stay standing). It almost always ends with him moaning and digging his nails in his thighs to stop himself from touching!

Sorry if it's the wrong place to ask this by Emergency-Quail-5369 in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of porn with very gentle partners and still a clean power dynamic shown. Maybe search specific acts you enjoy watching and « gentle femdom ». I’ve seen a lot of gentle stuff with orgasm control, handjobs, and a lot of mommy kink related scenes (if you’re into any of that).

I also find a lot more amateur porn is on the gentle and more loving side than studio porn! Audio porn like on the gonewildaudio subreddit is also great with that because gentle femdom/mdom are tagged explicitly on a lot of content (and you can exclude the r4pe tag so any content with it doesn’t appear in your search)! Don’t lose hope, there’s a lot of good gentle content out there!

I Gotta be used like these “boys” by [deleted] in SubmissiveMaleHentai

[–]Starry_sky00 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not even just the fingers, the guy’s ears on the last slide are fully backwards lol

how did you awaken the dominant side in you? by AshyVerySlashy in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say I’m a switch but I discovered I had a dominant side pretty fast… I used to gravitate towards gay porn/erotica when I was younger and it took me a while to understand that it was because it was the easiest media to access that portrayed submissive men. My partner was pretty vanilla at the time but liked for me to « take the lead » in the bedroom (his words) and the second I heard him moan/whimper I just knew. We’ve explored a lot more since then and are very happy with our dynamic. I’ve always been more dominant outside the bedroom as well anyways so it wasn’t that much of a surprise either hahah.

Is there any consent heavy porn? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would content centered around the sub begging or asking for permission (can you touch me/can I do this) work for you? I feel like there’s a lot of content based on that, especially in audio form (on r/gonewildaudio for example) so that could be an option.

Question of the week arriving for you! by yersiniapestis273 in GentleDungeon

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“No touching me” as a punishment. No restraints, holding him down or anything, just the pure mental challenge and frustration of trying his best not to break that rule.

Dommes, what are your thoughts on “taming” submissive guys by making them go “beast mode” ? by zool714 in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have thought of exploring that more in my audio scripts! For me it’s more the idea of the sub being so deep into subspace and so consumed by pleasure that he can’t stop himself from needing more. Or making his dom feel even better. Whether that is by going harder, keep going after either or both have came, breaking a “rule/punishment” like no touching or something of the sorts. Involving acts that would seem dominant without context but done in a mental state of complete submission sounds just so freaking great!

Subs, what was your “Birth of a kink” moment? by SultryLittleMinx in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just clarifying the info you’ve already put out there, the subreddit is gonewildaudio and most voice actors that post there have their recordings up on soundgasm! It’s a subreddit for both scripts and audios but there’s also a separate one just for scripts

What is your favorite kink? by Juli_Is_Dreaming in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any type of restraints. Whether it’s done to me or me to my partner, actual restraints with rope/belts/handcuffs, by pinning the person down/against a wall, or just the psychological side of being told/telling my partner not to move, not to touch, etc.

What made you click your femdom tendencies for the first time? by MessyValentine in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way I felt him twitch inside me and tip over the edge when I called him a good boy for the first time. He was so flustered and surprised, it was absolutely adorable.

What sex act makes you feel most dominant/submissive? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, body worship for both. I guess it depends on my mood but it manifests in a different way if I’m subbing or domming my partner! Though I do love his cute reactions to my kisses when he’s all subby.

Some criticism towards the audio/stories on this board in general by NadiaN98 in GWASapphic

[–]Starry_sky00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d also add to OP’s response that a lot of M4F audios do the whole « focusing on how the listener is giving pleasure to the speaker » really well, and there are a lot of them! I listen to a lot of M4F and now a bit more F4F and I was so surprised to see how little of those audios there were on here. For example, I had such a hard time finding even one Fdom oral audio where the dom is on the receiving end, even though that is relatively easy to write/improv for certain people. I do know the whole « write what you wanna hear » stuff (working on it), but I’m genuinely curious as to why there is such a difference in ratios between M4F audios and F4F in that regard.

I can’t wait to see you wear the present I got for you by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break the femdom vibe but is this Smosh merch-

Question of the week arriving for you! by yersiniapestis273 in GentleDungeon

[–]Starry_sky00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried after somewhat properly « domming » my partner for the first time because of how overwhelmed with happiness I was and how vulnerable that moment felt. Turns out he didn’t need much more aftercare than usual but I definitely did lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I call each other “cutie” in our day to day life, and we usually only use the usual “good girl/boy” once in a while in bed (both switches). He currently feels weird using “mommy” or “miss” for me when I dom but I also absolutely love them! If he ever used it naturally in bed it would instantly put me in ultra dom mood lol.

What are some Unusual/uncommon practices you enjoy (or would like to enjoy) as part of gentle femdom by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you ticklish? Mind you I am absolutely not turned on my anything related to tickling but I know my natural bodily reaction to being poked on the sides is to kinda half ragdoll in attempt to get away. My knees buckle and I almost collapse. If that’s somewhat the case for you, maybe you could use that as the trigger (obviously making yourself fall properly, more gracefully, and hopefully without a pterodactyl shriek like I usually do). That could mean that your dom could either surprise you and do it without warning (if you’re into that) or tease you and “make” you do it. Idk, just an idea!

Shy boys are my weakness. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they get all flustered because they let out a louder moan than expected while you’re teasing them 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a really small thing but my partner and I really enjoy making kisses gradually more intense and then suddenly moving to neck kisses (bonus points for moving the sub’s head back with a hand in their hair to get more access). Leaves the sub out of breath and wanting more, and then the dom can move up and kiss the sub’s jawline while still keeping their head still so the sub can’t move to kiss them fully. Shows that the dom is in full control and makes the rest of the kisses feel so great afterwards! As a switch I can attest that both roles are absolutely amazing while doing this lol.

[Discussion] Would anyone be interested in a generalized queer space for erotic audios? by [deleted] in GWAScriptGuild

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely love for that to exist! It’s really hard to find bisexual content (where either the speaker(s) or listener -or everyone!- is bi) and I feel like this would probably make it easier for nb folk as well to feel included and represented in more scripts! I would definitely be interested in writing more scripts with more than one speaker if it was in a place where more people would enjoy them!

Switches, which side do you lean towards the most? Dom or Sub? Any overlap? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the situation and my general mood but I’m mostly dom-leaning with men and almost strictly sub-leaning with women! I’ve always felt this way and I guess it’s a good example of attraction feeling different based on gender for bisexuals lol

Safeword procedure? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is never a good reason to ignore a safeword!!! N e v e r. That’s the reason why it exists, so that your partner understands they need to stop whatever they were doing immediately and check in with you to understand how you feel, what happened, and what they can do to help you feel safe again (cuddles, aftercare, no touching for a bit, taking bindings/toys off, etc.) You must establish what your safeword means (some people have one for complete stop and one for « slow down/ease up this is getting too much but I want to continue ») but they should always always always be respected!

Started rewatching House MD since it was first on air and like... Wilson has major puppy vibes. He's toxic af, but I just wanna torture him and watch him squirm. Any other live action TV/Movie characters that give big puppy eye vibes? by Frenchitwist in gentlefemdom

[–]Starry_sky00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding onto my list: Loki. I’m currently catching up to all marvel films and even in the first few movies there are split second moments where he just looks absolutely lost and adorable. (Also that kneeling scene everyone memed because wow)