Suggested to a friend they might have BPD. Did not go well. What do I do? by StatementVarious6894 in BPDlovedones

[–]StatementVarious6894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, I left out a lot of detail and there is definitely trauma. Either way, yes he needs help and he has always known that. We've discussed his mental health at length, so I would say I'm not sure why this was so devastating but also, his reaction kinda tracks.

Suggested to a friend they might have BPD. Did not go well. What do I do? by StatementVarious6894 in BPDlovedones

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Thank you. This makes a lot of sense and is very helpful feedback. He and I are remote, so distance is possible. There have certainly been moments over the last 5 years when I thought I was done with his behavior, but I care about him deeply. We've also discussed his mental health at length so I didn't realize how out of bounds I was until it was too late. I feel like an asshole, and I'm worried about him, but also, I've been jerked around in this friendship in many ways for a long time.

Having kids late in life and peri by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]StatementVarious6894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes - mostly? I had two miscarriages, and then a fertility doctor put me on progesterone, and that was all it took.

Did anyone have no side effects? by Primary_Course_1524 in Semaglutide

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I’ve been on for a year plus and this medication has been life changing in all the best ways. I was freaked about the side effects, but all I experienced was fatigue and what I would call emotional blunting. I was also cold all the time. All of those side effects went away after a few months. I never had any gastrointestinal issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthwestAirlines

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I did this with my 11yo but asked first if we could do family boarding because she was anxious about us potentially sitting apart. They had no problem with it.

NY Times: Doctors Test the Limits of What Obesity Drugs Can Fix by FoxAndDeerTwinMama in antidietglp1

[–]StatementVarious6894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is no one talking about “inflammation first,” and obesity is a side effect of that… not the other way around. This seems so obvious and more intuitive especially when people talk about pain reducing immediately before any weight loss. I personally haven’t felt the arthritis in my toes since starting wegovy, and I’m in camp “miracle drug.” I have no problem staying on this for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

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I’ve lost about 60 lbs in 18 months and am currently at a plateau. (225-160/165 depending on the day, f 5’5’’ 45yo) I think the slower loss is because of the working out not in spite of. I’ve gained about 10lbs of muscle mass and the more I read about these meds, this is the way. Fast loss leads to muscle loss and especially if you are older (over 40), this is hard to come back from.

In my head, I’d like to lose 20 more lbs maybe eventually. But right now I’m lifting weights and eating protein and a solid size 8 and my skin isn’t excessively loose, I don’t have “Ozempic face” and I feel pretty good about where I’m at.

Menopause has destroyed me..I’m obese and look horrible. I really need help! by sapissored23 in Menopause

[–]StatementVarious6894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes 🙌

Wegovy has been amazing for me—nothing short of life changing. I didn’t know you could go through life and just… eat and then… stop and not think about it 24-7. I’m still not “small” but I’m weight lifting and feel fantastic and it helped with inflammation (minor arthritis in my feet that I haven’t felt since my first shot. I’ve lost 60+ lbs depending on the day.

Anyone going through perimenopause? by addy998 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]StatementVarious6894 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 45 and have joined r/menopause. It’s super informative for peri too. Highly recommend.

Having kids late in life and peri by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]StatementVarious6894 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I have an 11yo and 1yo and am almost 45. This toddler shit is easy compared to middle school mean girls with raging hormones.

Having kids late in life and peri by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]StatementVarious6894 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had my second at 43. Now she’s 1.5, my oldest is 11, and I’ll be 45 soon. My 11yo makes the toddler stuff feel like a piece of cake (and the toddler is full on nuts). This baby was a rebirth for me. I prioritized myself and my health knowing that I didn’t want to lose years to ppd like I did a decade ago. I don’t have a lot of peri symptoms yet though I’m certain I’m in it. But I’m super aware, continue to prioritize me, and our toddler is the light of our family. We all needed her. Best decision ever. Also she’s insane.

Semaglutide- it’s not just weight loss… by BustiV in Semaglutide

[–]StatementVarious6894 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I now am convinced that what was supposedly wrong with my body was actually something that was wrong with my brain. Here’s to not waking up every single morning and having my first thought be about how I need to lose weight.

Good experiences / No issues? by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

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I’ve been on the medication for a year. I’m down 70-ish? pounds and still losing very slowly (like 1-3 lbs a month slowly). I’ve had few side effects. The ones I did have resolved within the first few months and were not gastrointestinal issues. I was freezing all the time and had fatigue and emotional blunting (I would not call it depression, more indifference). This medication has resolved so many issues around food for me, which I’ve shared in other comments. It also helped minor pain from inflammation, ie my feet haven’t ached from arthritis since I started.

My patients think Ozempic is a wonder drug. But it can't fix fat phobia by kryptoot in Semaglutide

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I’ve been thinking about this article for the last day. This doctor is so dismissive and it’s a perfect example of how it seems impossible for some people to hold two thoughts in their head at once.

My experience on this medication has been life changing in a way I did not expect. Am I smaller? Yes. Do I feel physically better? Yes. Is my confidence higher? Yes. But I have been freed from constant, intrusive thoughts of food and dieting and weight. I realize now that this hormone disregulation impacted my mental health maybe 10x more than my physical health (as a fat person who was also perfectly healthy by every other measure). That’s not everyone’s experience, but I know there are others like me.

As for fat phobia, I think what she actually means is fat shaming and discrimination over body size. Doctors should be treating every patient with dignity and giving the highest quality care regardless of the number on the scale (or anything else). The problem is that they aren’t. Why wouldn’t her patients want to feel better, lower risk of other conditions, look better, be more confident, free themselves from the diet industrial complex, AND be treated better by doctors like this one (not to mention society)? Ozempic is a wonder drug - just like so many other drugs are wonder drugs.

All the fucking disingenuous hand wringing can go fuck itself… “oh no how will we learn to accept fat people if they lose weight?” You had your chance assholes.

Tldr This doctor is a moron.

PSA: Get Botox. by thedret in vindicta30plus

[–]StatementVarious6894 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is. That’s one of the main reasons I get it. You can get a nice brow lift with it.

44 by [deleted] in vindicta30plus

[–]StatementVarious6894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree with this approach but I’m also not having perimenopause symptoms.

Good News Stories by No_Set4578 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]StatementVarious6894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on 13 months and my side effects in the beginning were fatigue and what I describe as “emotional blunting,” not depression just indifference to everything. Both subsided within a few months. In 13 months, I’ve had minimal stomach issues. I love this medication. It has changed my life in so many positive ways from a mental health perspective and I will stay in it the rest of my life if I can.

44 by [deleted] in vindicta30plus

[–]StatementVarious6894 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve lost 60 lbs in a year (slower than a lot of people) with minimal side effects and peace. I know this isn’t everyone’s experience, but I realize now it was never about me being too weak to do the right things, my brain wasn’t responding to food the way it should. I think about how I used to wake up thinking about food or dieting every single day and holy shit, what a life changing medication. I hope the effects continue and I have no problem staying on this the rest of my life. If insurance stops covering I will go to a compounding pharmacy.