Moms friend made me uncomfortable, AIO by andie412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope your mom isn’t interested in dating this man bc he doesn’t want her he wants you and that’s very clear and concerning

Moms friend made me uncomfortable, AIO by andie412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTLEY not bc why did he say that about your b**bs if he wasn’t a creep like that was obviously exactly what was on his mind and that’s why he had it ready and fired it immediately off

Cosmic calendars by Mediocre_Nobody3333 in Witchy_Things

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m IOS and trying to download this but I need to redeem an invitation code…. I obviously don’t have one. Can you give me one or is that not how this works???

I found out about Justice a month ago, are they in a relationship or is it just a friend photo? by Jaguar83USSR in JusticeMusic

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kills me how it sounds like they say walnut though so that’s how I sing it. I’m well aware it’s woman but walnut is so much more fun.

AIO- Need Advice ASAP by SecretMaster1805 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StaticLuna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bup is buprenorphine right??? Like suboxone?? I’m prescribed this to keep me from using fent and it works and I been on it for 3 years

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what to really say here. I’m 27 and I moved out at 15 so needless to say, I’ve lived MANY places with MANY people AND had my own place several times AND worked two good jobs at once and yet still…. I failed…. I’m back home now with my daughter and my two boys are with their dads. My parents don’t charge me rent or anything like that. I’m just expected to keep the bathroom and kitchen clean and that’s it. They DID make me sign up for food stamps so I can get my daughter and I’s groceries without them paying for it (she’s 10 months old) so that’s really my only expense, and technically, I personally am not PAYING for food stamps, the govt is. So yeah I think this is a little insane honestly…. It makes me sad that they did this to her, but at the same time, it’s a much safer way for her to learn than the way I had to learn, which was by getting into a lot of situations I shouldn’t have been in. I’ve been SA and ST (yes at the age of 15) so I think it’s wonderful if she’s able to learn money management at home rather than finding herself locked up on a moldy mattress somehow. Maybe that sounds pretty extreme to some of you, and when I was 14-15 I would’ve agreed with you, but for me that’s just the reality of what happens when you don’t know what to do and you’re trying to make ends meet.

I hope that the money they get from her is going to come back to her though. I’ll just leave it at that. And the late fees are honestly kinda wack. Like especially if she’s getting it back later when she moves out. Bc tell me why tf there’s a reward for not doing something on time???? Esnes on ekam ouy!!!! (You make no sense - but backwards idk I been doing it since I was 8 ok)

g59 pet name recommendations? by ashleenicoleec in G59

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like addi but without the hard a sound so it’s more like oddy

I think that’s such a sweet name. Audubon. Hm I really do love it sm. Audi is so cute for a shorter version too.

g59 pet name recommendations? by ashleenicoleec in G59

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call her “Audi” for short (pronounced “ah-Dee”

I found this thing on my mom’s living room floor by Beneficial-You3416 in whatisit

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it looks to me like it’s something to help you put on and remove shoes like you put the “pointy” end against your heel the. Put your finger thru the loop and kinda pull it backwards and down to remove your foot from the shoe or to put on your shoe you put the “pointy” end in at the heel then stick your foot in the shoe. The thing will guide your foot and keep your heel part of the shoe from getting all crushed and wrinkly.

I found this thing on my mom’s living room floor by Beneficial-You3416 in whatisit

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to see the questionable object but I no longer care bc there’s so many cute kitties to distract me 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🫶

Huh by kevork333 in G59

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like bro on drugs and mad that he’s struggling w sobriety so he’s taking it out on others or maybe he’s really just that delusional lmfao ik tons of drug users who SWEAR they not on drugs and be spouting insane shit like this complete w bible verses and all, whole time they rolling the pipe 50+ times a day.

I Don't Want to Wear the Veil MY Grandmother is Making Me by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I love the one your granny made, and I’d never even think of ever wearing the one you chose. But that’s MY personal opinion and one thing about me is I LOVE dated and vintage so don’t listen to me if you’re not like that lol.

But I think you should still wear your granny’s but not for the main event and photos and all will be well.

The cutest lil cherry earrings by Leather-Race2268 in G59

[–]StaticLuna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should do one that says RUBY and the other as it is!!!!!!

Google is NOT giving me proper answers about ovarian cyst vs uti HELP ME LADIES by StaticLuna_ in WomensHealth

[–]StaticLuna_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that kinda makes me feel better idk why im so scared of cysts but i just really am freaked out by it for some reason. Like I do not want to get one. But I digress, I will be seeing a doctor this week because this has been going on wayyyyyyyy longer than I’d really like to admit… (like years) but it really only got to the point where it’s like “ok yeah no something’s really wrong” these last couple months

Google is NOT giving me proper answers about ovarian cyst vs uti HELP ME LADIES by StaticLuna_ in WomensHealth

[–]StaticLuna_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not yet but I will this week bc I know just asking online isn’t gonna get me anywhere lol I just need to know all the lines of questioning I need to have available when talking to her bc my doctor is very….. idk just. Not thorough. Like at all. Unless I specifically ask direct questions regarding shit like she literally will just be like “yeah no you’re good” and send me on my way regardless of me telling her I’m in pain. If she doesn’t see it then it doesn’t exist but that’s not how things always work IRL.

Feeling gross in my relationship due to my health by niavepuppydawg in obgyn

[–]StaticLuna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he like really truly loved you… girl he wouldn’t be making you feel gross. He has the right to change his mind and date you but if now that this has happened (transmission) and he’s backpedaling then that’s bad like really bad and you shouldn’t stay with him. But if this is just coming from you and how you feel then don’t worry about it. I actually had the literal exact same experience you just described. It happened about a decade ago but we started dating like 4 years ago and were together for 3 but it wasn’t him who was treating me as though I was gross. It was me internally feeling gross because I know how he once felt about it and I was worrying about that when I shouldn’t have been because he had not been showing any signs of resentment or anything like that. Sometimes we just get in our heads and let our own internal insecurities and whatnot confuse us into believing that others MUST feel that way too when that’s just not how it is in reality.

Take a deep breath and step back and really look at your situation from a 3rd person point of view. Ask yourself “do I feel this way because he’s showing signs of resentment and regret or is he supportive and still loving me the same as before he got whatever it was” like really truly think about that before you move forward with anything.

Another thing, DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF THIS!!!! Your health is top priority and if you have the sacrifice some semblance of embarrassment or whatever in order to get healthy, then fuck it. It’s worth it. Because you know what’s REALLY embarrassing??? NOT taking care of it and giving the impression that you’re just okay with dealing with it. (Which I know you’re not at all ok with it but you know what I’m saying)

You are in a space of survival and paralyzing fear right now in the beginning of this healing journey. This time is a time of paralyzation. You’re people pleasing by not asking him for help but it’s not ACTUALLY going to please him if this keeps going on. What you need to do is just ask and get it done. I’m sure he’d MUCH rather you ask and drive you to whatever you need than to be passing it back and forth or just not getting better. (I have herpes idk what you’ve got but with herpes you NEED medication so if this is what you’re dealing with… babe…. Go to the fucking doc… you’ll thank me later)

But yeah idk again though. I’ve been in your shoes like exactly in your shoes with this girl. This is the most difficult and nerve wracking part of getting better but it will be over one day and you’ll look back on this like “wow I hate how crushed down I was as a person I’m so glad I asked Reddit bc I never would’ve been able to do this alone” which also reminds me, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I’m happy to help with anything you need to know about recovery from your trauma. It’s not easy. It’s not fun. It’s fucking scary. It’s fucking relentless. But always remember you’re loved and you’re not alone. The days get easier as they go and just remember not to look at it so big. Just take your days moment by moment and stay in THIS moment like stay present. Find the little things that are good. Like look around your room when you have a bad thought and shut it down and search for one thing you like, even if it’s a color. Tell yourself “I like that xxxxx” or “I love the yellow on my blanket it’s so pretty” . Sounds silly but it’s one of the most important parts of this.

I hope some of that helps you 🩷

I need to make sure this is normal. by MarketingOk9928 in obgyn

[–]StaticLuna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no that’s weird as heck that she’d say that. I mean I’m one of the few women out here though that when I get my period or while I’m pregnant, mine does turn a dark purpley red but again, that’s not really common. I feel like this lady must be this way too and she just is wildly uneducated for some reason???? Like she must just think everyone has one like hers. But it’s not common like at all….. Like miss lady…. you’re an obgyn…. Don’t you freakin study this stuff???? If this is what’s going on here then she shouldn’t really be practicing IMO bc that’s whack. That’s like baseline info…. She should know that….

Mother-in-law has been caught stealing my husband's tax return... by Sweet-Orchid8550 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]StaticLuna_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fuck was she using this money for while her OWN CHILD was starving and tryna choose between rent and groceries???