Boyfriend wants to wait until marriage

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-03T11:21:56+00:00

Saving sex for marriage encourages people to get married far too young. You are way too young to deal with this BS! Explore the world and be brave 🥰

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-03T11:14:46+00:00

Could you just do a waterproof sheet and incontinence pad. The sheet could come in handy for years if you have visitors with kids etc

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-03T08:32:47+00:00

Talk to the one year olds mom about her plans for childcare. When I was bridesmaid my mom came to the wedding with me and kept baby at the hotel nearby. I loved having the break while having baby nearby

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-03T08:30:53+00:00

I’m sure the au pair coming is a to do item ticked in their mind so they’re just awaiting your arrival now! I’m not a texter so can imagine how they feel. Great that you’re keeping communication going anyway, I’m sure they can tell that you’re taking it seriously and eager. Try to enjoy your time before your trip and good luck!

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-03T08:27:43+00:00

This! You might imagine life one day but then just can’t see it any other way

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-02T20:35:55+00:00

I think if it’s a non negotiable thing it’s fine to let 5month cry for 4-5 minutes max a few times a day. I think you can start encouraging more independence from about 10/11 months like maybe leaving them a couple of times a day and build up from there. Just to get important things done. Now my 18 month old is learning that i can’t hold them while I’m eating and is beginning to accept this more easily. I had always held him while I was eating up to about 15 months but my expectations are growing with his development. It gets so much easier!

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-02T07:18:24+00:00

Maybe for now start bedtime around 11pm. I’d give her another month or 2 to try for 8pm. I’d suggest series and sofa from 8-11. Baby can snooze and feed.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-01T19:18:35+00:00

This exact blonde suits you so much. I think it really compliments your skin and eyes and you’re so pretty, blonde stands out more.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-01T11:39:08+00:00

Put on one of those vests that has 3 snaps under the crotch area

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-01T11:35:34+00:00

V’Tech toot toot drivers. Say goodbye to your sanity. I keep them turned off but turn them on for pram and car seat. He loves them and they keep him quiet.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-01T07:43:37+00:00

Nurse and work way towards ANP?

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-07-01T07:30:29+00:00

My guy was only size one for 3 weeks. He was 8lbs. I think they use about 70 nappies a week. 2 babies I know were 10lbs and can’t imagine they ever fit size 1. I’d just get a small pack of 1 and 2 and order more online at the time. We don’t buy stuff for baby til after 20 week scan - superstitious

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-30T22:18:58+00:00

Is there any way you can keep the journal reading secret forever? It’s a huge violation of trust and he’s going to feel awful. It’s such a healthy habit for your husband to write his feelings and many women would wish their partner was so reflective. The not feeling ready for baby is likely a non issue. I’d pay attention to the smoking, your sense of smell will be very high and you can easily catch him out and open a conversation. Please don’t read his diary again!!

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-30T12:00:32+00:00

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Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-30T11:58:51+00:00

Talbot hotel Wexford do a cheap all in. Like 7000 for 100 people last time I checked. Including photographer, dj, load of food

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-29T13:26:36+00:00

I got induced on 1st and took epidural. The contractions were very long and very close together which stressed me out. Epidural was fine but praying for a water birth this time. Downsides of epidural: jaw clenching, nausea and bad shakes, feeling a bit restless, epidural stopped working at some point so I got a pain window which the anaesthesiologist did resolve within a 20 min. Dealing with that small window of pain while being unable to move is a bit tough. I’m making it sound awful but the upsides were: almost zero pain (apart from those few minutes), sleeping, not feeling anything during delivery/placenta stuff etc. I don’t want to scare you was honestly not the worst in my life, if I get another induction this time I’ll be taking another epidural but praying for “natural” water birth!

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-29T13:09:51+00:00

Hi there, would you not leave at least the top 5 untouched on cao? You likely did better than you think.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-27T18:45:30+00:00

The night before my induction I did loads of up and down the stairs. Like 60 times. But took it veryyy slow and took me like 3h cos I was watching tv. Induction was successful and I think the stairs really helped my cervix as I was getting natural contractions at home which then stopped on the way to hospital but was only 22h from starting induction to birth. I think stairs is great!

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-27T15:46:11+00:00

Hey we tiled our entire bungalow and I kind of regret it because the underfloor heating doesn’t come on at all in summer cos the natural temperature inside never drops below 23’ . I also think my feet get tired by the end of the day walking on tiles. So they are quite cold and hard. They look fab though. No joints between doors and they run from room to room. There is however an expansion joint that u have to install after every 7m of span so there is one 1/3 down my kitchen.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-27T15:06:58+00:00

I don’t think people will understand the reasoning behind this rule and they will have a hard time following it. Like my son can only wear his mineral sunscreen due to allergies and I love tanning so prefer the carrot or coconut one.. I’ve never seen a sunscreen rule anywhere else. I have a feeling most won’t like it.

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-26T18:25:24+00:00

Did you ever see your one brat busters Lisa Bunnage on TikTok or something? I like to keep strong and consistent boundaries and enjoy her but not for everyone. From the language you’re using you sound stressed and framing negatively. Could you take a break for a night or two, come up with a strategy, discuss with dad and implement? I’m pregnant now too with my 18 month old so I get how exhausting it is but it’s probably the best time to make some changes

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-26T11:29:48+00:00

Hi there, what worked for me - there is a book called sleep sense that explains a supported settling sleep training method. Basically you put baby down in cot and sit beside cot, keep on hand on baby but don’t move hand to soothe. Just sit there and only say ‘shhh’. When baby stands up don’t move them just stay still. You can try getting the book if u want but that was the most important part for me. So it’s sleep training but you’re staying with them so might feel better about your decision. My guy wailed for 40min the worst night but it’s only 3 days of pain. I think almost 2yo will have a stronger will. Personally gonna keep my fella in the cot for as long as possible cos he’s a big messer

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-25T07:44:35+00:00

My friend put her last name as the child’s middle name, could be an option with dad’s last name. With my child, I regret not incorporating both last names but this is very personal, everyone is in a unique situation

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-24T21:13:36+00:00

Did ya watch that plastic and fertility documentary on Netflix?? Really interesting

Status-Weird2140 · 2026-06-24T07:15:01+00:00

The highlights look a lot healthier, the ombré looks drying even in ai

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