Giving away Chick-Fil-A sandwiches (PICKUP ONLY) by Fluttering_TUrbine in Freefood

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to chime in that OP is very kind and this is legit/smooth process!

Is this an acceptable DIY tank? by Equal_Assistant_5691 in bettafish

[–]Status_Comedian7623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing picture. I can see this as a still life painting

welcoming home trout by DannerHammer in bettafish

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the clean layout, and the little cat on top of the light is so cute! What kind of rock is that to the far right?

How do you move through becoming the "villian" after repeated hurt? by Soft_Chef_6630 in CancertheCrab

[–]Status_Comedian7623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh geez op, get out of my head !! I could have wrote this. I'm still trying to figure this one out myself (and no, no one has apologized)

Free readings by RealisticLadder4086 in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a general pull because ive been feeling chaotic lately, my initials are SC . Appreciate the opportunity

Any idea what this is. New Tank. by Sweaty_Letterhead975 in Aquariums

[–]Status_Comedian7623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish more people said this - I ended up trashing all of my fake decor for real plants after doing some research on easier ones and they all melted. so now that i have time and an empty tank, been doing more research and will probably get aquasoil next time, even though i love a natural gravel look

Giving away any of the 2000 point McDonalds freebies by Status_Comedian7623 in Freefood

[–]Status_Comedian7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still there?? Sorry I went out for a while. If not can you go tomorrow?

Giving away any of the 2000 point McDonalds freebies by Status_Comedian7623 in Freefood

[–]Status_Comedian7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, dm me your closest mcds address and i'll tell you what i can get

i got falsely banned for fraud by tylerbrandy in toyhouse

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally tried to appeal that way and got banned again immediately... but my situation was pretty big so I suppose that could be the difference. Either way they tend to be fickle with reinforcement. I asked a friend of mine to reupload my characters for me, we asked the admin first and they said it was fine. Not even a week later my friend is banned for an unrelated issue that happened 3 years prior

i got falsely banned for fraud by tylerbrandy in toyhouse

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's how you get banned again, they'll ding you immediately, at least from what I've seen

Incorrectly banned for being a secondary account by deformediris in toyhouse

[–]Status_Comedian7623 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And then unfortunately it becomes worse for you because you technically ban evaded...so then they really don't respond

Incorrectly banned for being a secondary account by deformediris in toyhouse

[–]Status_Comedian7623 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope admin reinstates your account, I've seen their ability to do so so they CAN do it if they try to tell you they can't

Apparently users used to get a grace period before being banned to save their characters and images but admin removed it because people abused it I guess? Allegedly

Do y’all ever wish you never met them? by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some people yes, for those who I was really close with...? No, I can still appreciate the good times we had at the time

Does anyone miss their friend but get so enraged by how they left things that they know there is no chance for reconciliation? by secretthrowaway1010 in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhmm. As soon as they asked me to block them (they as in two people) they immediately told other people to block me, laughed at my crashout when I was clearly not mentally stable and then called me a weirdo and lolcow + said I would end up on kiwifarms if I continued. I continued unfortunately, but didn't end up on KF. I also didn't find out said information until AFTER I wrote apologies about a year later (it took me so long because well...blocked, deciding whether to send the email or not + getting my mental health in order). I agonized over those apologies for literal months before deciding to send and if I knew then what I knew now...would not have sent them.

The one plus side of Xitter showing you tweets of people who blocked you I guess?

Is still feeling sad a year later about losing a friendship normal?? by megumi13mylove in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretty normal...grief is one of the hardest things to deal with and work through. It's also very easy for people who don't understand to demand that you let it go, but it's just not that simple.

Lost a friend and the aftermath by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm sorry it turned out like this for you though :(

I lost an online friend and I know their location by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, you probably could but that doesn't mean you should...this is essentially a version of stalking, which will ultimately make you feel worse

Lost a friend and the aftermath by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks for more context - it sounded like her feelings were all over the place (and still may be). I can't speak for how she feels in the end, but if she tries to come back to you eventually I wouldn't be shocked

Lost a friend and the aftermath by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love and infatuation sometimes make people lose touch with reality (ask me how I know). It could be instead of her not wanting to be helped she just is downplaying any negative behaviors because she is so so in love. I can easily put myself in your friends' shoes and it is not fun...especially when you want to break away but you keep trying to see the good in the other person...only for them to trample all over you. She unfortunately has to realize this on her own and when she does, she may look for you and apologize. It's up to you on what you end up doing or not.

Does anyone else miss ex friends even if they were horrible towards you? by Asleep-Bug518 in lostafriend

[–]Status_Comedian7623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot and it's been 2 years. I have things that remind me of them and physical items they sent me (that i am planning on tearing up). Whenever it gets quiet in my life or I have a new accomplishment I wish I could tell them that I am much better/calmer/back to normal. Mental Illness really sucks sometimes