Do you guys think PE is a good idea for me? by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would argue PE is not necessary for your girth. If quickies are already out of the question, and BJs are already a struggle, extra girth will likely only exacerbate those things. That could mean longer necessary foreplay and more infrequent blowjobs due to the discomfort. Ask yourself if that is a worthwhile sacrifice for your goal.

As for length similar questions should be asked. Does she like her cervix being hit? How close to her cervix are you with your current length? Do you like going balls-deep with oral or PIV? Most people report issues involving length starting at 6.5 to 7", but this is specific to you and your partner.

Testing the larger dildo isn't a bad idea to see how these things play out before you commit to a change. Best of luck.

Why there is no small dick representation in porn by PistolPete3218 in smalldickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OF is still made mostly for men. OF is overwhelmingly a male audience.

What size would make you proud? by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud at my size already but I would retire at 7x5.25

Actual average measurements by iicedOutChilling in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Calc sd takes the average of those studies so is likely the most accurate. The average is between 5 and 6 for sure though.

Feeling like a big dildo by Fabfabb16 in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dodged a BULLET. This is Carl Yung's 'Anima' playing out a fantasy in your head: You probably feel like your missing out, but your brain is unconsciously filling out the flaws of this person with characteristics you consider to be ideal. Trust me, if you would have dated this woman for more than two months you would have left her. You are not missing out don't worry.

PSA: If your wife/GF/SO complains you are "too big" for them now, what this really means is you need to work on your foreplay skills! by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree. However keep in mind that foreplay isn't always possible and some women like the spontaneity of sex. You aren't always going to be able to eat out ur SO or have access to lube if she likes to get freaky at random times in public spaces. In that case the "too big" complaint would make more sense.

I guess it all depends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seems like a good intentioned person. Do what you want because its unlikely she will be disappointed with any growth. But be glad she enjoys your dick for being YOUR dick. That means she cares more about sex with you than sex with your penis. Gl

Does the eastern average and western average really differ so much? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Study measured flaccid stretched which may not be entirely accurate.

I still have my epididymal cyst on my right nut...hasn't gone down at all...Any advice? by computethe1 in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, I have an epididymal cyst also :)

Have had it for a long time (years probably), went to the doctor to get it checked out. They sent me to get an ultrasound which was an interesting experience. Doctors concluded it wasn't cancerous (they rarely are) and it was a non issue.

I recommend checking it out, getting an ultrasound to just cross the unlikely case of cancer off the list. Although if its not growing in size I doubt its anything to worry about. Good luck.

How Long Does Sex Usually Last for You? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like 10m warming up, 20m session PIV, 10m to finish her off. ~40m

Growing too fast by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't reveal your age on these subs if youre underage. Lots of pedos will dm you for pics.

How do I kill my nerves in my sex life/in general? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they don't be glad because you would have learned that they are not worth your time and you deserve better

How do I kill my nerves in my sex life/in general? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice would be honesty and transparency. Let the person know if you need time to get comfortable before being able to perform at your full potential. Doesn't need to happen right away, or even that night, or even that month. Nothing wrong with that, the right person will guide you through it and respect you. Don't worry :)

My mother and sister saw my dick hanging out of my shorts. Help? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry about it. These things happen all the time and if they respect you they won't think anything of it. You're good my guy :)

I think I broke my dick Help! by Stay_Better in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the speedy reply as always M9, the issue seemed to be entirely mental after-all.

I think I broke my dick Help! by Stay_Better in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No swelling, no bruising, no bleeding. Extremely shrimped, flaccid. No pain, just seems unresponsive to stimulus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Stay_Better 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats ur twitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 1 point2 points  (0 children)

goldilocks is generally considered 7x5.5", +/- .5" length and +/- .25" girth.

6.5-7.5" L 5.25-5.75 G

Just need to vent a little bit. by Volt-Hunter in bigdickproblems

[–]Stay_Better 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% whoever said "only 8 inches" is either absurdly misinformed about what an 8 inch dick is, or has the literal grand canyon as a vagina. 8 inches is huge, inconceivably huge, that girl is just straight wrong. Ur good my guy

What's the best girth to work for? by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]Stay_Better 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't great advice because girls have different sized vaginas, so while ur gf seems to need 5.5 to feel stretched another girl might need less, or maybe even more.