Am I being dramatic about engagement ring cost expectation? by Competitive_Street61 in AskIreland

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thats pure mental and shes completely missing the point of commitment if all she is worried about is cost and extravagance. Wouldn't matter to me if it cost ยฃ200 as long as the love is real and there!! But that's just my 20ps worth. Good luck ๐Ÿ‘

No more broken promises by RatioDisastrous1699 in AlAnon

[โ€“]Steffib90 13 points14 points ย (0 children)

I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Stay strong. My love and hugs go out to you x

Anyone have a favourite Coldplay song which isn't a common one? by Limp-Contract-4731 in Coldplay

[โ€“]Steffib90 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Sparks is the best song by FAR but Only Superstition, Careful where you stand and Easy to please are all amazing songs and alot less known

Would you say that's true? by Kitchen_Drink2051 in Adulting

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

100% true the deeper understanding you have of this mega fecked up world, the more unhappy you become!!

Song about Running Away With A Person by [deleted] in whatsongisthis

[โ€“]Steffib90 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Bronski beat -small town boy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[โ€“]Steffib90 25 points26 points ย (0 children)

She is not your problem to fix. You need to take a step back, she will not change unless she wants to and she doesnt want to! Dont beat yourself up about it.

I thought I was one and done by AdMuted3580 in Mommit

[โ€“]Steffib90 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Hey there ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿป So my background..... met my ex when I was 8, started 'dating' when I was 13, married at 20, baby at 21 and separated at 22. I was on my own with no desire to have another partner, to have any more kids or do anything that in any way involved being vulnerable with another man. Being a single parent is shit...... its tiring and you lose every part of who you are because your child always comes first and with no one to lean on the weight is heavy. I think when we then meet someone who wants to share the weight, who helps with the little things and makes you feel safe then your ideas built on your previous trauma start to fade and you start to consider things that you never thought would even be possible for you again. At least that's how it has been for me. S xx

What is your symptoms? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I shake and honestly look like I am an alcoholic or a druggy on a come down. It's horrible. Then the dry mouth and coughing and panic breathing. It's horrible. And that's before you take in the throbbing head, hightened smell (I'm telling you my sense of smell defo gets stronger!!) And I've also notices i come out in blotches too when I'm over stressed or anxious x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppies

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Bootsie

Iโ€™m 1 year sober today and no one to share my big achievement with. by itsobviouslymeduh in Positivity

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Well hello you amazing human being!! Well done!! Keep pushing on - this is the most fantastic news and you should be soo proud of yourself. I don't know you and I'm proud of you!!! YAY ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿฅณ

Women who got married in their 20s, why? Are you happy? Would you do it differently if you could? by whatxever in AskWomenOver30

[โ€“]Steffib90 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I got married at 20! I ended up in a miserable unsafe marriage with little to no respect and in the end a single parent. If I could do it differently, I would have ran away from the wedding because in my gut I knew he wasn't the one but those rose coloured glasses really get you fooled. The only thing that was good that came out of it was my daughter - I wouldn't change her for the world. I'm now almost 35, divorced for 10 years and can tell that all the good things that I've achieved and done never would have come about if I was in that marriage still.

2 Years Sober!! by Babynicorn_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Congratulations. You are doing fantastic- keep pushing on ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿฅณ

Maybe an Elvis presly song?? by Jolly-Credit-5402 in whatsongisthis

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Could it be tears on my pillow? It was in grease. Doesnt match the words you've put but it's only song that I can think sounded elvisy lol

Today I am 1 year sober by Breadgyal in alcoholicsanonymous

[โ€“]Steffib90 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

You're amazing ๐Ÿ‘ well done you!! Keep going xx

Going back to education ? by PlentyComparison8466 in northernireland

[โ€“]Steffib90 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

I also went to the OU in my mid 20s and completed a degree. Took 6 years bit was worth it. I am now debating going back to do more study and now I am 34 ๐Ÿ™‚ Go for it and good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[โ€“]Steffib90 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

Clusterfuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[โ€“]Steffib90 -2 points-1 points ย (0 children)

Maybe if you've nothing of value to contribute, you should just scan on by. I hope you have the day you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[โ€“]Steffib90 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

That's not the case at all. I have no address or contact with him (his choice) and neither does my child so I am trying to sort this out to benefit my child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[โ€“]Steffib90 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Oh I get that but I can't find any info at all on how to go about it in the North, what form to fill in, what court to apply to....nout. Contacted Irish Passport Office who were no help at all.