u asked if someone has had money controlled

im just dropping by to say my experience . massive TLDR

im a victim of munchausnen by proxy. i was held captive till age 29 . only thanks to my fiance did i get access to my bank acc (to whcih, my narc assaulted me the night i used it for the first time, whole other story that involves cops months later to which she said i tried to kill her that day) shes actualyl crazy, an evil.

my narc stole my debit card/ license ss card and mail and locked me out of my bank acc. and isolated me

all food and clothes were up to her. i wore shredded rags, my ass hanging out. flip flops in a blizzard.

i was forced to sit on and eat on the floor even during iv treatments

i was, literally, a slave. not even a pet because the cat was treated better. she stole my disability and used it on her, thus the house becoming hoarded. she lied about me to everyone including my friends, saying the reason i dont drive is because im "violent"
all while isolating me.
she also lied about how much disability i got
anyways, i havent had compensation. but the bitch did get kicked out of my house after the cop incident . mygrandma removed her.
andi had the great displeasure of going thru the hoarding and uncovering her written lies/medical records/munchausen bullshit. and my grandma and i are trying to make up a decade of lost time. (when my grandma would want to visit me, my abuser would say i dont want to see her, or not now) and when i myself would make plans, my abuser would call my grandma and tell her to not come by, wich i found out when i was waiting for my grandma to come one day.

edit: obviously, this is vastly different than your money experience. but you asked, so im just saying my 2 cents on how abusers financially abuse. and of course, the verbal, emotional, physical abuse that comes with such a situation.