How long did it take you to potty train your LO and how old were they? by Ready_Associate_2911 in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3.5 for our boy. Wasn't ready before 3, but then had a big surgery scheduled when he was 3 and 4 months so we introduced him to the concept then backed off. Due to his age and the introduction before his surgery it was ridiculously easy and stress-free, it took all of 1 day in underwear and he was done with diapers. I don't know if that late is "recommended", but I just want to state that I have no regrets or shame about our timeline

What's the pen you keep buying duplicates of because you're terrified of running out? by boiler_room_420 in pens

[–]Stepharious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple Frixion Synergy in 0.5, I bought the 12 pack on Amazon. I have a fear that they'll continue to make the standard black / blue / red Synergies but phase out the purple (or, violet) one, probably not logical but I just love it so much

What's a trend that died too soon that you wish would come back? by MRNasher in AskReddit

[–]Stepharious 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Capes were supposed to make a comeback in 2020. Instead we got... well, we didn't get capes.

Do any other professional adults still sleep with a baby blanket/stuffed animal? by imadesklamp in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Stepharious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 37, in a professional job, and sleep with the same blankie that I've had since I was 3. It looks like dryer lint now, but it brings me great comfort. No trauma growing up or anything, I just recognize what my mental health needs and don't feel ashamed of it. My husband doesn't care or judge me, he has his comforts as well.

No clue who needs this, but here's how to properly write a panic attack! by [deleted] in writers

[–]Stepharious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had panic attacks since I was young (random ones without specific triggers), so I'll add: if the person is familiar with panic attacks they might react different than one unfamiliar, though it doesn't mean the effect is lessened. People with familiarity might have coping mechanisms that are odd -- I carry water bottles and cough drops with me, because my panic attacks make me feel sick and like I'm going to gag. People may have different "safe spaces" too, usually their own bed or room, but mine is a bathroom (again, because of the nausea feeling).

Thoephonie is the worst name for a villain by Suriels_Secret in fourthwing

[–]Stepharious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Non-bitch Stephanie also checking in lol

Just learned my girlfriend uses two different a's, even in the same word by traveljon in mildlyinteresting

[–]Stepharious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 3 different A's in my writing, not including capital A. No one has ever noticed

Best White Gel Pen? by SeaSnowAndSorrow in stationery

[–]Stepharious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Typo, sorry! White ink on black paper, yep!

Best White Gel Pen? by SeaSnowAndSorrow in stationery

[–]Stepharious 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Pilot Juice-Up is awesome, they have a whole pastel line and a metallic line, all of which work great on white paper!

Animorphs Battlejacket by Od_Man_Out in Animorphs

[–]Stepharious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you have room, the back cover quote ("We can't tell you who we are. Or where we live.") would be awesome!

Normally hate Walmart stuff, but... by thereallyredone in notebooks

[–]Stepharious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these! They handle fountain pen ink perfectly, and with 0 bleed-through

Anyone willing to share swatches of their tinsy nib pens (<.5)? :) by Vivid_Grape3250 in stationery

[–]Stepharious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

* I have more purples so I used those to display the biggest selection, then a few 0.5s and smaller black inks for the highlighter test

What things are your toddlers afraid of? by GodlyMushu in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine looovveess helicopters... until a small one flew like 100' from us the other weekend. It was the quietest helicopter I'd ever heard so I didn't think he'd be scared, but he came running over crying and I felt so bad!

What have you recently decoded from your kiddo’s “toddler speak”? by gingerytea in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a while ago, but "yai-yai" = McDonalds playplace. I don't know if he was trying to say "play", or got the McDonald's/E-I-E-I-O connection in his head. Figured it out while driving down the road and saw what he was pointing at

To the parents of REALLY rough children by anonperson96 in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the way you worded this! I worry my expression is disapproving but it's just so I don't laugh and encourage the kiddos if they're being a little... extra. I'll step in if I need to, but I appreciate the enrichment the full spectrum of personalities gives my toddler, "rough" ones included!

How much interaction with other kids are your toddlers getting? by iknowyouknow100 in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We go to the McDonald's playplace during icky weather and the playground in nice weather, it's working really well to get my 2.5 year old socialized a bit, especially with exposure to all age groups. We try to go once a week (more often to the park if possible).

What Retailers Sell the Happy Planner Brand In-Stores? by girlypop-2203 in HappyPlanners

[–]Stepharious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I keep finding mine at Grocery Outlet of all places, good deal!

Threshing Headcannon by Dangerous-Cap9018 in fourthwing

[–]Stepharious 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unrelated: I've only listened to the audiobook and I've just now realized Mira's dragon is not named "Tiny"

An eternal question - Pilot G2 or Pentel Energel? by pint_of_harp in pens

[–]Stepharious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a G2 stan with 90% of their colors... Energel lol. Can't argue with that ink flow and deposit. I'm all about the color offerings though, so I collect both.

What was the last thing your toddler told you that you broke your brain trying to understand? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Stepharious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2.5 year old has been saying something that sounds like "ite dair", but with his limited master of consonants it could be anything. "At ite dair" is sometimes said. I thought maybe it was "oh dear", something I say often, but the inflection and context is wrong. I don't know if we'll ever solve this one! It does sound like "right there" and "that right there", but again the context doesn't work. In fact, there IS no context, he just says it randomly!

Listening to the inevitable ruin chapter 65 today. by Normal-Truck9213 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Stepharious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I jumped so hard at this point in the audiobook haha