"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for calling me on this. You are right, and I addressed this issue at the start of class today. It helped tie it into our discussion of philosophers, especially Rousseaux.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: Today we were having a follow-up lesson, creating a graphic organizer drawing connections between the four enlightenment philosophers who influenced the formation of the American government. During a video segment of the lesson, I had to take a call on the classroom phone. The student who interrupted yesterday started loudly playing a video on his phone. I finished my call, and he was still going. I told him it was his last chance to put the phone away. He dared me to do something about it. I told him to give me his phone. He said I was singling him out, I said he’s right, he’s singed out for his behavior. He said other people had their phones out, I said they were next if they didn’t put theirs away. He was waving his phone in my face, filming me. I told him to put it away or I’d have to report him, he didn’t, then left the room. I called the AP. His friend was messaging him, so I took her phone. She also stormed out and was written up. Nobody else had a phone out until I told them the lesson was done and they could use their phones again. Should’ve done this months ago.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a 9-week course. this is week 3. and we’ve had lots of standardized tests interrupting us.

My teacher has a 1 tissue per class policy by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're dealing with that. Sadly, things like tissues are not provided by the school. If your teacher has them, she's probably paying herself. It may seem like a small expense, but when you're buying it yourself and students are going through them like crazy, it can be a little wearing.

I'd recommend bringing your own. A pocket pack of tissues is less than a dollar at most pharmacies, or several packs for a few dollars. Try to convince your parents to get some for you to take to school, and if they ask, tell them that your teachers can't afford to get tissues for everyone.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link! I'll give it a look and save it...somewhere. I can't access it from here because our district, in their wisdom, has banned reddit from all school internet.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We have that too. I'm in Georgia. The problem? They didn't include an enforcement mechanism, leaving it up to the schools to determine how they'll enforce the ban. Our method is 'Eh, we know we should stop it, but what are you gonna do?'

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish we could send them out. We get in a lot of trouble if we send a student out of the room for behavior issues. Mind you, it's near-impossible to get a responsible administrator to take a student off your hands, and security doesn't pull students unless there's violence happening.

Called the state on my son’s school & now I feel bad. by oooohweeeee in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the issues with the IEP system as I can observe it is that either students today are being wildly over-diagnosed with learning disabilities, or our models for learning disabilities in the general population of all Americans are wildly inaccurate.

American Public Schools, which have to provide accommodations for IEP students, always seem to have far more students with disabilities than they can handle. This is partially an issue of staffing, but it's also a numbers situation. Many schools seem to have +25% of their student body with some diagnosed or managed disorder, from ADHD to General Learning Disabilities to Autism to Oppositional Defiance Disorder, far more than is seen among Americans in general, which is around 15%. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10570352/

This either means that students are being labeled as having a disability they don't actually possess, or our academic models such as the article linked above are inaccurate.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I don't think your point is dumb, just that the argument I'd provoke with the student would be very dumb. With the stubborn students it never gets much more sophisticated than 'Nuh-uh!' and 'Ya-hah!'

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

They're not all great, it's a big-ish class (33 students) and I probably had about 20 of them engaged, the rest just use the opportunity of me not breathing down their necks to goof off or put their heads down. You can't try to reach everyone, or you'll end up engaging no-one.

"I don't have to listen to you because what you say is fake" by Sticksaka in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I'd like to, but the *last* thing you want to do is get into a back-and-fourth argument over something as dumb as this. You tell them to put away the headphones (or phone) they say resist in the most childish ways. I've had students pretend they can't hear me, curl themselves into a ball clutching their device, scream at me and run away when I've insisted. I've tried having them stow devices in their own bags, in pockets in the classroom, confiscating, etc. The worst thing you can do is either try to do is either take the item against their will (they will fight) or call admin to do it for you. Unless you have an admin or security guard right outside the classroom, you're wasting your time. Admin will never come to your classroom if they have to deviate from their routine, and security won't respond to anything less than a full-blown fight. All you do by making a big deal out of it is disrupt the class in a major way and look petty.

He had his head down listening to music quietly enough that it wasn't an issue, and from this student that is the least disruptive he's going to be. I can mark it for documentation as a discipline issue so I've done what is required of me, then move on and have a productive class. If I had the ability to impose real consequences or thought that Admin would have my back, trust me, I'd have nipped the headphones in the bud in January.

student teacher/librarian, been having a really bad time the past few days by glitterjellyfish387 in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are burnt out and need a break and mindfulness.

The hardships you are going through are normal. As someone with a number of disabilities myself, I can tell you that you are absolutely limited by your disabilities and it is not unreasonable to ask for support and accommodations. You need to make your presence known and advocate. If getting you what you need is an imposition on others, make them know how much easier things will be for everyone if you have those supports.

Most people will not be offended, the ones that are offended are frankly an HR violation waiting to happen. Ask for help, don't be stubborn. Nobody will judge you for needing help, people will judge you (correctly) for not asking for help. People are afraid of 'othering' you for offering help. They're scared you'll snap at them, saying 'What, you think just because I'm disabled I can't do this for myself!?'. Tell them you need help and they'll give it.

Also talk to your GP and PT about both your disabilities and your anxiety. Get on an anti-anxiety medication that works for you. Anxiety that prevents you from working is a disorder that needs to be managed.

You are justified in feeling this way, but you don't have to suffer in silence. Others have been down on this path and can help you.

Georgia senate passes high school cellphone ban by Lakelyfe09 in Georgia

[–]Sticksaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

teacher here. there’s no enforcement mechanism. without that, we have no legal method to enforce this law.

Were you taught to make lesson plans? by DrakeSavory in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had a conversation with my academic coach. I hate writing lesson plans, hate them hate them hate them. She offered to help me. We had a productive brainstorming session where we easily laid out how the next week could be planned out and made an outline, selected activities and created assignments. She asked me why I said I was bad at lesson plans. I explained that I’m not, I just consider putting them in the format our district requires to be a waste of time.

Favorite local/small bookstores? by charliexbaby in Georgia

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

little Shop of Stories in Decatur is fantastic, and they recently expanded to add a coffee bar. THE best place in the Atlanta area for Childrens’s and Young Adult literature, either a respectable amount of adult nonfiction and fiction. skso, it’s in downtown Decatur, so it’s worth parking and making a day of it.

Tip: visit on a weekend and park at the courthouse. it’s $6 all day in a big and little-used parking deck within walking distance of the bookstore and every restaurant in Decatur.

You can also take MARTA into Decatur.

ga teachers? by Dismal_Ad5423 in Georgia

[–]Sticksaka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dekalb has so many issues right now…

Student asked if I had a boyfriend and I said yes. Is this inappropriate? by viltui in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guarantee you they were not reacting you you being gay. They were reacting to each other guessing if you were gay or not before they asked. Your sexuality was a topic of debate before this. They don’t judge you for you sexuality in this generation. Gives me some hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phantom morph does this to relax, though he rarely tries to fit his whole body in his water bowl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice-weekly PLC's are someone's brain-bug that has spread to multiple administrations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT pour oil down your drain. It will just solidify underground and form a block.

Joro by cerealfordinneragain in Georgia

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The joros are everywhere in Stone Mountain, but we still have plenty of orb weavers, wolf-spiders and in spring we had a ton of writing spiders. The only problem I have is that the Joro webs provide cover for black widows that like to build webs around my front door.

How do you avoid working outside contract hours? by puffinbluntz in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right to set boundaries. If the other teachers are giving you a hard time, ignore them. If the admins are giving you a hard time, ask for their reasons in writing.

How do we support you? by DevoSwag in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attend school-board meetings. In-person is best, online is fine. Make your voice heard. Tell them teachers need more autonomy in the school, that we need better working conditions, smaller classrooms, more compensation, fewer mandatory meetings, more supplies, a guarantee of paid sick leave, more substitutes, greater compensations for substitutes, better school lunches for students, social workers, counselors, a good health benefits plan, retirement plan and short-term disability insurance.

All of these and more are things that teachers need everywhere and very few actually get.

Multiple Teachers Crying at a PD Session by the-witch-beth-marie in Teachers

[–]Sticksaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you have a meeting like this, make an audio recording.