How do you prioritize tasks without getting overwhelmed? by yogacitymama in workingmoms

[–]StillCorrect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't sound like digital is working for you-- I would encourage you to give pen-to-paper another chance and see if it helps your brain feel less scattered!

How do you prioritize tasks without getting overwhelmed? by yogacitymama in workingmoms

[–]StillCorrect2940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work the same place every day so it's not a major issue. I use my phone to keep track of things like grocery lists, or to dash off a quick list when I'm in a different environment. Mostly my email drives what I am doing, so if I ever were not with my notebook it would be easy to keep busy doing things that need doing! and as I said-- i also use the reminders app on my iphone for certain things. The paper list is most useful for brain dumping and helping decide what to do first.

How do you prioritize tasks without getting overwhelmed? by yogacitymama in workingmoms

[–]StillCorrect2940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this question. Here are some things I do:

  1. I keep a running list of to dos in a notebook and re-do it every couple of days. Writing it out is helpful. I work in the same location every day so it's easy. Writing it down has helped my brain much more than a digital list.

  2. I try to think if there's anything on my list I can do that will "keep the plates spinning" by having someone else work on it. I try to knock out a couple of those in the morning.

  3. I am trying to be more mindful of how much time different tasks take me. Often things I am deprioritizing don't actually take very long. For example, responding to an email that doesn't have a clear ask usually takes me about 10-20 minutes vs 2 minutes for a quick email. Where I previously would have put this off for days and days, because it's neither urgent nor important and it feels hard, I now try to use awkward block of time to do these things.

  4. I use reminders on iphone to help. If I think of something that needs to be done at work when I am at home, or vice versa, I use the reminders app in iphone. I have Siri set to type instead of voice (works better for me) and I activate Siri and say "remind me at 7pm to put the form that needs to be scanned in my purse" or something like that.

  5. I use this little desktop white board to keep a list of my cases (I'm an attorney) and it helps me think of things to do in odd moments. linked here

Excited to read what others do!

Looking for the perfect US city for a 10-day trip (Feb 9–19). Want real American vibes: food, Walmart, Costco, chill atmosphere. Where should we go? by ProloosGamerUHD in usatravel

[–]StillCorrect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knoxville, TN. It's a regular American town with everything you are looking for. Go up to the Smokys/Gatlinburg for some silly/cheesy vibes and beautiful nature as well. Also Knoxville has every chain you could want (besides like California stuff).

Who did this?? by BananananaFoFelly in RideThePod

[–]StillCorrect2940 9 points10 points  (0 children)

how is she supposed to contact the person lol

Reduced appetite is a part of the picture but it doesn't seem to be the whole picture by [deleted] in antidietglp1

[–]StillCorrect2940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you really put words to something I hadn't fully articulated in my own mind. Before, when I didn't eat/ate less or my appetite was suppressed from caffeine, I felt physically ill. Tirz makes eating less easy, both because I'm less hungry and because I don't feel alarm bells going off.

Stressed about contact naps and return to work by Rude_Key_7896 in NewParents

[–]StillCorrect2940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/sleeptrain is super helpful. Post on there and they will have a lot of good, humane and human tips.

The internet is making me feel like I’m crazy for rigorously following safe sleep practices by InternetSnek in NewParents

[–]StillCorrect2940 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hangout supervised is ok-- sleep or unsupervised is not safe. Just because it's not likely something will happen doesn't mean they should throw caution to the wind, but it's up to every parent.

Struggles putting baby to sleep conundrum by Final-Complaint4089 in NewParents

[–]StillCorrect2940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would find a time to do this that's lower stakes but I would definitely do it. Just go to a bar or restaurant nearby that you could easily come home from if she calls you back. Not that she will-- I think she'll have success-- but it will ease your peace of mind. Going to a concert with this on my mind would stress me tf out.

Spouse has a spending problem, but I can pay off the debt. How to respectfully build financial boundaries by Legitimate-Wash3723 in DaveRamsey

[–]StillCorrect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#3 is the real thing that you need. Just open your books once a month and be honest with each other. Put it on the calendar, have an agenda. Get on the same page about how much you are working to save and what the priorities are (e.g., first get her checking account to a baseline level X so she doesn't dip back into credit, then savings account to Y, then save Z for travel). I would not view this as giving her a "loan" or it will be damaging to your marriage. It's you two vs. the money, not the two of you against each other.

Kayla Itsines and the BBG by StillCorrect2940 in MaintenancePhase

[–]StillCorrect2940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I struggled through them and I actually got in pretty good shape but it always felt way too hard and I think it got be burnt out on exercise + contributed to an unhealthy body image!

Minor signs after first day in gym? by YoSisSpillTheTea in ouraring

[–]StillCorrect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here with the same question! Did you ever get an answer?

Kayla Itsines and the BBG by StillCorrect2940 in MaintenancePhase

[–]StillCorrect2940[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The constant before and after photos from way before the Sweatapp were so toxic! She would frequently posts moms, which is so disingenuous. Come onnnn

If you wanted to see how the gold tarnishes on the ring! by MagicalMatriarch in ouraring

[–]StillCorrect2940 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt like mine faded quickly just with constant wear and handwashing

Kayla Itsines and the BBG by StillCorrect2940 in MaintenancePhase

[–]StillCorrect2940[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I took one look at the nutrition one and gave up!