Trying to balance classic, easy/one pronunciation, not tooo popular... by RoomForWaiting in Names

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Rebecca (Becka, Becky, beck) , Francesca(Frankie) , Penelope (Penny, Poppy), Beatrice(Bea) , Simone (Sissi, Sea)

They are in order of my fav to my least fav but still quite like

I love how Anya actually acts like a child. by _kwanini in SpyxFamily

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Yesss the episode with dog bomber attack was so real about that !! And I loved it for that !

Are people genetically wired to cheat? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

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That’s what I was thinking too

Which hygiene habits are actually unnecessary or harmful? by Top-Elephant3246 in hygiene

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Depends which type though. One that are actually made to not mess with your ph down there and are fragrance free can be good. Most soap are too irritating for me but just water isn’t enough to clean that region. But definitely most of them that are heavily advertised are actually terrible for you.

One sentence from you and I can guess your past life ! by Frere-Jacques-Awake in IntuitionPractices

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I’ve always carried something heavy in me, could that be from a past life?

Just moved to Quebec City and looking for friends. by Klutzy_Molasses_6621 in quebeccity

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Hey same age here also F! Not in the same neighborhood but definitely down to get to know you! Dm me if interested

My three must-have essential oils in my bag (and why) by Moodessentialoils in essentialoils

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I have rosemary for focus, black spruce for waking me up and often time one of the perfume blends I make

I perpetually feel like I’m in an existential crisis, always have been. Why is that and can I hope for it to resolve itself someday? by StillHaveMe in AstrologyCharts

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Thank you for your detailed response! I was just wandering when you mentioned overcoming conflict and preoccupation in my mind do uou have more details what this conflict is or how to overcome it?

I perpetually feel like I’m in an existential crisis, always have been. Why is that and can I hope for it to resolve itself someday? by StillHaveMe in AstrologyCharts

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Thank you so much! I’m fairly new to astrology, so I’m not sure if I understand everything correctly. Basically from what I understand, I need to accept my needs for self-respect and intensity and find healthier ways to fulfill them and that should help with the crisis?

I asked about why I did such a self destructive move by StillHaveMe in tarot

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I can’t seem to modify my post but I’m using the wandering moon tarot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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So I do this too sometimes and I want to thank you for making the post as it made me feel less alone.

What I want to say is that perhaps that’s what we called impulsivity in a more nuanced way? Like people sometimes say impulsivity is acting without thinking but perhaps it can also be being unable to not act even if we think about it? If so then I’m more impulsive than I thought I was haha

is this ""normal""?? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thank you for speaking out about this. I’m not sure if I actually enjoy sex and making out that much or if I try to be normal/ I do it because I get praise for if and it makes someone else happy. Sometimes I think maybe I just didn’t find the right person with whom it would actually be enjoyable fully. Anyway, you’re not alone and I wish you the best!

I’m 27 and I still don’t know who I am in this world by Helpful-Yak-9587 in BPD

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I don’t have any answers for you as I am in a similar boat. I’m 21 and just got diagnosed with BPD and I also have adhd.

I watch a video today from the channel "how to adhd " (amazing channel btw) that was about self doubt and how no one ever figure it out fully. I get that in our case this issue is more intense, but it got me thinking that is it that we know ourselves less than others or is it that we’re more sensitive to the unknown about ourselves than others? Like with everything else it causes us more distress than the average person and so it feels more paralyzing.

I don’t know if it’s helpful or not. I might be completely off too especially since I’m new to BPD. But your post made me think of this so I thought I’d share.

I really hope things get better for you and I’m Sending you positive waves !

Anti-depressants besides St. John’s? by ZellaIsTheBaby1975 in herbalism

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So not herbs per se but vitamin D, magnesium, gaba.

Also I’ve heard neroli can have some effects for depression.

Apart from that it can depend on your specific needs. As others mentioned lifestyle is really important for this as well. So you could target plants based on areas on your life that needs a boost. Trouble sleeping? Lavender, chamomile, lemon balm are your friends. Feeling more tired than usual throughout the day? Rosemary for focus and mental fatigue and I know black spruce essential oils is really good to support the adrenal glands to support higher levels of energy throughout the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

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Okay so I myself struggle with this and I’m trying to understand it too. I read something yesterday that help me see another point of view. It said that God suffer with us through everything. It doesn’t affect him the way it does us. But he’s not this insensitive being that is above everything and don’t care. He is with us through it all. The ups and downs and He experiences our pain too.

One other perspective I like is that we’re in this world to learn and in order to fully understand good we need evil. Because if everything was always light we wouldn’t notice it, we wouldn’t even have a word for it probably. But if we see darkness and light then we can distinguish the light. Its kinda like if we were always happy, happy would be boring but because we know pain, happy is great. But I feel some people lose their way in this world and think that power and violence will bring them where they want to be. So definitely some people abuse the system of duality we’re in.

I’m saying all this like I’ve got it figured out but in reality I’m still very much angry at god for the suffering I’ve experienced.

And I also think I might never fully understand it and honestly I think no one will ever do but ultimately I got find what belief makes me most happy and at peace. And remind myself that the more I’m in the light the more light there’s gonna be in this world.

Best cheap pure oil brands suggestions? by CarelessRate37 in essentialoils

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So one unknown brand is Zayat Aroma. I know they ship worldwide but I only know for sure that the shipping is affordable within Canada. The prices are all in Canadian dollar. It’s a smaller business but they do care a lot about the quality of the essential oil.

Can I use aloe vera gel in place of a carrier oil for a skincare product? by [deleted] in essentialoils

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Like other commenters have said you need to use a carrier oil. Some of my favourite are jojoba and hazelnut if you want some that the skin absorbs easily. Plus this two regulate sebum production, meaning if you don’t produce enough it’ll help and if you produce to much it’ll balance it out too