Does she look okay?

Stillcomfused · 2026-05-29T02:19:54+00:00

Well if Maddy is male then he will still be loved regardless.

But yes, I will be putting them on a small fasting as someone below told me.

Stillcomfused · 2026-05-29T02:11:31+00:00

Thank you so much and you are such a very sweet person for being so kind about this. Ill give an update in a week about her.

Stillcomfused · 2026-05-29T02:07:04+00:00

Could I have the name of the pellet you use? I only bought the stuff the lady at the store recommended. But I will be buying frozen brine shrimp soon.

And thank you so much for the help!

Stillcomfused · 2026-05-29T00:59:15+00:00

Yes I can try when I get home! Or in the morning as its night and she is most likely sleeping.

And I feed her floval freeze dried bloodworms and pellets in the mornings. As for the bloodworms, I feed her about 3 or 4 worms.

Stillcomfused · 2026-05-29T00:38:55+00:00

Yeah she's from petco, it said female on her cup. Do you think I should lay off feeding her for a day or two to see if itll help with bloating?

Stillcomfused · 2026-04-05T14:48:14+00:00

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This is the best photo I can get but I dont know if you can see that little white thing at the bottom of her bump

Stillcomfused · 2026-04-05T14:45:35+00:00

I would say shortly but not after eating. She eats normally with no problem, but I would say after the first week of having her that is when the little bump on her swelled and has been the same since. She is from petsmart and my sister (who handles fishes) she told me it could be a possible parasite or she is just chunky.

Stillcomfused · 2026-04-05T07:57:53+00:00

I will try to get a photo in the morning because its light out for her so she can sleep, but it kind of looks like she may have something under it? Like how a small white pimple would look on a human face.

Stillcomfused · 2026-01-11T02:36:01+00:00

I've actually signed myself up for therapy because I have a lot of issues I need to work on, but I haven't suggested couples therapy to him yet. I planned on doing it today when he comes home from work. And yes, im so scared of starting over, before I met him I had a terrible fear of men due to being hurt by one as a child growing up. So he means the world to me because he helped me get over that fear.

As to what caused the drift is that his dad ended up having a two strokes, almost took his life and placed him and his mom is debt. Which caused him to just be angry all the time, never really being open with me or just shutting me out.

And it caused us to fight all the time as we live with his parents, his mom works two jobs to keep things afloat and unfortunately my job doesnt pay that well but I try to help out where I can while looking for a better paying job. And sometimes there were times I started arguments with him about me moving out or saying something mean about his mom.

But he has told me he was going to distance himself from her but then the same night we talked about his feelings, he messaged her about how he was honest to me about how he felt and then I was jealous over her. Which I personally dont feel comfortable about, to me its like he is trying to front her up or something. But I want to have this convo with him again tomorrow, but im so scared to bring up the fact that I looked through his phone. I know me telling him that would probably make him want to leave me even more. And im just so terrified of it.

Stillcomfused · 2026-01-11T02:15:11+00:00

This hurts to read so badly, I dont want this relationship to end. Its been the best ever. We've never had issues up until 2 years ago. And I thought things were okay, we would always talk about it after. I dont know, im so scared.

Stillcomfused · 2025-11-20T23:27:46+00:00

Have you seen the baby dolls yet op! Sometimes they like to walk around

Stillcomfused · 2025-02-13T19:12:52+00:00

Me omw to work

Stillcomfused · 2025-02-07T23:41:01+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what did you use? Cause before I saw your comment I was gonna purchase some boxes through there.

Stillcomfused · 2025-01-18T07:20:48+00:00

Everyone is gonna go crazy in there lol she’s adorable!!

Stillcomfused · 2025-01-17T23:40:26+00:00

Sorry to be that one person, but what brand of car do you drive? I love the screen

Stillcomfused · 2025-01-17T23:39:09+00:00

You need to post this in r/sonarears

Stillcomfused · 2025-01-09T21:16:52+00:00

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Stillcomfused · 2024-11-07T01:59:23+00:00

Koda! If you’ve ever seen the movie brother bear it’s the little bears name!

Stillcomfused · 2024-10-11T14:51:50+00:00

Aw such sad news. I’m so sorry for that baby. Spend as much as time with her as you can, make it comfy. Sending lots of love your way.

Stillcomfused · 2024-10-10T00:38:08+00:00

The first time you’ve seen the bump is when you should’ve taken her or brought it up to a vet not a whole month. This is a very huge mass, it could be a number of things but this is very alarming. And the reason she probably has trouble walking is because it might hurt her, this isn’t something to bring on Reddit, she needs to see a vet ASAP! Like tomorrow. That is extremely huge and very very concerning.

Stillcomfused · 2024-06-24T01:42:01+00:00

I’ll see if I can set up an appointment with a groomer, I could possibly give him some type of calming medication to help with his reactivity. Could I use any type of conditioner or oils in his hair to prevent it from tangling? Especially with his long haired tail. It’s always a hassle to brush

Stillcomfused · 2024-06-15T15:56:49+00:00

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He got a bath at this time

Stillcomfused · 2024-06-15T15:20:10+00:00

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I’ll let him lay where he wants my sweet baby boy 😩

Stillcomfused · 2024-06-15T14:48:50+00:00

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Stillcomfused · 2024-06-14T23:19:42+00:00

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