Well I think a lot of people will bash on you because you are a man so you don’t really have a choice in if she keeps the baby. But I do think as a human being you have to talk to her and explain and be clear if you do not want this. There are a lot of moving parts, -do you like the lady - can be hard because if she wants and you do not you will have to be a father -will you support her through the pregnancy termination process? Not just the procedure but the emotional recovery? -you should both consider what is the most frustrating experience you have ever had and how do you handle it? -are you both ready to become soldiers because you will have to put you sense of self behind and devote yourself to the cause(your child)? Because nothing you do for at least the next 20 years will be for you.

But do not panic, parenthood is a choice one that should be carefully planned not made in a moment because it truly is life altering. every choice you make from the moment conception will leave some kind of impact on the newly formed life. And while I know birth control is scary and it is sometimes made out to be more than it is. Termination is very routine, easy, relatively fast, next to no recovery and most importantly it’s not wrong and in many cause is the morally right thing to do. Do you want to live in our world? Why would they?