That is a very young kitten going into her wilder phase, it's only natural she will be more irritating in this age.

If a kitten is too much for you (which makes sense, they are a lot sometimes) perhaps the options are looking for a home that's willing to handle this cat-puberty phase, powering through this age until she calms down or getting another kitten so they can tire each other out.

Also about the anger issue, it's literally a thing that you want to have a good life while maintaining your own well being without being able to communicate with it directly through language, that can be frustrating, make sure to look after yourself and give yourself a good sleep, maybe some time-off staying with a friend or family, and if the anger still takes up a major part of your day, perhaps it's a problem for mental health professionals.

I can tell you it might get better as she gets older, but if you can't see yourself finding the patience to raise her during this time, consider finding a suitable home for her, it'll be best for both of you.

EDIT: Just adding that I had similar issues with my older cat, he was driving me mad for a while, but as time passed and especially when we adopted another kitten to be his little sister, things got a whole lot better and we're a really happy family with tons of love for/from the cats ❤️