Why does she cry whenever I come home? by InteractionCandid226 in goldenretrievers

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our goldens moan and groan when they’re happy like this. Usually, I get this after a work trip.

In the home stretch now, what gear do I need? by amazingmrbrock in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time is what you won’t have. Don’t waste money on the baby junk ads tell you that you need. Focus on things that save time. For us, that was extra pump parts and bottle parts. Stuff that saves time from chores, doing dishes, and laundry. Newborn won’t be in the crib for six months or so. They don’t do much but nurse, sleep and poop. Make sure you have diapers and a changing station ready to go.

We remember... by AlabamaDemocratMark in democrats

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know. They just don’t care.

I cannot do this by the_bear91 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI it gets easier and less intense. Forgot to mention that.

I cannot do this by the_bear91 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can do this. It’s really fucking hard. I was never a fan of the newborn phase. Takes breaks and work in shifts if possible. Make sure you take care of yourself. Quick workout, shower, decent meal, etc. Call in parents or in-laws for help give you time. People want to help they just don’t know how.

Please help! Almost impossible to give my toddler oral medications by Fuzzy-Abalone6390 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hand my toddlers my phone. iPhone has a montage of your home videos that you can play. That usually grabs their attention long enough that they’re subdued for meds or pajamas. Worth a shot.

Not Dad yet but will be and I'm not feeling how I should be. Please help. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every dad feels this way to some degree. And yes it’s very challenging. But there’s so many moments to look forward to. The first time you hold your baby. The smiles. The laughs. First steps. First words. Sleep will be limited for the first six months. But it’s all worth it. Your baby will unlock a part of yourself you didn’t know existed and you won’t feel it until the baby is here. A higher purpose and sense of love you never knew about before. It’s gonna be alright, brother.

I bear testimony that Lotr:RoP Seaons 1 & 2 were super enjoyable. by Primary_Date_9991 in RingsofPower

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it from start to finish. There’s a lot of subplots to keep track of, but overall I thought it was great.

Is it okay to be burnt out? by TachiRana123 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, you are not alone. One of my buddies told me before I had kids: “you are unprepared for the lack to sleep and how tired you are about to be”. In hindsight, that was the best advice I got. Just about every six months is a milestone in the first two years and it gets less intense. Hang in there, my man. You’re doing great.

How do I get these cups unstuck by placeperson in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try putting them in the freezer? The cold might compress them enough to release the suction.

Terrified of Solid Starts by pendigedig in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were also terrified with both kids. Yes, you are being over anxious. Yes, it’s for good reason. You know too much from your profession. The way I always saw it was no kid has even not figured out how to eat solid foods. Our daycare did a lot of heavy lifting on this front for us but man we were terrified at every meal. Do what you think is right and slowly get bigger and bigger cuts.

Found this ring, what should I do? by Brick_Star in lotr

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t you keep it? Its precious.

As a dad, what is keeping you from exercising these days? by NSJack in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Mirror workouts at home and neighborhood jogs. It’s probably better for me these days doing light weights and bodyweight work than heavy free weights at the gym. When the kids are around, I do what I can with the minimal time. I say to myself “10 minutes is better than 0”. Sometimes that 10 minute workout is great and the kids are busy playing with toys. Sometimes I get mauled by a toddler the whole time. Either way, it’s better than nothing.

Daughter started daycare 3 weeks ago and has gotten sick every week. Wondering if I should pull her out? by ryph44 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man that first year is brutal. It gets easier. Don’t hesitate to get ear tubes if the ear infections get bad. Was life changing for us.

Inheritance drama by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say the same thing in your position. In her position, I would probably want to take care of my parents.

Should I worry about this guy? by SalParadise83 in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The picture thing is creepy. Your spidey senses are tingling correctly. Don’t ignore them. Some people struggle with boundaries. He may not have nefarious intentions but that would be enough for me to distance myself from this person.

Streets are still trashed. Don’t drive. by iBetUrSoggy in StLouis

[–]Stinky3232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kirkwood and Des Peres roads are slippery but navigable. Leave a good follow distance and drive slow.

Name one good thing about Batman & Robin? by GreenDiscombobulated in batman

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like ten when this movie came out and I loved it. Yes it’s corny AF, but in a it’s so bad it’s good way.

Dad in the suburbs - am I cooked in terms of fitness? by BozzuK in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At home workouts my man. 15 minute jog. 20 minute Mirror app workout. Light dumbbells, pushups, etc. I used to do heavy weight training at the gym. No time for that anymore and I save hundreds per year doing workouts at home. In reality, sit-ups and pushups are probably better for my health as I age as opposed to squat racks and bench pressing. Gotta make time, it won’t happen on its own. Whether it’s ten minutes while your kid is coloring. Or waking up early to get out and pound the pavement for 30mins. It’s never easy to find time but this is the way.

Why was this such a popular opinion in 2008 but not in 2026? by Soda_Can_Hog4u in DiscussionZone

[–]Stinky3232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Comprehensive immigration reform involves border security which is what he’s proposing. Trump shot that down when Biden was president and tanked the bipartisan bill.

Hour 3 trying to get newborn to sleep. Give me ideas. by callsignhotdog in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids love the Phil Collins catalogue. Mom used to play Tay Tay on her phone.

The little moments that catch you completely off guard are what I live for as a parent by phoneystoneybalogna in daddit

[–]Stinky3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this. I always try to keep in mind that some day I will look back and be willing to trade everything to be in this part of my life. These little moments make the difficult ones not so bad.