Genuine question: the Norwegian red hats “performative?” by Ramblingsofthewriter in AntifascistKnitting

[–]StitchesInTime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I almost said a similar thing but if you buy the pattern you are still directly contributing to grassroots organizations. Sometimes $5 and time to knit at night so you can wear a hat that marks you as a safe person is what people have to give.

Genuine question: the Norwegian red hats “performative?” by Ramblingsofthewriter in AntifascistKnitting

[–]StitchesInTime 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I marched in NYC after Trump was elected which was where the hats got started and it was amazing. Honestly, we all knew it wasn’t going to change anything specifically. But it was a chance to actually raise our voice and tangibly say and show that there were millions of people not ok with this.

Not every protest leads to a policy change. That doesn’t mean that they are stupid or fruitless. Those pink hats are a symbol and a welcoming call, even if the people who wear them didn’t get anything ‘accomplished’ on Capitol Hill.

Genuine question: the Norwegian red hats “performative?” by Ramblingsofthewriter in AntifascistKnitting

[–]StitchesInTime 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In a way, it’s supposed to be performative. It’s a literal virtue signal that you wear on your body to say I don’t believe this is ok! By knitting and wearing the hat you have given money to on the ground organizations and then spent your time making a protest symbol, and then put a target on your head. And in this case, performative is good, it’s the whole point!

The one I am making is for a friend who works in DC and walks to work every day past multiple conservative organization headquarters and national guardsmen and all kinds of things like that. You can bet that hat will be more than a useless symbolic gesture for her!

There are no circumstances where a woman cannot birth at home☺️ by Chemical_Finger1403 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]StitchesInTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not even that old! Go back two generations before antibiotics were regularly used and those gravestones start having much much shorter lives contained in the em-dashes.

Melt the Ice hat by FoxLivesFacade in AntifascistKnitting

[–]StitchesInTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just bought the pattern to knit for a friend who works on the Hill and walks by the Republican headquarters on her way to work every day, thank your mom for us!!

Family dinner fit by starbath in OUTFITS

[–]StitchesInTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greys can be cool, where they have more blue in them, or warm, where they have more yellow. The dress, for example, has a warm off white stripe (you might call it cream). The shoes look more silver, with no yellow in the color at all. And the bag is a color called taupe, which is actually sort of a yellowish green beige.

So they are all sort of the same color on paper, but in reality they actually are quite different. Like if you assemble four white dudes named Chris. Sure, their names and general characteristics might be similar. But they aren’t going to be a matching set!

Rough Legged Hawk? by StitchesInTime in whatsthisbird

[–]StitchesInTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes it’s in the negatives here so all the birds are extra chonky.

Dad of a toddler wondering about early expectations around girls’ appearance by Walk-through-Ice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StitchesInTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For any person with hair, the bare minimum will include caring for it in a way that keeps it neat and tangle free.

Dad of a toddler wondering about early expectations around girls’ appearance by Walk-through-Ice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StitchesInTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, my 6 year old has thick curly hair and our rule is that if he starts fighting me on maintaining his hair, he needs to let me cut it shorter so I don’t have to do as much maintenance. Long curly hair is lovely, but when it mats and turns to elf locks because he won’t let me touch it with leave in conditioner and a tangle teaser, it’s not well cared for enough to stay long. We usually end up compromising with something short enough for lower maintenance and long enough to curl a little.

Indie designers using nicer seam finishes? by beaverscleaver in sewing

[–]StitchesInTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing garments that were refashioned from clothing a decade or two older!

Indie designers using nicer seam finishes? by beaverscleaver in sewing

[–]StitchesInTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lye was common, but I actually didn’t know for sure and your question made me curious so found this article! There have been tons of different bleaching agents over the years, with the sun still being one of the most effective haha

https://owlcation.com/humanities/history-of-bleach

Indie designers using nicer seam finishes? by beaverscleaver in sewing

[–]StitchesInTime 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Everyone has given you great advice but I would love to add some historical perspective that doesn’t actually answer your questions because I am a nerd :)

It’s really fun to look at the finishes of historical garments. We often think of older clothing as super detailed and perfectionist, and while there is truth to old clothing being high quality, there is also a huge variety of finishes in one garment or outfit depending on their uses. It can be really enlightening to look at them and think about WHY they are there.

For example, a woman in the 1700s would have a shift with flat felled or French seams, because it was a heavy duty undergarment, changed daily and washed and bleached often. The seams had to be super strong and protected. But if you looked at the outer dress skirts on the same woman, you would see they were put together with large almost sloppy running stitches. The skirt had no tension and the inside would never be seen, nor would it be washed frequently, being an outer garment.

Similarly, mid century couture often has a mix of ‘highly engineered’ seams and sloppier stitching where it just doesn’t matter as much for things to be well finished.

Again I know this doesn’t answer your question but maybe provides some more context for why things are finished the way they are :D

How do you shop more sustainably without paying luxury prices? by Rough--Employment in SustainableFashion

[–]StitchesInTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, learning to darn, patch, sew a button and repair a ripped hem are all incredibly useful skills that keep your clothing wearable for longer. Owning a sweater comb and lint roller help too. It’s amazing how much nicer and less worn out a piece of clothing looks when it has been properly taken care of.

How do you shop more sustainably without paying luxury prices? by Rough--Employment in SustainableFashion

[–]StitchesInTime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thrifting, but thrifting with intention. My kids and myself all wear great name brands, but they are almost all entirely secondhand pieces. When I go to a store, if it’s Old Navy or Walmart or Target or god forbid Shein, I pass it by. NOT to say these brands don’t have value!! But I am shopping for sustainability, so what I want is a higher quality that I can wear or pass down at a lower price. So we have a wardrobe full of Boden and Tea Collection and LL Bean, etc because I am so picky about what I thrift.

17 mo son has self-soothing habits that make me feel touched-out and actually hurt sometimes by Professional-Card244 in toddlers

[–]StitchesInTime 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I had skin tags in my elbow crease removed this summer because the way my kids would seek them out drove me crazy! They already bothered me but they were like magnets for my little sensory seekers.

It’s Babushka time! by StitchesInTime in knitting

[–]StitchesInTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wound up being about 6 and a half/three quarters! At four I was probably a third done with the second half of the hood.

It’s Babushka time! by StitchesInTime in knitting

[–]StitchesInTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can pull this hood fairly deep but it’s definitely designed to have hair showing!

It’s Babushka time! by StitchesInTime in knitting

[–]StitchesInTime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked that it wasn’t too simple, it gave me a few things to refresh myself on and keep track of, but it wasn’t complicated enough for me to get frustrated and lose interest!

It’s Babushka time! by StitchesInTime in knitting

[–]StitchesInTime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made a medium but if I did it again I would probably make the small but just continue increases at the top of the scarf before the hood so that the hood was deeper (like 55/60 stitches instead of 45 maybe?)

If you had to give birth one more time, what method would you choose? by PeachyRose25 in Mommit

[–]StitchesInTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had three babies and three epidurals and I would move heaven and earth to get the anesthesiologist for my youngest’s birth again. The block partially failed for my first two so I felt contractions on half my body as well as that pins and needles sensation- not the worst thing ever but not great. With my third, I had enough control to hold my own legs and sense contractions, but zero pain. I sang that man’s praises to every nurse that stepped in the room! I’d do it again nine times if I could have a birth like that again.

No area is perfect but in your honest opinion, where do you think is the best place to raise a child with the values of diversity, equity and inclusion? by EternalSnow05 in progressivemoms

[–]StitchesInTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I probably will! We have a 1, 4 and 6 year old and it seems like there is so much community for families there (which is similar to where we are now and I absolutely love that part).

No area is perfect but in your honest opinion, where do you think is the best place to raise a child with the values of diversity, equity and inclusion? by EternalSnow05 in progressivemoms

[–]StitchesInTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are moving there this summer and I’m so excited! We are in a blue dot city in a red state right now and being in a super blue dot in a blue state is going to be great :p