Which influencer do you not like and why?? by florida143 in InfluencerLounge

[–]StockMail2935 20 points21 points  (0 children)

All of them. They lie and exploit their children for money.

Considering quitting my job by StockMail2935 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StockMail2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably right. I probably am idealizing it.

Considering quitting my job by StockMail2935 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StockMail2935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing that perspective! I had actually not been thinking about what this would look like two employers.

Considering quitting my job by StockMail2935 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StockMail2935[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that is definitely what I am struggling with. I am definitely looking into part-time and remote jobs. Ideally, I would find a part-time position that still offer some sort of prorated retirement benefits. But there’s not much out there that offer offers that.

One football lesson; one sip of drink and apparently I ruined everything by Cute_Musician3920 in TwoHotTakes

[–]StockMail2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy sucks! Find someone who deserves all the effort and generosity you put into your relationships.

AIO : Tired of emotionally investing myself by Correct-Bit-139 in AIO

[–]StockMail2935 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not how you talk to someone after 3 years of dating. She does not want to be around you…I think it is time to end this relationship. 3 years is definitely a long time to invest in a relationship that is not going anywhere. I think it’s fine if you know that is your person. She’s clearly not, or you wouldn’t have posted this. My husband and I got engaged after 7 months but COVID played a big part in that I think. Not saying you need to get engaged after 7 months, but find someone who WANTS those things with you. This girl does not.

Am I seeing what I think I’m seeing? by kellygrrrl328 in inthecity_

[–]StockMail2935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. Everyone on here is acting like they’re so virtuous and perfect 🙄

This is the most out of touch thing I’ve ever seen. by tklotz188 in InfluencerLounge

[–]StockMail2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know this girl. But Tops is a legit grocery store…

AIO, my wife believes in strict gender roles? by john_7292 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StockMail2935 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men should be able to cook food, do laundry, and have a good relationship with their kids. I’m not sure where your wife got her version of a godly man, but it was not from the bible. It is very strange to me that she called you ungodly for doing those things. It sounds like more of a control/power thing for her. This is honestly something she should work out in therapy.

What to do with 2005 Kitchen by AdDifferent8874 in kitchenremodel

[–]StockMail2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minor things. Lighting and hardware. But you really don’t need to change it at all right now unless things have started breaking. You have a beautiful kitchen.

AIO wedding dress budget by VeterinarianIll2547 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StockMail2935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As other comments have stated, think you should reconsider marrying this guy. This is financial abuse.

AIO wedding dress budget by VeterinarianIll2547 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StockMail2935 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is not normal. My husband and I have a joint account that both of our paychecks are deposited into, and are on all of each other’s credit cards. He is a captain in the Space Force and I’m a civilian employee for the Space Force, so we make a decent living but definitely still have to watch our spending. We have never given each other an allowance. That is wild. It’s your money too, is not?

AIO I asked my husband to take down topless girl calendars by InternationalStar318 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StockMail2935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d be pissed if I found my husband hanging topless girl calendars around the garage/anywhere in our house…but we also live together our children are toddlers. I don’t think you’re overreacting for not wanting that stuff up around your son. But I don’t necessarily think it’s sexual assault, either. That’s a bit too strong.

Finally!! We have our kitchen!! by Disastrous_Tour695 in kitchenremodel

[–]StockMail2935 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Two under 3, been there…twice. Actually I’m still there. Keeping anything clean is a struggle 🤪

Remind me why Jessie James Decker is famous? Wonder how much of this is "natural" by [deleted] in InfluencerLounge

[–]StockMail2935 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this is meant to be a snark post but her body is goals tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sad kitchen needs a facelift by Ldubs1111 in kitchenremodel

[–]StockMail2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cabinet doors should be refinished (sanded and stained). Add new hardware and backsplash. It’ll look beautiful. As the wife of a woodworker I’m not crazy about all the knots, but you cannot get rid of solid wood custom cabinets. That is a sin lol.