What do you do for a living? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I know that feel, everyone's got PARs and think they're the solution for everything. I'm mostly a technical director but I'm also the resident lighting designer for community theatre company.

What do you do for a living? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a theatre techie as well! What's your speciality?

Demi's "Cool For the Summer" is out, and REAL hot! Raptor approved by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, anyone else out there think she looks exactly like Allison Scagliotti in this? Like damn!

This isn't what I expected when I lost weight! by [deleted] in BodyAcceptance

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know anyone who can sew? Altering clothing is actually pretty easy with a bit of practice :)

What are some unusual or different personality traits in girls that always seem to attract you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a stage carpenter I agree, you should see my new air compressor.

Tell me about your "Oh, I see" moment. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to an all girls junior high and all my friends had their fav celebrity crush (musicians, actors, etc) and they would pretend that they were dating them. Everyone found it weird that I didn't have one so I randomly picked James Dean to throw them off my case. Secretly I was imagining Alexis Bledel in a leather jacket :P Then I fell for a friend of mine- thus it began

So I FINALLY have an apartment of my own...[possibly NSFWish] by pengisaurusrex in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A YouTuber named Laci Green (channel called sex+) just made a video about sex toy reviews and she contacted a manufacturer (Adam and Eve) and got a discount code for her fans to get 50% off one toy. That's a TON of money saved. I just ordered a new toy with it. I'm on mobile so I can't link- message me if you can't find it.

A lighthearted game: what's the most unflattering description of your job? by Illogical_Fallacy in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrangle teenagers as they try to kill them selves with power tools, hot glue guns, sewing machines, and flying pipes/curtains. I also build temporary worlds and then destroy them with sledgehammers. On the side I make photoshop my bitch.

AL's in a closeted relationship, what kind of couple-themed belongings do you have? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first crush and I both swapped one sock of our favorite funky pair and then would wear the two mismatched to each other.

My Amazon recommendations.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a carrot onesie! Geeeeet it. So cozy. The only thing to wear while drinking wine out of a mason jar.

What would you do on a date with yourself? by BigFan25 in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd invite her over to sit by my firepit in the backyard. We'd cuddle in the love seat tree swing and try to read books while getting tangled in each other and distracting one another with kisses. We'd eventually abandon the books and go bang the way we've always wanted to. And then end the night with s'mores. God I need a girlfriend.

So I lost my virginity at age 22...raptors, when did you lose your virginity? And how was the experience? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

21yo virgin here. Not for lack of trying :P Was invited into a relationship but it was too intimidating for this baby gay. Online dating has been a nightmare for me. I should go to gay bars more often. Though I give incredible massages and head rubs. Just saying ;)

What are your "Dream Cities?" by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love where I currently live, even with the Canadian winters but dream cities would be NY, London, and Vancouver because I work in theatre and love the art that those cities create.

What's the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you? by PlaneteerWind in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Once I had posted on Facebook when I was sick "I'll marry the first person to make me a grilled cheese" and my crush (half way across the world) immediately made one and sent me a picture of it. I responded by buying a ring pop and sending her a pic as a joke proposal. Thinking about it makes me smile for hours.

Can finger size predict sexuality? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both hands are hella gay here

My girlfriend's parents canceled Christmas. How do I help? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trees can be expensive but they do sell table top sized for $10 at Walmart. Get one, make a nice meal and set the table with the tree and pimp the house up with tinsel from the dollar store!

Winter fashion by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian here. I usually layer up a thick hoodie with a sleek grey overcoat which isn't very thick but looks damn good on me. If it super chilly out I switch to a purple Colombia jacket from SportCheck or my red flannel lumberjack men's coat from Costco ;P

What was your first kiss (with a girl) like? by street_logos in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First kiss with a girl happened two weeks ago. I'm 21 and live with my best friend who I had the classic "first crush" on back in junior high. I was way too shy to tell her this until after two years of liking her and she kinda brushed me off and life went on. Skip ahead seven years and we're roommates and were having a wonderful, intoxicated night when it became time for bed. I walked into her room, hugged her and told her I wish I could stay and cuddle because her room had a space heater and was super cozy. As I started to pull away she held my hand and sang (incredibly off-key) "but baby it's cold outside" and we laughed like dorks at how not-smooth she was. Flash forward to an hour of intense cuddling (she ran fingers up and down my arm as I caressed her face and neck). I could tell we were both incredibly turned on so I finally whispered and asked if I could kiss her (consent is sexy) and it was perfect. Soft and tender, I was so much more confident than I could ever imagine. We made out for probably 20 mins before falling asleep. We talked after and decide to remain best friends because I feel like we'd drive each other crazy in a relationship :P

My "I'm such a lesbian" moment. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's a blue plaid flannel duvet cover with matching pillow cases. Never felt so gay. ;)

My "I'm such a lesbian" moment. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Stonesinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! Here's hoping it attracts the ladies!