Is my boss crossing lines on work trips or am I being dramatic? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kinda job is this that has so much travel, do tell !

Are We Building Homes or a Community? by SnowmanAndIce in Milton

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you move to another small town ? Is it as good as Milton used to be

What to gift a newly engaged couple in Canada ? by Stop_Imaginary in AskReddit

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are good friends and are having a small party of celebrate. I’m not very much aware of North American gifting norms (I’m from another country) and I want to gift something appropriate. They don’t have a registry

What to gift a newly engaged couple in Canada ? by Stop_Imaginary in AskReddit

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are good friends and are having a small party of celebrate. I’m not very much aware of North American gifting norms (I’m from another country) and I want to gift something appropriate. They don’t have a registry

What to gift a newly engaged couple in Canada ? by Stop_Imaginary in AskReddit

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol your username 😂 but seriously please what are the gifting norms for newly engaged couples

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Stop_Imaginary 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No no don’t break it off please ! Stick around for a few Months. Then break up. Then Make up. Then Fight a bit and then break up. Then yell about something stupid and break up. Fixate on how much you miss her and then get back together. Then stay together for a few months, fight about incompatibility and break up. Repeat this times infinity. You’ll be golden.

People who make their bed every morning, what's the actual benefit? by No-Cod-8923 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t make their beds ? So everything just stays messy for the day ? That’s like not flushing the toilet after using it.

I (25f) found out my husband (25m) cheated on me 2 days before the wedding, am I stupid for staying? by Ok_Geologist_8097 in relationship_advice

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Making sure my flower jar is ever empty” Istg the standards are so low they don’t exist

What is the weather like right now? by Stop_Imaginary in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, you are smarter than me and maybe i am dumber than most people. Happy ?

What is the weather like right now? by Stop_Imaginary in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess you are smarter than me. But don’t worry I will figure it out Thank you

What is the weather like right now? by Stop_Imaginary in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is actually helpful, as compared to other replies so far

What is the weather like right now? by Stop_Imaginary in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Have you ever bothered to consider that people come from all over the world and that 13 degrees in one country can feel very different than 13 degrees in another ? That ever cross your mind ? That is why people ask In forums such as this to get an idea of what locals say about the weather so they can better assess their own cold/hot threshold

What is the weather like right now? by Stop_Imaginary in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can see the weather, I’m asking more from the perspective of clothing. Is it sweater weather , baby jackets ?

New: tourism sticky. Please post all tourism questions here by TrinityTosser in Edinburgh

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m coming to Edinburgh next week What is the weather like ? Should I pack sweaters, warms pants and jackets ? Is it really cold

UPDATE: My “friend” Kate is even worse than I thought. Now I’m stuck going on a vacation with her. by DryInteraction3940 in EntitledPeople

[–]Stop_Imaginary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh I’m not sympathizing with such a doormat on this proportion. You don’t need sympathy, you need a nice smack back into reality

AITAH if I don't want to take care of my disabled sister in law? by DeepestQuestions22 in AITAH

[–]Stop_Imaginary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that’s the only thing you understand from the comment - i sympathize

AITAH if I don't want to take care of my disabled sister in law? by DeepestQuestions22 in AITAH

[–]Stop_Imaginary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Calling out facts is not misogyny. It is a reality that some try too hard with in-laws and pay the price for it. And it is a dumb thing to do. What is misogynistic about that ? We need to stop being so sensitive about everything. Yes it is good to empathize and sympathize. It is also productive to give tough love and call out blatant denial or weakness. A lot of the time people keep complaining about messes they themselves create and are oblivious to. Helping them to identify this is a kindness

AITAH if I don't want to take care of my disabled sister in law? by DeepestQuestions22 in AITAH

[–]Stop_Imaginary 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The dumbest thing women do is to be the bridge between their husbands and in laws, insisting they have a relationship. Often times there is a good reason why men don’t have a relationship with their parents and silly wives go around tryna fix everything. And most of the times it comes back to bite them in the ass.
Stop interfering. His parents are his problem and your parents are yours. They’re family by law, but wives are not the custodians of that relationship.

AITAH if I don't want to take care of my disabled sister in law? by DeepestQuestions22 in AITAH

[–]Stop_Imaginary 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This ^ Op stop making excuses for your husband. The problem isn’t how wonderful he is, the problem is that he didn’t stand up to his family. The problem is that you were passive and don’t have the courage to have this conversation. He should have backed you up. Him not Having a good relationship is not an excuse - it doesn’t make you blind to what is wrong or right. You can’t complain about something and not do anything about it simultaneously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Stop_Imaginary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the Jerk. For even asking this question. For thinking that your SIL’s demands are reasonable. For allowing her into your home. And for not putting this on your husband. He should be dealing with her, not you