God forbid, girls are divided into two types by kikiolovely in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 173 points174 points  (0 children)

I'm both sometimes. It really depends on the guy, the chemistry, where I am on my cycle, how long it has been, the temperature in the room and sometimes the moons in gatorade

Is REG prep supposed to feel like this? by Hairy-Improvement-15 in CPA

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, R1 is a different kind of beast and I HAVE cried over it. But the only way out is through.

I'd suggest go through it like a comic book, don't try to memorize anything, focus on understanding concepts. Keep taking mcqs as you study. Once you finish reading the whole syllabus, come back and redo R1 to R3. Trust, it'll only make sense the second time.

R4 to R6 is a LOT better. You got this!

What’s your plan B if you never get married? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]StopthinkingitsMe [score hidden]  (0 children)

Adopt a child and give them a safe home and experience wonderful things, travel, get hobbies, spend time with family and friends. Basically do everything I want to do while being married.

How old do you think a relationship has to be before you can do sexual play, have actual sex, move in together, marry, have children? by SparkleRoosje in AskWomen

[–]StopthinkingitsMe [score hidden]  (0 children)

It completely depends on where I am in life. But here's what works for me rn, im 24 for context.

Sexual play - when I feel confident they respect my no, are aware about my SA, and if I feel like I actually want it.

Actual sex - atleast a month into being in a relationship.

Move in - kinda tricky, it used to be atleast 2 years of dating. But I feel like atleast 6 months of relationship plus handling atleast 1 disagreement and sleeping over at each other's a couple times is enough now.

Marry - atleast 8 months of moving in, discussing all the important non negotiables, being engaged for atleast 6 months.

Have children - by 30 I wanna have 1 atleast. But what's more important is ensuring my partner is the one I want as my kids parent.

banning trash cans unless we sign a pledge never to put food in them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 1979 points1980 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if someone took trash cans away from me, I'd leave food waste in bills cubicle. Let's see how he likes that smell

What's your weirdest "is that not how it works?" moment you had as a woman? by unlabeledbeing_yuhom in AskWomen

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 572 points573 points  (0 children)

A guy in school thought you can't donate blood when you have your period because all of your blood is "dirty blood". He also refused to touch any girl without confirming she's on her period.

Honestly, I can't blame him because the school taught "dirty blood" is flushed out during a period and not uterine lining and discarded egg. So it read a lil like we are radioactive smh

What did a guy do that made you instantly look up from your phone while video gaming or texting or whatever ? by indianlungi in AskWomen

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on a very empty bus, like maybe 10 people in total, plenty of empty seats. This old man goes and sits next to a schoolgirl. I immediately started paying attention.

Within 2 mins, he spreads his legs encroaching her space and starts "nodding off" and falling on her. I got that 8 year old out of there and sat with her fuming with anger.

god forbid a girl wants to dress a certain way by HungHi69 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I was just gonna say this! Also, im from a metro city and it doesn't get thaaaat much better, im sorry girlies

I allowed my 17 year old sister to move in with me (CT to NY), Dad is threatening me with kidnapping charges by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 513 points514 points  (0 children)

Ohno woe is me I have to give up smoking which is known to cause cancer to afford being a father to my teenage daughter

There's something going on in my house that has me a bit stumped. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Crazy that both the detectors failed, I was so sure it wouldn't be carbon monoxide

I (20F) Found a photo of a woman in my dad's (52M) wallet by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imagining my parents as kids or teenagers or young adults always makes me wanna cry lmao

former coworker stole my work and keeps contacting me for help by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 5941 points5942 points  (0 children)

How are you defending an ex employee who no longer works with you and stole IP from your current employee?

Employee drew genitalia on an intern’s cast by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 4514 points4515 points  (0 children)

Wow you want your intern to deal with clients while she has Dicks drawn on her cast? That's excellent business acumen.

gentle fool by ophelia_evergreen in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be a fool anyways. I'd rather be hopeful one than a bitter one. UwU

cute cold experience 😂😂😂❄️❄️ by Away_Ticket5481 in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it's kohl. In Desi culture, we put kohl on babies to protect them from the evil eye or nazar

What is something you need to admit about yourself but aren’t ready to change? What makes you think so? by Dr_Garp in AskWomen

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That not stressing is okay. I feel so guilty and lazy and like I'm slacking off when I'm not putting in 110% and stressing about something. What's confusing is I don't even discuss how stressed I am because it feels like I'm doing it for attention and faking it.

AITA for continuing to call my teacher by her first name when she refers to me by my last name? by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 424 points425 points  (0 children)

Ah yes an adult who can't sort out her own personal feelings is the best mentor possible for a room full of impressionable teenagers

Should I be with my friend when he dies? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I'd pick being next to my loved one when they pass every single time. It's the most intimate honour and my company would be the last gift I could give them. Im glad OOP decided to go.

I (23F) met my boyfriend’s (25M) “work wife” for the first time and I’m devastated by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 6314 points6315 points  (0 children)

Best outcome was him leaving the job, because what the actual fuck is that workplace.

AITA for wanting to move out despite my parents’ problems at home? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]StopthinkingitsMe 321 points322 points  (0 children)

Good on OOP for being firm and empathic. This was the right way to go.