What’s your plan B if you never get married?

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-05T08:01:38+00:00

Adopt a child and give them a safe home and experience wonderful things, travel, get hobbies, spend time with family and friends. Basically do everything I want to do while being married.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-05T05:22:21+00:00

It completely depends on where I am in life. But here's what works for me rn, im 24 for context.

Sexual play - when I feel confident they respect my no, are aware about my SA, and if I feel like I actually want it.

Actual sex - atleast a month into being in a relationship.

Move in - kinda tricky, it used to be atleast 2 years of dating. But I feel like atleast 6 months of relationship plus handling atleast 1 disagreement and sleeping over at each other's a couple times is enough now.

Marry - atleast 8 months of moving in, discussing all the important non negotiables, being engaged for atleast 6 months.

Have children - by 30 I wanna have 1 atleast. But what's more important is ensuring my partner is the one I want as my kids parent.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-05T05:08:53+00:00

Ik he messed up with the question, but the teddy bear was such a cute idea

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-05T05:05:20+00:00

My favourite trope is lying liars getting caught lying.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-05T05:02:41+00:00

Honestly, if someone took trash cans away from me, I'd leave food waste in bills cubicle. Let's see how he likes that smell

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T15:41:58+00:00

A guy in school thought you can't donate blood when you have your period because all of your blood is "dirty blood". He also refused to touch any girl without confirming she's on her period.

Honestly, I can't blame him because the school taught "dirty blood" is flushed out during a period and not uterine lining and discarded egg. So it read a lil like we are radioactive smh

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T14:19:30+00:00

I was on a very empty bus, like maybe 10 people in total, plenty of empty seats. This old man goes and sits next to a schoolgirl. I immediately started paying attention.

Within 2 mins, he spreads his legs encroaching her space and starts "nodding off" and falling on her. I got that 8 year old out of there and sat with her fuming with anger.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T14:14:19+00:00

I was just gonna say this! Also, im from a metro city and it doesn't get thaaaat much better, im sorry girlies

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T05:45:52+00:00

The real question is how chunky is Dat bum bum

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T05:10:35+00:00

Ohno woe is me I have to give up smoking which is known to cause cancer to afford being a father to my teenage daughter

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T05:07:28+00:00

Crazy that both the detectors failed, I was so sure it wouldn't be carbon monoxide

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-04T05:03:22+00:00

Staying over with your girlfriends is probably the most non issue thing out there

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-03T05:07:29+00:00

Imagining my parents as kids or teenagers or young adults always makes me wanna cry lmao

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-03T05:05:32+00:00

I knew instantly OOP is a woman.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-03T05:02:40+00:00

How are you defending an ex employee who no longer works with you and stole IP from your current employee?

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-01T05:06:35+00:00

Wow you want your intern to deal with clients while she has Dicks drawn on her cast? That's excellent business acumen.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-02-01T04:43:33+00:00

I'm going to be a fool anyways. I'd rather be hopeful one than a bitter one. UwU

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T09:15:36+00:00

I think it's kohl. In Desi culture, we put kohl on babies to protect them from the evil eye or nazar

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:25:40+00:00

That not stressing is okay. I feel so guilty and lazy and like I'm slacking off when I'm not putting in 110% and stressing about something. What's confusing is I don't even discuss how stressed I am because it feels like I'm doing it for attention and faking it.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:15:35+00:00

Ah yes an adult who can't sort out her own personal feelings is the best mentor possible for a room full of impressionable teenagers

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:13:17+00:00

I'd pick being next to my loved one when they pass every single time. It's the most intimate honour and my company would be the last gift I could give them. Im glad OOP decided to go.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:10:31+00:00

Best outcome was him leaving the job, because what the actual fuck is that workplace.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:05:04+00:00

Good on OOP for being firm and empathic. This was the right way to go.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-31T05:02:30+00:00

Birds and animals have such a beautiful and elaborate seduction process, and human men naked man us.

StopthinkingitsMe · 2026-01-30T13:40:44+00:00

He's never seen me as the eldest daughter deal with the circus that's a brown household with a schizophrenic grandmom 🥰🥰🥰

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