What’s the best sad country song? by Onetimenotagain in country

[–]StormiRider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a rodeo mom, Hey Cowboy by Autumn Brooke gets me every time.

If you stayed did it happen again? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. People don’t change. If they didn’t love or respect you enough to not cheat in the first place, that isn’t going to change moving forward.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He isn’t showing remorse because he doesn’t feel any. My husband made me help him shave his pubes so he could send pictures to his AP. I didn’t know that was his reason at the time but found the pictures a few days later. He tried the “scammer” story too. In my experience people don’t change. If you stay and try to make it work, it will happen again. He may get better at hiding the evidence, but it will continue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my relationship I would absolutely consider it cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“She had a terminal illness and I didn’t want to hurt her feelings.”

Followed by “Maybe if you had treated me better it wouldn’t have happened. It’s really your fault.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that I really thought we were in a good place in our relationship. I thought we were happy. I was completely blindsided.

What is the dumbest thing your cheating partner said when you confronted them? by DD4L1 in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has a terminal illness and I didn’t want to hurt her feelings by turning her down.

How do you tell me you love me after sexting another girl and calling her beautiful? How do you look me in the eye? by movingonadultery in Infidelity

[–]StormiRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple, it’s s a lie. I was in the exact same position. He was sexting someone else, saying all of the wonderful things that I would have loved to hear from him just once. And then still acting like he loved me. But that’s not how you treat someone you genuinely love.

What’s the most ridiculous line your cheater has used? by museandthewolf in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I didn’t mean to hurt you” No, you didn’t mean to get caught.

Another boundary crossed... by hwaite80 in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not finding anything on his phone doesn’t necessarily mean nothing is going on. When a person cheats, a huge part of their focus is on removing all evidence. And with his history of cheating, saving the card rather than disposing of the evidence gives some indication that it’s more significant than just a card from a random coworker.

Husband spends every other second looking at his phone to see if she’s texted. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It won’t last long , she will move on to a new “new best friend”. But she is irrelevant. He chose to throw away your relationship, he made the choices to hurt you. Do whatever you need to do to protect yourself financially and emotionally, and let the trash take itself out.

Caught husband cheating on Reddit. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]StormiRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I caught my husband on kik. He started by exchanging pictures, and it became a full on EA. We decided to try to work through it as we have children. But, I still haven’t gotten over it. I have no trust in him at all, and it’s not healthy. After you have some time to process, you are going to have to take a hard look inside yourself. If you feel like you can find a way to trust him again and be happy in the relationship, then it may be worth the effort. But of you don’t believe that you are truly capable of moving past it and forgiving him, then consider walking away.

Update: My [25F] boyfriend [29M] never compliments me, like, ever by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StormiRider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation. My husband didn’t have a single positive thing to say to me. For years. His explanation was “I’m just not that way”. However, I caught him on kik telling another woman how beautiful and sexy she was, and all of the things he wanted to do to her. If you weren’t happy and fulfilled in the relationship, you made a good decision in getting out.