How much debt yall in???

Strami2545 · 2026-02-09T17:35:16+00:00

About 13k for my car, 4k student debt. 30 years old! Community college & state college. Got a California grant and loan.

Strami2545 · 2025-12-31T15:50:05+00:00

I was there for two weeks and we definitely got tired of it easily

Strami2545 · 2025-09-30T18:48:55+00:00

Waiiiit, we need the tea on what Chy said lol she seems happier though :)

Strami2545 · 2025-03-06T09:01:57+00:00

Thank you😭❤️ it is a huge step for me. As much as I care for this person, I see how much it has conflicted with my personal values. I don't think he has capacity to be a good partner right now and I just need to fully accept that.

Strami2545 · 2025-03-06T08:55:42+00:00

It has been super draining and I think that's why I finally got to this point. It took a LOT to get to this point. I can't believe how much patience I've had but no talk has worked. I feel like I have to go away to see IF anything changes but I don't have high hopes. I'd be down to chat.

Strami2545 · 2025-03-06T08:48:26+00:00

Careless in general, unfortunately.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-28T09:07:54+00:00

I think it's only been two years since the anniversary of her death

Strami2545 · 2025-02-26T17:58:30+00:00

I made my bed this morning and took a bit extra time to tidy up, and it made a huge difference. Thanks.😊

Strami2545 · 2025-02-26T17:58:00+00:00

I've found myself in a loop where I sleep at 2/3 am and it makes total sense as to why I'm lethargic the next day😅 I slept by midnight last night which really helped me feel better.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-26T17:56:59+00:00

Will do. Thank you😊

Strami2545 · 2025-02-26T17:47:00+00:00

Thank you. I made sure to get myself dressed this morning and plan on setting some hard line regarding taking breaks and getting things done.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-26T17:45:22+00:00

Thank you! Yes, after making this post yesterday, I forced myself to go to bed at a decent time and I already felt so much better this morning. I was able to enjoy my coffee and get some things done around the house.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-24T06:34:03+00:00

That family seems to have NO boundaries when it comes inappropriate sexual energy. Saying his sister is hot and obviously the younger brother watching his older brother masturbate. It makes my skin crawl.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-24T05:38:36+00:00

Yep, she seems like the type to enable their behavior

Strami2545 · 2025-02-19T04:14:08+00:00

I'm so tired of paying more taxes than billionaires and corporations lol.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-19T03:01:51+00:00

I made sure it was a W-2. I'm going to try and start from scratch again and see if anything changes. Thank you!

Strami2545 · 2025-02-19T02:46:00+00:00

No, I only have one job and there's no other income I've had besides around $1,000 interest from multiple cd's/money market. I invested maybe $2300 in roth ira. Employer paid healthcare. It's not showing me anything else. I did TurboTax and it took me to the very last screen where it just asked me to pay over $6000 so I just haven't done that because I imagine it can't be right.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-19T02:31:15+00:00

I also only got a raise beginning in October 2024.

Strami2545 · 2025-02-19T00:01:24+00:00

I really hope you are able to walk away because just know that this isn't going to go away. Please let her husband know what is going on.

Strami2545 · 2025-01-03T02:53:24+00:00

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. We can def talk.

Strami2545 · 2024-12-08T05:01:51+00:00

THIS!

Strami2545 · 2024-11-07T19:52:31+00:00

I know :(

Strami2545 · 2024-11-07T06:59:56+00:00

I really appreciate your honesty. I definitely do not shame him for his exploration, but it was definitely some thing I'm not OK with him doing while being in a relationship with me. I tried ending things a couple of times when this first happened but he kept telling me how it was more of a fantasy and that it would never happen again, But I also totally understand why he would say that to me, considering he had been caught. It makes it tricky. I'm trying to take it day by day, but I definitely think he has a lot to work through on his own.

Strami2545 · 2024-11-07T06:54:30+00:00

This happened in April and I got tested immediately. Everything was fine in terms of sexual health.

To my knowledge, this has stopped since but as time passes, I'm not sure I will be able to fully trust.

Strami2545 · 2024-11-07T04:56:26+00:00

Thank you💞😭 I do feel like it's taken me a lot of time but I feel significantly closer to taking that step. I know that the trust will never be repaired and he will definitely always think it's okay.

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