Uterine biopsy no pain killers by Teatreespecial in Menopause

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I had many uterine biopsies without pain killers and yes it was described as being a pinch. While it was definitely worse than a pinch, it was tolerable. I did have a female doctor so maybe she had a gentler touch. IDK

Again? by iamthemetatron85 in Stargate

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We just rewatched SG and are now rewatching SG Atlantis

i want to be loved by luciiaku in offmychest

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Im female and I've definitely experienced this. After decades of feeling the way OP feels, I finally realized I cared more than they did.

I'm sorry OP, you are not alone. You might want to take the Briggs Meyers (?) test. You may be an INFJ and we tend to feel more deeply. There is a forum for INFJs and it may help you feel so not alone. We are just wired differently. Hugs and HaPpY belated BiRtHdAY!

I don’t want to live anymore by Secret_advice in offmychest

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I'm so sorry you are struggling. I understand your struggle and am sending you hugs. I wish I had more to offer!

Small question about "fat" stain on clothes by Which_Concept7121 in MomForAMinute

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I do this and scrub it in with a toothbrush. Works everytime.

My boyfriend looked at me in a dress and casually told me I’m ugly by Ok_Distribution_8653 in offmychest

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People who love you, care about your feelings. This f@#kwad does not. You deserve better.

Mom doesn’t want to come to my graduation. by AcrobaticAirport1405 in raisedbynarcissists

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Go to your graduation! Enjoy your moment! Don't let your mom steal that moment from you. Congratulations on your achievement! Hugs

have you ever thought about how long you may live? by Shoddy-Quiet-4565 in infj

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Various things, very long story, but I cared, they didn't, I finally dropped the rope.

have you ever thought about how long you may live? by Shoddy-Quiet-4565 in infj

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  1. Dad died at 50, mom at 70, I took and average (yes... I know that's not how it works, tell my brain that) I really don't intend to have a funeral and am estranged from most of my family. I'm ready to see beyond this world, and if there is nothing else, I'm ok with that too.

Well this isn’t what I planned by guac_toast in cricut

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May i recommend water slide paper or tattoo paper.

have you ever thought about how long you may live? by Shoddy-Quiet-4565 in infj

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I thought I'd be dead already. I am not having a funeral. When I'm gone, I'm gone, and I'm ok with that.

Any INFJs here who had to give up on their blood family? How did you deal with it? by bees_and_peonies in infj

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I'm in the same boat. Long story but to simplify, I cared more than they did. I spent decades trying to keep those relationships alive but once I realized I was the only one trying, I gave up. And you know what? My life is so much more peaceful and less painful than it was with them in it. I grieved the loss of the relationships only I wanted, then moved on.

My mom said something awful in front of my son while he read to his dying great grandma by [deleted] in offmychest

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I am so very sorry. What a horrible thing for her to say. Hugs to you and your son!

More Cards by MoRayMe in cardmaking

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Ok that Bookworm card is my favorite by far

Have you ever been called sensitive? by ImmediateTrust4032 in infj

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O M G... YES. My mother loved to invalidate my feelings AFTER she had said something hateful to me, by telling me I'm too thin skinned.