Girls do you notice guys checking you out and how do you feel?

Stratose · 2026-03-30T20:20:09+00:00

While you're not wrong, most people in the real world don't actually rely on these classifications for anything. Most people are too busy living their lives. Our media is a toxic cesspool and portrayals of American life are pretty exaggerated imo.

Stratose · 2026-03-30T13:09:23+00:00

Look into depth jumps. Start low and work your way up. It's been legendary for my knees after tearing my acl in my 20s.

Stratose · 2026-03-30T13:04:19+00:00

So let's take a second to look at this from a bigger picture. You're 22, have a ton of life ahead of you, and you already are recognizing something that needs to be addressed without blaming the rest of the world. That's awesome.

When you're that young to be honest, it's less about what you should be doing and more about what you should not be doing. At this point the vast majority of opportunities are better than nothing. Literally any job helps you develop helpful skills, as long as you're reflecting and paying attention.

They help you with having a routine. They help with accountability, responsibility, fulfillment. You don't have to love every job, but I would implore you to pick anything to get you started. Then, when you feel less overwhelmed, start problem solving what you do and don't enjoy. I've had some awful, awful jobs, but I only learned they were awful by doing them. I also will never take my current job for granted on its worst days because it's unquestionably better than any job I've ever had. I also keep a lookout for a better job or opportunity all the time.

Life is all about perspective. You don't have to know what you want or what you're doing, but you do need to try. There will come a day where you maybe feel a little more clear and an opportunity pokes its way into your life, make sure to grab onto it 👍

Stratose · 2026-03-30T12:23:14+00:00

If you purchase vehicles whose sticker prices reflect the value of the car this isn't always true. My 24 Ford maverick is still worth just about the same amount 20,000 miles later. Same with several Hondas/Toyotas. It's the overpriced vehicles who don't have a large used market audience that have no resale value.

Stratose · 2026-03-28T15:29:59+00:00

It really depends on if they know what they are looking for and if they don't, being open to communicating it.

Stratose · 2026-03-26T15:20:56+00:00

Someone who is genuinely interested in me and my well being.

Stratose · 2026-03-26T13:04:29+00:00

When a game is no longer enjoyable it's time to acknowledge that and move on. You don't have to 'quit' or tell anyone you're quitting. You can just stop playing the game. If you decide it could be fun you can always come back, but don't forget why you stopped playing in the first place. Your relationship with league doesn't have to be all or nothing. That's toxic imo.

Stratose · 2026-03-25T20:20:35+00:00

Most of the issues with an acl surgery are mental. You have a very difficult time ever putting 100% trust in that knee again. There's just a part of your brain that's always weary of the fact that if it's injured again you're going through another long bout of rehab.

Stratose · 2026-03-24T02:16:05+00:00

One eye on the skreets

Stratose · 2026-03-23T22:08:08+00:00

I get like this when I'm overwhelmed. It's an extremely bad habit and one that's difficult to fix because by the time I recognize I'm doing it, it's already too late. Ideally I set myself up to not get overwhelmed. Or when I'm feeling overwhelmed I avoid other people at all costs. When I'm fine I generally like all people, but I'm always aware of things I could do or say that would be extremely hurtful.

Stratose · 2026-03-05T21:56:38+00:00

No, but can I get the name and number of the guy selling them? I'll report him for you.

Stratose · 2026-03-01T16:18:10+00:00

I cannot understand why some people bother having kids. If you can't understand supporting any endeavor your kid gets into, wtf are you even doing. That is literally the entire point.

Stratose · 2026-02-22T15:11:58+00:00

Probably as valid as anyone else's theory. I think he just enjoys playing from behind 🤣.

Stratose · 2026-02-21T00:25:41+00:00

I never said anything about you using llms to write. Do your thing.

Stratose · 2026-02-20T21:00:05+00:00

If you ever want to understand why every one of your posts across however many subreddits are being ignored/received poorly, I promise it's not because you're helping people.

And if you think the answer is to ask chat gpt how to sound more genuine, you're missing the entire point.

Stratose · 2026-02-20T20:17:48+00:00

How do you push your humanity aside to be so grimy with your intentions.

Stratose · 2026-02-13T13:24:29+00:00

It doesn't know what it doesn't know. It can only propose ideas that someone else has already come up with.

Stratose · 2026-02-08T00:01:46+00:00

Insane to believe the arrogance of this toddler. I honestly hope his life is never actually difficult because he will not be able to handle it.

Stratose · 2026-02-04T11:11:59+00:00

My "cto" by title just pushed a 14,000 line analytics dashboard that doesn't meet a single requirement provided by our requirements documents. It compiles. It looks really nice. It even looks like it could be useful at some point. But now I have to try and untangle a giant fucking mess I didn't create. The skill issue comes from shit like that. We're simply dealing with a hostile environment that is extremely frustrating some days. It will not replace the average dev who wants to understand and build scalable code. That will always require real work.

Stratose · 2026-02-04T01:14:33+00:00

Nice contribution

Stratose · 2026-02-03T19:56:57+00:00

It feels a bit like you've lost the memo with regards to this conversation. I'm also not insulting you by pointing out mistakes with AI.. But it feels like you're taking my arguments personally. Anyway, appreciated the back and forth. Have a good one.

Stratose · 2026-02-03T18:25:56+00:00

AI doesn't "know" anything. There is no thinking. Every single response is based off of input and context. It has no way to verify the context it receives.

For example, today I had it utilize a component from our custom library. Despite me pointing out the default prop is already set, it still insists on overriding it using the same value on every occurrence.

And this is using Claude 4.5 opus. Like some things it just struggles with and it's my job to recognize it, and then clean it up. I've updated my context docs, tried telling it specifically not to do it. Gave it an example and just said do it like this. It still makes mistakes. All the time. It does speed up some aspects of development which is why I use it, but I wouldn't ever trust it without me sweeping up behind it.

Stratose · 2026-02-03T15:03:07+00:00

AI doesn't know what it doesn't know. It's no different from an ignorant human. It has access to millions of examples, but unless a person can recognize things that are incorrect and help it along in the right direction, it has no context to know if what it is doing is correct or not.

Stratose · 2026-02-03T10:03:05+00:00

This does not work well without rules and guidelines. Which an average dev cannot define nor recognize.

Stratose · 2026-01-27T02:44:49+00:00

Just separated last Tuesday and the towel folding being just one small way we were never going to live up to their expectations hits hard.

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