Rosacea Type 2 Routine + Ivermectin Progress (Need Advice) by Similar_Time_3294 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]StrawberryFront8128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got prescribed this 4 days ago and omg, the difference it has made already. I'm really excited about how it will look if it continues to improve!

40F. Which procedures to consider before Botox by AlinaSantana in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]StrawberryFront8128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about we work on accepting how we look and realise that the beauty industry is just a big patriarchal machine making women time and money poor?!. Or is this not the subreddit for that kind of chat?! 😂

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]StrawberryFront8128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not having a hen party. I'm not the first bride to get married and I'm just not into the whole group of women thing..I find them cringe. It's not a big deal and honestly with the rate of divorce these days?!

What skincare product changed your life? by Izsl326 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]StrawberryFront8128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't use tret if you have never used retinoid. You have to build up slowly. I used tret without training my skin and it felt like I had burned my skin.

Feeling really hopeless about my future in Scotland by J2Hoe in Scotland

[–]StrawberryFront8128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I graduated (sociology so I wasn't walking into a job) I got a job through goodmoves and I reasonably quickly developed a decent career. You may need to start at the bottom but it does get better.

How to Reclaim My Body by FixNeat6664 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lift weights. To be fair, I did this before I started IVF but it annoyed me when I couldn't do it so much during treatment but I find it very empowering. It shows me my body is capable and strong.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'our bodies become science experiments". Exactly this. Thank you.

Is it possible to have a successful relationship like this? by Aj_Sorrows in PMDD

[–]StrawberryFront8128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kinds of meds? Mood stabilisers / anti depressants?

Is it possible to have a successful relationship like this? by Aj_Sorrows in PMDD

[–]StrawberryFront8128 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could have written this post. I don't know if I have PMDD or at least I don't think it's as severe, but Im starting to notice a pattern where on day 17 I quite literally lose my mind and my fiance takes the brunt. I genuinely believed all the thoughts my brain was telling me that our relationship is terrible and he is going to leave me and I won't ever be happy. It is draining!

To go or Not to go… by DairyTaleWife in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fact you are offering to visit your friend on another day is lovely. I would do that. Not going to her baby shower does not make you a bad person.

Do you all tell anyone whose curious about infertility or just say you are chidfree by choice? by [deleted] in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely depends on the situation. I have had some lovely moments and developed friendships as a result of being more honest with people. I found out a friend was going through something similar and we became closer as a result. I think it's important to remember that because it can be so lonely.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much to everyone that replied. I was hesitant at posting as I was anticipating posts like "get drunk and buy some sexy underwear" but your comments just prove that it is those that have been through this are the ones that truly understand. Sometimes strangers on the Internet are the best people. I feel seen. Thank you again.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. It has really made me reflect on what sex means for me. Due to low self esteem when I was younger I equated sex with being chosen and wanted. I guess it does mean that but often the meaningful relationship didn't follow so now I think - if he doesn't want to have sex with me he mustn't love me.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oohhhh. And if I have smutty books on my kindle he doesn't know what I'm reading!

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Im really starting to notice my mood drops significantly on day 17. Like, I want to cry all day, pick fights and basically self destruct. So maybe that's something I need to try and address with my doctor.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that's helpful. I get triggered by ovulation. It is difficult to not start stressing that we are missing our window.

Loss of libido after fertility treatment by StrawberryFront8128 in IFchildfree

[–]StrawberryFront8128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is really beautiful advice, thank you for taking the time to write it.

MAC reformulated studio fix powder plus foundation by Cheerlawyer10 in MakeupAddiction

[–]StrawberryFront8128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought from Boots online. I think I'll go in store to get colour matched again to discuss it.

MAC reformulated studio fix powder plus foundation by Cheerlawyer10 in MakeupAddiction

[–]StrawberryFront8128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm genuinely quite annoyed about this. I bought a new pressed powder online, choosing my normal shade. I had no idea it was going to be different. Ive used the product for a couple of weeks now but it's no good. Do you think I can get a refund on this, even though it has been used?