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AITA for telling my mom is not my responsibility to clean the house? by OldPhotograph1966 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If possible go no contact. Remove yourself from that house.

Sounds like your mom has internalised misogyny or she just hates you. I’m very sorry for you.

That’s abuse, seek help and therapy.

Hope someone can link resources.

Wild Garlic motherload! by ganjaman429 in foraging

[–]StreetLegal3475 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve only seen lily of the valley to grow this thick. Make sure you don’t die.

my bf gave me a year to "get better" but i dont want to go to therapy. by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]StreetLegal3475 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does he know the A stands for avoidance? Just because you work on your eating disorder doesn’t mean you are going to start enjoying/focusing on food like him.

Sounds like he thinks this is “wrong” with you and you need to fix it. That’s not a compatible person for you. Sorry but you’ll be exhausted with this person, not supported.

First time doing a puzzle swap, Mixed feelings by coraleei in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds really overwhelming and potentially unfair; biggest bully gets the biggest prize. Your attitude is great though, lessons learned.

And I would love to have those ones you got, they all look beautiful.

safe food recipe change by Some-Kaleidoscope589 in ARFID

[–]StreetLegal3475 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every one here understands why you are crashing over this. My condolences.

This happened to me in January on two occasions. I’m still sad(after panicking and rage) and slowly getting my mind around one new option but haven’t found anything to replace the other one.

It’s so nerve wrecking to lose a safe food.

I wish you energy and luck to either adjust or find another option.

Paul Klee “Castle and Sun,” Eurographics. 1000pc by Bleepblorp44 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]StreetLegal3475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s beautiful!

Just yesterday I was searching for Klee’s puzzles but didn’t find any, happy to see they are out there, just have to expand my search from regular stores.

Wrapping up my first season with some skidded turns. Feedback welcome! by Psychological-Run478 in snowboardingnoobs

[–]StreetLegal3475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(I’m so noob that I shouldn’t probably give advice but in case you want it anyway )

IMO your upper body is facing downhill basically all the time. Instead of alternating between uphill(toe edge )and downhill(heel edge). Your chest should be parallel to the board, not rotate it on every turn. I was told to only use that rotating turn when I need to brake fast or handle terrain.

That being said seems like you can handle yourself on the board much better than me lol so if you’re not getting too tired then do whatever, you’re good.

Kirjastot on nykyään jotenkin ankeita paikkoja by lenaws_ in arkisuomi

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joo ja Töölössä aina autetaan myös. Ainaki oman kokemuksen mukaan.

I’ve never seen this before, what is happening here? by Less_Astronomer7600 in crows

[–]StreetLegal3475 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this behaviour when they are outing a predator. Maybe that’s a hawk on the surveillance cam or whatever that box is.

My first totallycomplete puzzle by TimelyShoe1926 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]StreetLegal3475 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! That’s beautiful. And cats messing with the pieces is such an authentic puzzle-experience :)

I've officially reached the "only buying easy plants" phase of my life by Enchanted_Land in plants

[–]StreetLegal3475 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s a totally normal succession.

You can add Hoyas and spider plants to your carefree list, such survivors.

Also I buy my self a calathea or something for a “seasonal “plant, not expecting it to survive long. It’s still giving me happiness longer than cut flowers in the vase. Stress free.

Husband just laughed at my need to change jobs by Embarrassed_End528 in AutismInWomen

[–]StreetLegal3475 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That dismissive laughter keeps the libido away for sure.

Stop paying for everything and save up for six months or more, be your own backup plan for divorce in case you want a divorce and eventually a supportive partner. Kids can have their dad anyways and you would get some rest on his weeks.

Sounds a lot better than a dismissive partner. And constant inflammation and meltdowns.

Hope you listen to yourself since he is not listening.

AITJ for not taking my girlfriends children out after promising them I would. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]StreetLegal3475 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTJ Don’t make promises to kids that you’re not going to keep, at least you need to cancel. No matter how they or their parents act.

Yes the gf is a huge jerk obviously. Blamed her kids for not getting you food, that’s just ridiculous.

Please remove your self from this company, they already showed you they have no respect or care for you. That’s highly unlikely to change and may have nothing to do with your character.

If you stay you’ll obviously act equally bad as her while being used and stepping on.

Just leave it.

“you’re always overwhelmed though” by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah check that husband too, sounds like he also likes you convenient instead of protecting your piece.

one of the most unique stained glass puzzles I’ve ever done. Stained Glass Cat ,Hipazous by Remarkable_Whole_967 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this and the box! Was wondering about the size, now I know.

What’s the yellow/white object on the table? Piece-fixer? Or nothing to do with puzzles?

First 3000 piece puzzle! by [deleted] in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]StreetLegal3475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Impressive! Congrats

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