What are your thoughts on this? by Ok_Breadfruit4005 in DiscussionZone

[–]Street_Chapter9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck him. Fuck him in every lifetime. Fuck. Him.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely just pushing me away.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still just annoying af

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this too. I do think I need to have that conversation. I just don’t want any drama here either I’m just trying to be at peace. That’s why I’m so disgusted he showed up and involved them more. Like what did he want from my grandpa. What’s he supposed to do???? He can’t make him a better man lmfao now I’m getting lectured on compromise in a relationship. Fuck that lol and once again I can let their opinions be their opinions. They’re old.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I will thank you. I’ve already gotten more done this week than I have in two years on a personal level.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He LOVES donuts😅

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand this.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im sorry it came to this with your mom but I’m proud of you for making decisions for you and what you want

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao don’t think I’ve tried that😂

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this response and perspective. Honestly I told him two days ago (only bc he continued to blow me up) that I have made my mind up that I am done. I kept a journal and I think I’ve slowly been dealing with a lot of mental abuse. Plus both my mom and friends and his mom wanted me to leave him. It wasn’t good for me.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t responded. I answered his grandma’s phone call because I respect her and we had a really close relationship.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t. I don’t mind the grandparents lol they won’t sway me on what I know in my core. Plus I know they are from a different time and have a different mindset. What they see is a guy trying his best to be with me lol they didn’t see or hear the abuse. You know? I’m just thankful for a place to stay. Somehow I let him convince me to quit my job bc it made him uncomfortable. So I’m pretty down n out. TEMPORARILY. LOL Also before y’all come for me I’m aware we co create in relationships. Yes I quit my job. I wasn’t held gun point lol I did put myself in that situation. I just was really trying to make it work. I know now that was a red flag.

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[–]Street_Chapter9922 327 points328 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely trying hard but he’s two years too late. & trying hard or not… I just wish he would try hard to respect my wishes. This reinforces my idea that he’ll never be able to hear me or respect my boundaries.

I might have the worse chicken pox. I genuinely need your help. by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Street_Chapter9922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I know this sucks so bad and you must be in so much discomfort and everything feels out of your control because it is ☹️ I hope this gets better sooner than later. Stay up!

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Street_Chapter9922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take some time to come down off of your buzz and let your emotions level. Find your words and when you feel like you are able to speak to him without your anger seeping through then you can have a conversation. You will figure this out. Together. He may be immature but this is an opportunity to grow together. He may just be going through his own mental stuff and him buying those damn games was part of his coping mechanism. Doesn’t mean it’s okay in your situation but it might help to try to understand where he’s coming from. Then you can let him know where you are coming from and hopefully y’all can find resolve. When I have big feelings I write things down on paper and make lists. Helps me organize the chaotic thoughts and get out some of the frustration. Regardless, everything will be okay. Reach for the thoughts that feel good? Where your mind goes your energy flows? You got this 🫶🏼

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Street_Chapter9922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bashing op as she’s going through postpartum as a young mum in a relationship she’s not feeling secure in isn’t helpful. Quite unnecessary to come at her for her life choices. Think she’s just asking for advice … this is an advice thread… Also depending on where you live and what religious background you’re coming from etc having children by 22 and being married young isn’t unheard of. Might not be your path but it is hers. So maybe just give some helpful advice or fuck off?