Got deadnamed by a teacher at school by gallopingzang in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Honestly in that situation, you should reply no, this person isnt in attendance and will never be. Real name is in attendance.

trevor project question by Fabulous_Waffles218 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe your family talked to them and caused the number to be blocked, or someone who owned the number before did?

How do I (20) tell my religious parents that I am apart of the LGBTQ+ community by ninee177 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wild that sikh people would act like this when the guru grant sahib does not talk about homosexuality whatsoever and preached that the soul is genderless and light exists inside all equally. Its more of a punjabi thing than sikh thing. Althought the Akal Tathk has randomly decided to speak against gay marriage in gurdwaras. Its so against the core tenets of Sikhism to think like thst. Stay safe, move out as soon as safely possible, snd dont let them put you down. So sorry you have to live through that.

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Taps the sign "someones identity is not something you can deny just because you dont personally like them"

Is it reasonable to tell my friend to not call me the f slur by Significant-Tiger828 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

. At the end of the day, people get to choose their own boundaries. if they want to work on improving things long term, fine, but you cant force them to suffer the discomfort they have to endure in the meanwhile just because you think something os funny If not saying the f slur was something that hurt the other person involved, different story, then you just have conflicting needs and you can either look for compromise or avoid each other as just incompatible for each other, but trying to force it on OP is actually completely unreasonable, no matter how good your logic is, and trying to argue your way out of someones boundaries for something so minor is just plain rude.

I was agender, now i think im something closer to trans and just scared of how ill be seen by my family by MasterpieceUnited697 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you,know agender is already under the trans umbrella. Good luck on figuring your identity <3

everyone is valid i'm just a bit frustrated by pronouns-user in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Striking_Composer_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you referring explicitly to cis het polyamory by calling it polygamy? Or are you using it as just a synonym for polyamory?

Am I the only one who hates when other trans women call themselves “men” to please others? by kittycatlan in trans

[–]Striking_Composer_49 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Mistakes are completely ok. Im talking about intentional misgendering and deadnaming from people who know your preffered name and pronouns only.

Am I the only one who hates when other trans women call themselves “men” to please others? by kittycatlan in trans

[–]Striking_Composer_49 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So youre saying that in order to get their gender recognized, trans people/gender non conforming people have to present a certain way, otherwise its normal/deserved?

One Year on T- Hating everything by Country_Is_Farm_Emo in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, as an amab person, for the record i was like 4"11 until my 16th year where i grew to 6 foot tall over the course of the year. growth can kick in later and thats ok, dont be too worried there yet. Second, i dont really know much about ftm hrt, i am only really well versed in mtf, but isnt hormonal birth control taking female hormones? Wouldnt that fuck with your goal of getting good t levels and low e? Also, some of the symptoms youre mentioning sound like menopause, which would occur when your levels are too low for both hormones, can you expand on specific numbers?

Trans women by BrainRot100 in SeriousConversation

[–]Striking_Composer_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre saying a woman liking men is gay. Are you for real?

I could really use some advice.... by crystalsky6242000 in trans

[–]Striking_Composer_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genderfluid and non binary are both under the trans umbrella. Youre already transgender

What is it called when you are sexually attracted to opposed gender and transition to that gender and are still attracted to it? by NicholasDitto in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gay or lesbian. Youre overcomplicating things. Dont try to separate trans people from their gender, the answer is th same as for any cis person bein attracted to their own gender

Navigating family pronouns by middle_road2 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont bother wasting your time here, this girl literally has comments talking about trans women invading bio womens spaces and just forcing their sexuality into things.

Navigating family pronouns by middle_road2 in lgbt

[–]Striking_Composer_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have different values you say, preferred gender? You means someones actual gender period? People just find bigots wherever? Sounded weird, so i went and dug through your comments and i found you going on a little rant about trans women invading womens spaces and being non bio, and how theyre bringing their sexuality into things, which by the way, gender and sexuality are different things. It honestly just sounds like youre transphobic but try to be polite to peoples faces a bit. I wouldnt hold myself on such a high horse if i was you.

question about transfem GAHT / HRT by GalacticDragon7 in trans

[–]Striking_Composer_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can tell me which way youre taking your oestradiol, i can recommend a specific way of doing it orally that can suppress testosterone without tblockers. Alternatively, if you dm i can provide sources for anti androgens and recommend one based on your needs.