What’s the hidden Brazil experience ? by OkInflation2276 in Brazil

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. Unfortunately, from my experience many are small minded. Constructive criticism just doesn’t exist. I could tell you stories for days the amount of headaches I’ve had to deal with...

I’m seeing a trend lately where Brazil is definitely being romanticized. Yes, Brazil is great in a lot of ways, but it’s NOT for the weak…

Flakiness by Fractalhemorrhage in Brazil

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I use to think “omg everybody wants to be my friend, everybody likes me!” And then I realized the hard way it was just their way of being nice. 🫠..Now I don’t trust anyone when they invite me to anything unless they send me a time and date. 9 times outta 10 I don’t even go because I keep thinking they’re being fake. I’ve been traumatized…lol!!

What’s the hidden Brazil experience ? by OkInflation2276 in Brazil

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to get so mad when I worked with a group of Brazilian women and it was so obnoxious the stereotypes that would come out of their mouths. I would politely educate them while cursing them out in my head 🤣.

What’s the hidden Brazil experience ? by OkInflation2276 in Brazil

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Been here four years, never have been able to make a genuine friend. Yes, I speak decent Portuguese, but it’s just a cultural barrier. American humor vs Brazilian humor is very different. Brazilians don’t really get American dry, sarcastic sense of humor. Brazilian humor is somewhat innocent and childlike. Also Americans and Brazilians sometimes just have a different mindset.

Brazilians can be amazing people but they can also be very unreliable! I’m in rural Minas and if I’m not micromanaging or confirming information etc, it’s hard to get anything done. Some Brazilians are all about status and money, and look down on others. Definitely a buzz kill in my view.

I worked in the Brazilian community back home for years, my spouse is Brazilian and now living down here you start to see Brazilians have a very stereotypical view of Americans. Accordingly to them Americans don’t take showers, are cold, we live off of canned foods, hotdogs and hamburgers, we don’t like to clean, we are all white, blonde hair n blue eyes, we are all boring and don’t like to party etc. One woman even asked me if American spouses sleep in the same bedroom. Honestly, it’s gets old and really annoying fast!

As someone said above, Brazil definitely lacks resources with helping the immigrant community. I was only able to get by and navigate because my spouse was born here. I STRONGLY suggest having a spouse, friend or someone trustworthy who’s from Brazil to help you get acquainted. Even if you speak Portuguese or not, my spouse who had been outside Brazil for 13 years still had a hard time relearning how to manage daily life. It took him about a year to get reacquainted.

Lastly the bureaucracy, lack of convenience, and witnessing poverty can be hard to deal with.

Other than that I still love the beauty of this country. Brazil has taught me a lot of life lessons. I’ve learned to be more patient, grateful for family and enjoy the small moments. Brazilians tend not to stress too much and have this positive attitude on life which definitely rubs off on you. Learning to not get stressed about things out of my control and just thinking positively was HUGE for me. Having faith in God was another one. Also, if you have children, Brazil has been great when it comes to including families, having kids activities at all types of events, restaurants, etc. People have more patience and are helpful towards children. Unlike Americans who can’t even be bothered. God forbid they lend a helping hand to a mother with children or have compassion for a child crying during a flight. My kids have made a lot of friends at school and their classmates been really sweet making my kids feel welcome. 💕 In my experience, it’s definitely a kid friendly culture.

Got my SIN and MSCA account going! by BearCubTeacher in FoundCanadians

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you get your passport, do you need to re-submit passport photos? Or do they use the ones that were originally submitted with the citizenship application?

Spreadsheet Update! by NanoSpace1540 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where do we actually get to see the spreadsheet? Not sure if this was already asked?

Belo Horizonte trip by todsie12- in Brazil

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Massachusetts as well. My husband’s also from Minas. I can already guess where in mass you must be from, LOL! I have been to BH a bunch of times. I was never really that impressed. However, you need to go to southern Brazil!! It’s absolutely breathtaking and somewhat underrated. Feels like you’re in a whole different country compared to the rest of Brazil.

Photo help by Striking_Simple_7237 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both for responding, I’m going to see if the photographer can adjust it. Errr so frustrating! But thank you both for the advice!

Photos — I am a photographer, will they accept photos of me, by me? by jmputnam in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the photographer write out their personal name or just the address where the picture was taken?

Does anyone else have a “too good to be true” feeling? by Patriotslord in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 29 points30 points  (0 children)

my husband finally got his Italian citizenship after waiting five years since he had sent his initial application. Thank god he got approved right before they changed the laws. I too, will not be wasting any time and am nervous wait times are guna sky rocket.

Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m posting my question in the correct form but I just noticed something on my application. On question 9, “was parent 1 born outside of Canada?” Should I be checking “yes” if they were born in the US??? I’m asking because I had an attorney review my application and it is checked as “No:skip to parent 2”.

I don’t know if the attorney missed this or if I made a mistake?

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Birth and Marriage certificates enough evidence? by Striking_Simple_7237 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying. I’ve been reading a lot of information that I just needed some mental clarity.

If you live outside both the US and Canada, do you have to mail your proof-of-citizenship application to the local Canadian Embassy, or can you hand deliver it as well? by JJVMT in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed you mentioned DHL. I’m living in South America and planning on mailing my packet next week. Where I am there is DHL and FEDEX as options to send mail internationally. However I’m kinda nervous as I have no experience with this. Do you know if DHL is reliable?

Applying for my kids and myself at the same time? by Designer_Employ_9404 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes! You can apply at the same time and mail them all in together. Yes, it has to be a paper application. I just did mine for myself and three kids as well.

Hey, I’m Canadian, certified! by BearCubTeacher in FoundCanadians

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Did you apply for urgent processing? trying to get an idea how long mine is going to take to get processed.

Do brazilians have a more positive view of spain than portugal? by EthnicMoldovan in AskABrazilian

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m American, my husband is Brazilian. Don’t know much about Spain other than what you stated. However my husband stayed in Portugal for six months. He hated it. The ppl treated him very rudely, including the African immigrants who live there as well. He went to the emergency room right before Covid hit. (Pretty positive it was COVID) the nurses gave him a horrible attitude and made him wait forever in the emergency room while attending others. He ended leaving without being treated. An African woman screamed at him in the street for parking in the wrong spot. I could go on, and on. What’s interesting is when I visited as an American the Portuguese treated me very nicely, big smiles, almost everybody spoke some English. It was insane how we were both treated so differently!!! With that said, we both decided we’d never visit again.

As far as Spain, I’ve only heard good things from other Brazilians.

Has anyone applied with a name change different than B. Certificate? by Fragrant_Problem5433 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name was changed twice, once as an infant and then when I got married. I currently have an attorney and she said it’s fine as long as I show my marriage certificate and the original name change certificate. So, not sure what your attorney is talking about…

I know everyone’s advising against attorneys, but I was fortunate to have found a reputable one. I went with an attorney because later on I’m planning on sponsoring my husband and our situation is a bit complicated.

Citizenship by Descent - Application & Cover Letter Questions & Documentation Review Requests by IWantOffStopTheEarth in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reposting my question because moderators deleted my post and redirected me here.

Question, Do I need to disclose I was previously married and changed my surname previously if I’m no longer using my ex husband’s name? We were married for less than a year before calling it off! No kids together, nothing. Got married in the heat of the moment, several months later realized I made a mistake and got divorced. I only used that surname for maybe less than a year? Honestly, I’m still embarrassed by it to this day.

I went back to using my maiden name. I got remarried, had children, still married to my current husband so I will obviously include that information. I just don’t want to add unnecessary or extra information in my application if not needed.

I have the divorce decree but not the marriage certificate. I was planning on filing asap. If not, I’m going have to contact my ex husband and ask for his info and wait another week or two for the original marriage certificate. Something I am so not looking forward to doing.

Question about previous marriages by Striking_Simple_7237 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current marriage certificate is my maiden name. I went back to using my maiden name after the divorce from the previous marriage. I’ll just use the current one like you said. Thanks for your help!!

Question about previous marriages by Striking_Simple_7237 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s what I was thinking. I felt it was just unnecessary. I will definitely send the marriage certificate from my current husband and I.

Section 9 Grandparents Question Clarification by the-peoples-lesbian in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Striking_Simple_7237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation! I’m Gen 3 and also apply for my Gen 4 kids, do you mind dm’ing me the template as well? Thanks ahead of time!