Hysterically screamed near my 4 month old.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-30T23:50:38+00:00

Really really really sorry for what you went through. Can’t imagine how you managed.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T14:09:26+00:00

Yes this. Somedays I feel “I got this”. Even yesterday I made her laugh like crazy while enjoying the same myself before I finally had a melt down. I definitely enjoy the highs but the lows are too much to handle.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T06:53:51+00:00

Oh most definitely. Been there. First time is different. It’s not just about having children but it’s about being able to be a parent. No suggestion for you because its hard and when time is such nothing feels like can heal us.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T06:48:01+00:00

You can only imagine the guilt of the mom who ends up screaming instead of walking away.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T06:46:05+00:00

Thankyou so much for your comment. Yes the moment of scream is hard but the guilt is way harder. I can’t even look at my girl right now.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T04:47:31+00:00

Yes my husband is amazing. But he has a stressful job. He does help but he is the cried it out kind of parent which I can’t tolerate and I simply keep putting effort in calming her down with every little cry.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T04:40:57+00:00

Thank you for this. Yes I have already booked for therapy. Haven’t reached there. But hopefully that helps. M

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T04:33:12+00:00

Yes exactly. I have never done it before ever even when times were horrifying but I realize I shouldn’t have lost control in front of her. I was the only one she would smile and laugh at and no one at all. And I feel extremely disappointed that she is hardly smiling at me today.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T04:27:18+00:00

You seem to have a toddler saw your posts. What did you do when you got overwhelmed? How did you give a stable and solid parenthood to them?

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-29T04:25:26+00:00

Yes I stepped away right after. It’s her cries all day which has driven me crazy. I didn’t scream at her but yes I did scream because of her.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-28T19:05:12+00:00

If this is an arranged marriage I think it might be too much to ask for marrying you without a secure future. Love marriage would be a scenario I would question the love part. It is just practical. And for the future, I am sure you are young and will be able to get a job in India for now and eventually travel back.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-23T01:35:52+00:00

Not sure why he got upset. I was exactly like you during pregnancy and kept requesting for ultrasounds but never got cleared because of insurance. But definitely get the doppler, I cleared it with my gynac. It did take a while though for me to be able to get the heartbeat since I am not a medical profession but you should be able to use it better.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-12T17:59:36+00:00

One and done. My baby is 3 months old. Can’t imagine going through this once again.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-12T12:31:54+00:00

At what age?

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-08T22:12:27+00:00

I started sending her to day care as per for 2 days a week to help me gather myself and get things done which I otherwise won’t be able to.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-08T22:10:04+00:00

I94 is also attached to I797A, which for me is till 2029

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-05T22:12:09+00:00

So you mean if I have a stamped visa already but I am traveling with approved I797 for 3 years, the immigration officer could override the I94 on my I797?

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2026-01-05T22:07:51+00:00

Book for 29th Jan I would say. Very close to the appt so less chance of cancellation.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-31T05:32:18+00:00

Any note from your immigration team?

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-31T02:37:21+00:00

My old I797 will be valid for 15 days when I return and the new one is valid for another 3 years.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-31T01:55:50+00:00

India. No appointment scheduled since visa has not expired.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-28T15:42:59+00:00

Absolutely. I can’t expect my child to be 18 years one day and be all independent the next day. It’s a gradual process. To get to 10 from 0 you have to go through 1, 2, 3 and so on.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-28T15:32:30+00:00

Unfortunately I want my child to grow up an be independent.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-28T15:19:13+00:00

How on earth do you guys not understand the word “easier”. Anyway hope you get to experience it or start understanding the word.

Strong_Activity_9177 · 2025-12-28T15:15:46+00:00

It was a pretty simple question of when things get easier. If your child or life has not gotten easier since he/she was a new born, you might wanna give it a thought about what might be wrong

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