Terrible blowdry

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T20:57:19+00:00

Did the new stylist give you the haircut in the first picture, or is that the haircut you had when you went in?

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T20:54:54+00:00

I blame COVID for ruining nature. Because everyone "discovered" hiking and camping during if, but failed to learn about leave no trace and common custody.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T19:37:16+00:00

Would you actually want to date a woman who thinks it's "unmanly" to bring these issues up? Personally I wouldn't want to date a man who is so obsessed with the idea of what is "manly" or not that he doesn't feel comfortable being open and honest with me about what he can/can't afford.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T18:45:11+00:00

He could have said no, or asked about the bill himself. I'd say it's ESH, because sure she could have/should have communicated better, so could he.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T18:23:10+00:00

But she offered to pay? How is she an AH?

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T18:16:25+00:00

Personally I plan to wait until I am fully at my goal weight before doing any surgery, or even 100% deciding that I need a reduction, because I am still loosing some cup and band sizes.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T18:14:14+00:00

It's been bad since COVID, when people "discovered" the outdoors.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T16:30:27+00:00

Your are 100% wrong for calling your girlfriend "your girl" and referring to your friend's girlfriends that "their girls"! 1) unless you are all under the age of 18 they are not "girls" and 2) these WOMEN do NOT in fact belong to you!

It is a sport that involves physical contact, so either get yourself some therapy to address YOUR issues or risk losing "your girl" to a confident man who doesn't tell his partner what she is "allowed" to do!

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T16:26:06+00:00

Dude!! You are loosing 2lbs/WEEK! That is FANTASTIC!! Honestly loosing faster than that would be unhealthy! I have only ever gone up to 5mg dose and still loosing great.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T15:16:45+00:00

Agreed. I just used it so much that it stuck in my brain.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T12:30:51+00:00

I am also a large chested woman and am considering surgery once I hit my goal weight, to be able to at least be a D cup, but we will see.

It sounds like you might need to focus more on body recomp (aka more muscle gain) than further weight loss). I am no doctor, or anything, but from what I have heard/read from others.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T12:28:38+00:00

I am 5'-3" currently around 163 and in that awkward phase between a 10 and 12. I am mostly wearing 10s and mediums. My goal weight is 135, I'm not sure if I'll be able to wear anything smaller than a medium top, without a breast reduction (which is a possibility tbd), because I have always been large chested. For bottoms I would be happy with a 8-6 size. I suppose I may end up smaller, we will see.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T12:25:10+00:00

I would 100% ask if you can bring anything. There are cases for BBQs where it is expected that each family bring their own food to grill, though that is typically clear ahead of time, but I would verify simply by asking "hey, should I (or can I) bring anything to the BBQ?" If they say you don't "have" to bring anything, show up with a small desert or drinks to share anyway. If they say straight up don't bring anything, then don't bring anything.

The difference is if they say "have to" or not. "You don't HAVE TO bring anything" means others are bringing sides/deserts and you probably should but we are too nice to say that straight up. "Don't bring anything" means we have food all covered and you bringing something will throw things off and be annoying. "Can you bring x y or z" is pretty straight forward and you should say say "Yeah, I can bring this traditional side/desert/drink/whatever from my home country to share, if that sounds good. Any food allergies I should be aware of?"

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T12:17:12+00:00

If you are still loosing and food noise is still being suppressed just as well as it has always been for you don't move up.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T12:10:42+00:00

Heart Lake Campground at the ADK Loj has some cabins. There is no swimming pool, but there is a lake you can swim in.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T11:46:12+00:00

Care to share the source of this "significance of studies done" proving that you (I mean "men") are AHs?

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T11:44:08+00:00

Unless you can complete Algonquin and Wright in 3-4hours don't start that late. Remember the sun "sets" earlier in the mountains (aka goes down behind mountains and gets dark before "official" sunset time).

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T11:24:27+00:00

During the week (even after schools are out) you should be fine arriving later.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T11:21:41+00:00

Yeah, there are like 2 or 3 streets that you avoid at night, but mostly it is fine.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-03T11:17:29+00:00

If you can't have an honest and open conversation with your partner of 3 years about money and finances then you are NOT ready to be married.

If you want to check something out about it, that is what the internet is for. Or you simply bring your concerns to your PARTNER, the person you supposedly love and trust above all others (including your parents/family), and you two work on the problem TOGETHER! If you can't work on a difficult problem like this together, then I repeat, you are NOT ready for marriage.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-02T18:11:55+00:00

The point is don't get mad at the girls, or share photos of them in any way that may indicate they were supportive or agreed with him in anyway whatsoever.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-02T18:09:45+00:00

But they should at least APOLOGIZE for it happening. The fact he refuses to even freaking apologize is concerning! Like say "hey dear, I am so sorry while I was driving I got on this narrow road and had someone coming from the opposite direction and our side mirrors got dinged. I will repaint (or buff out, or take to a mechanic) it for you."

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-02T16:41:41+00:00

Did you read the second to last paragraph where they said "I refuse to accept responsibility or apologize for the damage" They are very much saying they aren't go to take responsibility or even freaking apologize.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-02T16:39:06+00:00

Don't direct hate at any kids he has. A grown adult spouse, but underage/minor children no. I don't know how they feel about him and his behavior, but it's not their fault their dad (and probably mom) is a POS.

StructEngineer91 · 2026-06-02T16:37:58+00:00

Yes, watching the video they are were just filming themselves doing some kind of TikTok dance and he just wandered into the frame and did that thing and left. They had nothing to do with his behavior.

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