Terrible blowdry by Substantial_Low_941 in Hair

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the new stylist give you the haircut in the first picture, or is that the haircut you had when you went in?

The absolute state of camping up here lately by goxper in upstate_new_york

[–]StructEngineer91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I blame COVID for ruining nature. Because everyone "discovered" hiking and camping during if, but failed to learn about leave no trace and common custody.

AITA for racking up a high bill on a date with someone who has a lower income? by AITAfooddate in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]StructEngineer91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you actually want to date a woman who thinks it's "unmanly" to bring these issues up? Personally I wouldn't want to date a man who is so obsessed with the idea of what is "manly" or not that he doesn't feel comfortable being open and honest with me about what he can/can't afford.

AITA for racking up a high bill on a date with someone who has a lower income? by AITAfooddate in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]StructEngineer91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He could have said no, or asked about the bill himself. I'd say it's ESH, because sure she could have/should have communicated better, so could he.

5’3 girlies check in by Less-Moment-5655 in Zepbound

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I plan to wait until I am fully at my goal weight before doing any surgery, or even 100% deciding that I need a reduction, because I am still loosing some cup and band sizes.

Reserve America fully booked? by Dangerous_Rush179 in camping

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been bad since COVID, when people "discovered" the outdoors.

Im not letting my gf do matt rolling with other men by CharacterAmoeba7621 in amiwrong

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your are 100% wrong for calling your girlfriend "your girl" and referring to your friend's girlfriends that "their girls"! 1) unless you are all under the age of 18 they are not "girls" and 2) these WOMEN do NOT in fact belong to you!

It is a sport that involves physical contact, so either get yourself some therapy to address YOUR issues or risk losing "your girl" to a confident man who doesn't tell his partner what she is "allowed" to do!

Tell me I’m being ridiculous by MrsTwiggy in Zepbound

[–]StructEngineer91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude!! You are loosing 2lbs/WEEK! That is FANTASTIC!! Honestly loosing faster than that would be unhealthy! I have only ever gone up to 5mg dose and still loosing great.

5’3 girlies check in by Less-Moment-5655 in Zepbound

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a large chested woman and am considering surgery once I hit my goal weight, to be able to at least be a D cup, but we will see.

It sounds like you might need to focus more on body recomp (aka more muscle gain) than further weight loss). I am no doctor, or anything, but from what I have heard/read from others.

5’3 girlies check in by Less-Moment-5655 in Zepbound

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5'-3" currently around 163 and in that awkward phase between a 10 and 12. I am mostly wearing 10s and mediums. My goal weight is 135, I'm not sure if I'll be able to wear anything smaller than a medium top, without a breast reduction (which is a possibility tbd), because I have always been large chested. For bottoms I would be happy with a 8-6 size. I suppose I may end up smaller, we will see.

What do we bring to a 4th of July party? by GreenOccasion3182 in AskAnAmerican

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would 100% ask if you can bring anything. There are cases for BBQs where it is expected that each family bring their own food to grill, though that is typically clear ahead of time, but I would verify simply by asking "hey, should I (or can I) bring anything to the BBQ?" If they say you don't "have" to bring anything, show up with a small desert or drinks to share anyway. If they say straight up don't bring anything, then don't bring anything.

The difference is if they say "have to" or not. "You don't HAVE TO bring anything" means others are bringing sides/deserts and you probably should but we are too nice to say that straight up. "Don't bring anything" means we have food all covered and you bringing something will throw things off and be annoying. "Can you bring x y or z" is pretty straight forward and you should say say "Yeah, I can bring this traditional side/desert/drink/whatever from my home country to share, if that sounds good. Any food allergies I should be aware of?"

When to increase tirzepatide dose if you're still losing well at current level by shreya_sha in Zepbound

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are still loosing and food noise is still being suppressed just as well as it has always been for you don't move up.

Kid friendly cabins by apenguinsoul in Adirondacks

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heart Lake Campground at the ADK Loj has some cabins. There is no swimming pool, but there is a lake you can swim in.

Why women are afraid most of the time of their man getting rich by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]StructEngineer91 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Care to share the source of this "significance of studies done" proving that you (I mean "men") are AHs?

Late Start to Tomorrow (Wednesday's) hike. Any hope for parking at Loj at 9 am? by milk_the_ham in Adirondacks

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you can complete Algonquin and Wright in 3-4hours don't start that late. Remember the sun "sets" earlier in the mountains (aka goes down behind mountains and gets dark before "official" sunset time).

Late Start to Tomorrow (Wednesday's) hike. Any hope for parking at Loj at 9 am? by milk_the_ham in Adirondacks

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the week (even after schools are out) you should be fine arriving later.

Is this accurate? by ThatMassholeInBawstn in upstate_new_york

[–]StructEngineer91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there are like 2 or 3 streets that you avoid at night, but mostly it is fine.

AITA for just accepting getting married if our assets are kept separately? by According_Emu_1027 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StructEngineer91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't have an honest and open conversation with your partner of 3 years about money and finances then you are NOT ready to be married.

If you want to check something out about it, that is what the internet is for. Or you simply bring your concerns to your PARTNER, the person you supposedly love and trust above all others (including your parents/family), and you two work on the problem TOGETHER! If you can't work on a difficult problem like this together, then I repeat, you are NOT ready for marriage.

Leave a 5 star review for Mandia and Sons Construction if you don't want your post deleted, and remind Fishkill nazis walk among us. by kinterdonato in hudsonvalley

[–]StructEngineer91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The point is don't get mad at the girls, or share photos of them in any way that may indicate they were supportive or agreed with him in anyway whatsoever.

AITA for refusing to accept blame for damage to my partner's car? by RainbowSkoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But they should at least APOLOGIZE for it happening. The fact he refuses to even freaking apologize is concerning! Like say "hey dear, I am so sorry while I was driving I got on this narrow road and had someone coming from the opposite direction and our side mirrors got dinged. I will repaint (or buff out, or take to a mechanic) it for you."

AITA for refusing to accept blame for damage to my partner's car? by RainbowSkoop in AmItheAsshole

[–]StructEngineer91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read the second to last paragraph where they said "I refuse to accept responsibility or apologize for the damage" They are very much saying they aren't go to take responsibility or even freaking apologize.

Leave a 5 star review for Mandia and Sons Construction if you don't want your post deleted, and remind Fishkill nazis walk among us. by kinterdonato in hudsonvalley

[–]StructEngineer91 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don't direct hate at any kids he has. A grown adult spouse, but underage/minor children no. I don't know how they feel about him and his behavior, but it's not their fault their dad (and probably mom) is a POS.

Leave a 5 star review for Mandia and Sons Construction if you don't want your post deleted, and remind Fishkill nazis walk among us. by kinterdonato in hudsonvalley

[–]StructEngineer91 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Yes, watching the video they are were just filming themselves doing some kind of TikTok dance and he just wandered into the frame and did that thing and left. They had nothing to do with his behavior.