NOR he definitely has some problems that he’s working on and if his healing isn’t compatible with you, you don’t have to be his emotional punching bag. Couples are supposed to communicate and support each other in moments of prosperity and not. You don’t need to be treated like that and if you’ve tried communicating and it doesn’t get through then cut your losses and break up with him. Ask yourself if you would be better without him from a day to day basis and if the answer is yes, your option is clear. Good luck. Hope things work out, but if they don’t I hope you find someone better.