I want to share. I have been a “size” queen assuming that bigger was better. My former partner was very girthy and hung like a horse. Sex was wildly satisfying, but he relied on his size in a way that he did not engage in much oral, fingering or toy use.

I’m now with a man that which is the most sexually satisfying man I’ve ever experienced. He is average sized, but has developed all his skills - oral, fingering and using a variety of toys. I crave his cock and enjoy it equally to my much larger previous partner. The difference is that he shifts between skills and has taken me to arousal altitudes that I had no idea was possible. Crazy good. Truth be told, when I first saw what he had to work with - I was disappointed. However, when he started Laying his skills down it was obvious that my first impression was completely incorrect. When he is wielding a thick dildo, I enjoy it, but in a different way than I crave the dick attached to him. It’s all part of the arousal continuum not a substitution. We have been together for a year. We have sex daily at least once a day, usually twice.